My dear, u re even lucky he hasn't taken u to d alter. Mine took me to d alter nd i have two kids. Now i'm alone with my kids while he is out there with his fleets of girls not minding if we re dead or alive. He can neva change. Pls move on with ur life cos he is nt for u. Wish u d best

We really have funny guys in NL. Why would u call ur EX names when he/she was once ur heartrob. At one tyme u both proffesed undying love for eachoda. Don't u think u r what u call ur ex?

Pls friends,i need advice on how to start making friends again. I'm a married woman,but separated with my hubby because i couldn't live with a man as heartless as him. We got married 4 years ago,but i discovered after our wedding dat everything abt him was fake. He had no job nd lived in d villa. But claimed to live nd work in PH. I found out later nd confronted him,he begged me nt to go since i was d only person who could help him change. I accepted because i luved him and was ready to bring d change since he was ready for it and since we r both graduates,i believe we can always get our feet back if we worked together. Little did i knw how wrong i was. Few months into d wedding,i went for youth service and invited him to live with me there while i helped him apply in some plces. But he turned my service year into a miserable one by always beating me each time i go to church,with d excuse that he doesn't fear anyone,even God. Dat was when he told me he was a cult guy. He drinks a lot and smoked weed. He doesn't give me money,rather i spent all d money i earned on him hoping dat he'll change. When i gave birth to my first child,he abandoned my child and i on d road nd i had to go to my parents to stay with my family. For almost two years, we were separated and i roamed the streets of lagos in search of a job i neva got. I only depended on friends and family for sustainance. Finally a friend gave me 30k to start any biz,i came bk to owerri nd started selling OK wears. Few moths later,he called and appologized for all he did to me and want a reunion. Friends advised dat i shld accept him since he has begged, but my family was against it. Considering my baby nd d fact dat i already wedded him,i went bak. But i didn't knw i got it wrong again, cos as i took in with my second baby, he started ignoring us. He'll go out and come bk anytime he wnts without caring abt me nd my baby. He took all d money i was doing biz with. Anytime a girl called him, he'll go. With time,i got infected dat i had a very irritating discharge dat kept me unconfortable for weeks. I complained to him,all he said was dat i should take kia of myself. And dat if i die in his house,he'll will just bury me nd move on. My health was deteriorating and he didn't kia. I had to call my baby sis who arranged a taxi with her money. Dat was how i walked away with my baby and pregnancy. Months later,i gave birth to a baby boy. Till now i'm taking care of them with d help of friends. I'm yet to get a job or raise money to get trained in any handwork. He doesn't care if we live or not. And i'm just stuck in my world without friends(both male and female) i don't knw where and how to start making friends again. I go to bed every night hoping to find happiness again. I'm happy with my kids,but i'm nt happy cos i feel so alone

Nne i thank God u've moved on. I have a similar problem,but with two kids(a boy and a girl). I'm a graduate,but without a job. And anoda problem i have is dat i wedded in d cath. I'm very scared if i'll eva find luv again cos i don't plan going bk to my husband cos d next tym,i might not be lucky to cme out alive.

. Na dis one go dey reign now for naija guys. Magga no dey pay for yahoo yahoo againg. Lol......

I think ur friend should move on with his life nw dat it's early cos if it gets late,he might regret nt leaving now.