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Thanks bro, appreciated

Nauttyprof:


Don’t mind them. Rather than make findings they choose to be rigid and then, stoop so low to name calling over a light matter.

funny thing is she is accusing me of arguing blindly when she’s the one that doesn’t have enough information… she can’t even use her smartphone to corroborate her claims, tueh.

Moji12:
80% of distant relationship don't end well, not even in this era kinda of girls, where yahoo is booming, Instagram and other social media vices. It takes a lot of self discipline to behave and remain focused, referring to both genders. There are jus several things to get you distracted out there.
The watch word is simply SELF-DISCIPLINE �

funny to think they are not even apart or far distant when the lady carried out the act, they were in the same hotel room… ehii God airpus o

Mercychen:


Lol...
I don't do blind argument.

lol you are the one arguing blindly here and quite incapable of learning this is her Instagram handle below… yeye toyin tomato is not king of boys.

Mercychen:
This is not Toyin tomato.
Toyin tomato is shola shobowale.

toyin adegbola aka asewo to re Mecca is toyin tomato not sola sobowale pls, do your findings carefully … sola sobowale doesn’t have any alias until KING OF BOYS

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

I know how hurtful things like this can be but OP God just saved you from the snare of the Fowler… move on, move what? Move on bro.

sulaimon22:
So a friend of mine seek for my advice on whether to leave his 30k teaching job to establish a POS and Recharge card printing Business in a small scale.

He has 500k saved up prior to December and invested 150,000 into crypto currency, now he wants to know if resigning from his teaching job would be a good thing to do as his tired of his current job.

What advice would you give to this person?

For me it is a big yes, if he invest 250k in the pos and recharge card business in a very good area and he is dilliengent with his work I bet he’d be in a more desirable and advantageous position, especially in financial terms... with Pos only, he can make up to 2-3k daily for the first couple of days or weeks and months into the business 5k-10k averagely each day in a very good area (population/exposure). recharge cards sales don’t really worth the time for me tho but your friend needs the traffic… if people who needs to withdraw/deposit money comes to his shop and people who need recharge cards come to his shop for services, small time now shop go grow then he can venture into phone casin sales, phone chargers and all those accessories shey you get. Your friend done turn boss be that.


Ps: he should manage the business himself

kpompey:
First run a DNA test for those those kids . Then pay a matured and trusted ally to track her movement. You can equally track her whatsap using your pc. I am telling you in time, the truth will be unveiled.

how can one track a WhatsApp using pc

Dshocker:


What you wrote up here doesn't say or show any sign of cheating,unless there are other traits she exhibit that you are not telling us.

why did she had to lie about her whereabouts when she could have just said the truth lol.

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Send her to school and marry her. Simple.

iLegendd:
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boss @ilegend what you’re doing us or me in particular on this thread is really insightful and thanks so much for this… I’d like you to help me look into this picture attached below, about selling after in the increase I am still required to fill the Amount (BTC) box before i proceed, what am i to do?

iLegendd:
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hi big boss, I’m new to this thread and i followed your guidelines diligently from the very first beginning and it has being a good ride with you but I’d like you to help me look into this, I got confused here. You stated that money must be moved from the main account to the trading account before one would be able to trade, but what I’m seeing from my own end here is quite different… picture attached below.

Ishilove:
Olori Naomi married a deity. Makes me wonder why the Olori Wuraola fled from the marriage after barely a year.

makes me wonder if all these women marrying kings do not know what they signed up for before going in � a prophettes in a king palace as a wife � greediness or lack of Holy Spirit intervention ahbi weytin i go call am… orichirichi

OneCandleAway:


Na wa for Nigerians oo. Just because the wife is the major earner doesn't mean the husband doesn't make money also.

major earner what? She is not even close to being the major earner, she’s more known to the public than her husband I guess that’s why you think she’s the major earner. Jjc get money low key o

zedegit:


Is this necessary? Very irrelevant comment.


Sole reason is companionship. Child bearing is Jara.

Besides they can adopt.

you dey mind the fool? She even has kids… twins.

CitynewsNG:


Source: https://tribuneonlineng.com/wild-card-odudu-otu-emerges-gulder-ultimate-search-winner/

Nigerians are a very hypocritical set of people, can’t even believe this is the show some people believe it’s better than big brother naija… wtf is this show? Lmao, I don’t even suffer in real life the way these boys suffer all in the name of show… sleeping in the jungle, sleeping on an olden mats in the forest, I also saw usage of all these local lanterns too, is that the show y’all are clamoring for to be brought back? Most of the people saying they should ban Bbn for this useless show doesn’t even know the start and the end date, they don’t even watch it… I can categorically say a bbn house mates that makes it to top ten has more prospect after the show than the winner of this useless show… tueh, spit

Osiris12:
For your information. I don’t have nin and I’m not broke.

I have coinbase

please how do you make money off coin base?

marvellously:
Lool, his mate are using Benz and Lexus baba blow na Voltron e carry

hear person wey no get lady bike dey talk �

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

baba olosho don win you 1:0.

Adakintroy:



Most times I wear bathroom slippers with worn out clothes like a mad person and tell people I a have millions in my acct.

Premonitonally I take it they won't believe. And they usually don't Humans are strange
They don't investigate much they are lazy that way. They judge by site or perceive pre existing conceptions. Dont worry about the money.


I can give you even more than that. Money is nothing to make in Lagos. Just to think you know much that's all. Investigate proper. But with a free mind.

oshey shalaye fc… the guy no dey message you privately sha, anything wey you wan yarn for am put am here make we see…

Adakintroy:
Contact me personal. 08152630925.

Just invest it on my platform. I give you returns of 25, 30k monthly. You don't have to do anything just get your returns flat.

scam is written all over this… mad person

AdeOri99:

Create an ecommerce retail store, it doesn't necessarily need to be your product, you can dropship worldwide.
Check flippa, some business are making close to 100k dollar monthly.
E-commerce is the mother of business, ask jeff.

can you elaborate more on this chief

paddyDIGITAL:
Go to the police if you have strong evidence

baba na police you call like that wey you no use cutlass do ground garagara �

Bluntguy:
Do we need to tell you to report the matter to the police?

do we need to tell you police will request twice the money of the phone to start an investigation?

I just dey see people saying relocate relocate up and down na so e easy to relocate? Lmao all what the op need to do is man up and take charge of your family… it’s not even hard to see that you’re not man enough… when they say man up my brother e no be muscle o

Born2Breed:
Your wife is not ready for married life.

My home, my husband and my kids comes first.

Man up or they will ruin and run you over.

I tire o… the op has so much work to do… and the work is quite simple, Man up and take charge ah oga o

Mercychen:



In this case, they need to go far away from her reach (@ least physically) as it is obvious the aunty has a strong influence on the lady and can easily manipulate her as long as they still come in physical contact with each other.

even if they go far away the wife will still tell that evil aunty their new location, the wife should either go back to her aunty house and spend the rest of her live there since she’s claiming it’s not easy to erase the bond she has with her for 18 years or get wise immediately, no be she even born her lol… and besides i think the man is super soft too like you’re the man of the house nigga, you don’t even show your woman you have all it takes to lead the family because wtf is that fockery lol

Mercychen:
This your story ehn.. e dey pain brain.

If I got you right, you want your wife to disconnect from her aunty?

Well, it will be very difficult because like you said, she was with her for 18yrs. That's a long time to form an unbreakable bond, that's why she can't detach her self easily from her.

I'll advise you relocate to a place they'll not be able to access your house easily. That's the only thing I think can put a stop to all these.

lmao it is not even about disconnecting… once you get married some people have to stay off your home period, even the mother that gave birth to you… she is not needed in your home for whatsoever reasons only if she’s called upon. Wtf is this comment? Why does someone has to have a say in my home? Lmao wonder, na ment e go be sha

NnolimNzubechi:
Hello Nairalanders

My mom died when I was 3 years, and I was the only child she had before she died.

It's been just me and My Dad since then, My childhood was a lonely one. My Dad is 39 years while me am 19years, I will be 20 next year. My dad was young when my mom gave birth to me.

Now my problem is that, despite my age my dad still cages me, he doesn't give me freedom and he doesn't allow me to keep friends, any time he sees me talking with a male friend, he will tell me he doesn't want to see me with anybody, I can't be out side when time done pass 6pm oo or else Na wahala.

At 19 years I can't boast of 1k cos am always staying at his shop, and the thing is driving me crazy. As a man, checking my account balance and seeing (N0.00) dey make me sad, and I don't know how to tell him that I want to stop going to his shop and start a hustling for myself.

I just finished my secondary school and I thought he would give me some free hand but for where?? He gets more strict as time as goes on and its making me hate him. And my dad is a very hot tempered man, he nor dey understand at all at all. Am even tired of staying with him, I have been with him since 19 years, travel he nor dey gree make I travel.

My question is, will he ever stop being like this? I don't want any one to delay me in my life cos it seems it's what he is trying to do, i want to be wealthy at a young age. Being broke makes me feel less of a man.

Please mods move to fp,before I go run commot for house

bro you can never gain anything from being caged by your father and at the same time you can’t leave home without proper reason as to why you want to do that… further your studies in the uni or a polytechnic that’s the only way you can be free… time dey go oo, small time now you go turn 25 and you’d realize you don’t have money to buy yourself or your siblings their basic needs because you’re in a cage… write your jamb and your post utme well then leave home period. And make sure you open your eye and your senses when you get to school make you no graduate finish come still dey lobby for your papa house because you’d later come back to meet what you ran away from. Drops pen �

ToyosiR:
EKU IKALE

SE A JIIRE BII?

TIREEDI YI WA FUN AWON TI WON MOO LILO OWE LATI LE FII KO AWA TII AMOO. NITORI WIPE OOWE LESIN ORO. ORO SI LESIN OWO.

( this thread is for those who know the usage of idioms in other to teach those who don't) because ,

OOYAA KAALOO.


WE MIGHT EXPLAIN THE MEANING IN ENGLISH AS WELL TO HELP THE LESS PRIVELEDGE LIKE ME.

1. SONN LAARIN AJE NII MUNII PEKORO


MEANING /USAGE
To tell someone to go straight to the point and stop perambulating.

Idiom is not the same thing as proverb Op