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pansophist:
One of the biggest mistakes men make in relation to women is to project their psychology and way of seeing the world on them.

For example, if you treat a man nicely, he will think you are a good person, appreciates your kind gestures, and explore the possibility of cultivating a friendship with you. The nicer you are to a man, the more likely he will want to be your friend. Now treat a woman nice, and she will be tempted to think she is better than you, that you are not worthy of her, and that she deserves better.

Her ego will come in the way, she will begin seeing him as a tamed animal, his SMV used to determine the hierarchy she could settle for, as she explores the options of optimizing her hypergamy to the next dude. The nicer a man is to a woman, the further unlikely he will get her. The female psychology is in reverse to the male. They understand good gestures from men as evidence of him trying to score her pussi, not as a signifier of his morality.

The female psyche is internally validated, while the male psyche is external. Treat her bad and she internalizes it as evidence of her defectiveness and try to make you like her, in an attempt to convince herself that she is still a woman of value, while his good treatment is internalized as evidence of her perfection, and that there is no need to be on his good book. You can see this on social media, for example, lots of men will simp on her wall with positive comments, but that one guy that with a backhand remark she will respond to.

RandomThoughts.

Bro this Complete fact

All i can say to you bro is that you should never please any girl...Moat of dem don't worth it.....If you wanna have peace of mind just be yourself...The money and the attitude that you're using for that relationship,if you divert it to yourself now,you'll see that you'll go higher...That's life bro.....
A girl once told me that most girls change..Very unpredictable but when you're a king,a boss,a small god,you'll be very respected among them bro...

thanks man

dairykidd:
I'm beginning to suspect those NL girls are the ones behind all these rubbish threads pretending to be M.. Same old same old shit over and over again

Nah experience is Def the best teacher even being an old nairalander I had to experience it for myself to fully understand I personally didn't spend much on. her personally but niceness and me venerating made her fall completely outta love

Fact1:
Wetin be redpill say the truth?.
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Guys like you misinterpret redpill and makes it look like a bad movement,,,,


I just don't know what to type,,,,

Redpill is not to change your behavior but to guide you in making wise decision and be disciplined,,,,

All the story you wrote nah nonsense,,,,,,

You just put in redpill with no reason,,,

Peace ❤️❤️

you are the one who misinterpreted my message

Stephenmoka4:
Well the temperature at the first spark may not be the same as time goes on for some. It could be she didn't see you the way you see her. Damn man

bro this girl was practically lusting after me at first, untill I decided to return the favour

I've noticed that the redpill movement here has continuesly stated truths about women it answered a lot of unsolved mysteries about Nigerian women I had a girl I once dated I thought she liked me back but when I started giving her money Nd checking up on her giving her attention like normal boifriends do I noticed her own side of the love started dying down like I was I wasn't doing enough, I've been reading stuff here on nairaland and now I'm traumatized so if I'm nice to the girl im dating she's going to think I'm a weakling, if I give her money I be maga, if I call her to check up on her from Time to Time she'll think no body else wants me like WTF I thought dating was an arena to show love and support and companionship to eachother astleast that what I learnt growing but it seems Nigeria of today has turned into a warzone I can't even be honest with my GF cuz I have to reconsider how much such honesty might affect my relationship .. all these stress simply isn't worth it man

PrinceOfEast:
Brotherly no be only you dey this ship oh....but my own thinking fit differ from urs base on say na how to make more money i dey always think of.

If d thinking don too much, ogbeni na to call chioma oh....na bj and tight pussy go reset my brain.

blooda mafo...oluwa go run am for us.

Thanks bro me sef the money matters hold me die

I overthink everything don't get me wrong I appear confident most times but mehn in my head I have 10 different people telling me how Nd what to do, This causes me to act/react impulsively without thinking things through it has affected me in various fields of my life how do I find balance/focus cuz thinking too many things at same time has now made it difficult for me to concentrate. This started during my nysc days and it has affected me both in relationship Nd work I need to get rid of this issue b4 it affects me further cuz I've plans of furthering my education what do I do??

tried all these ended up looking like a biitch heaven knows it'll never happen again

as for being Friendzoned no woman will ever put me there ever lol I'd probably shoot myself first

Juliusmomoh:

Take hearth my brother..

thanks bro this things happen for us to learn personally I hope these girls are ready for the demons they're creating in men

lol your signature is funny I dated a virgin some time ago I discovered her urge to fvck me kept dying down with every attempt I made at being nice to her lol I didn't go as far as you did in spending on her though, but I was paranoid about the Relationship cuz I had the feeling she was getting sex elsewhere while I was fooling myself around smh I really don't think I'd ever date again...

shamsin6300:
I repeat don't! don't ! don't !
You will end up spending all your savings on a ashawo
Las las you will end up contacting infections.

ok but condoms are there and I only wanted it once

seems nobody likes the idea lol maybe I won't go through with it afterall

The urge is way too high it's drowning me

JOACHINpedro:

Ok. My advise is for you to avoid that brothel. As a first timer with a professional, she go make you cum under 3secs so as to milk your cash. If she come sabi the motive behind your visit she go open bankaccount on top your head. That girl that you fingered out her virginity is your sure bet.
1.She's still a novice
2. She still tight
3.she won't lowball you if you flop.

But like I will always say to people Play safe, responsibly and always clean up

Bro we broke up... i also got a friend who's been going there(brothel) Im just having a divided mindset about it

JOACHINpedro:

That means you're insecure.

Do you have a baby dick?

depends on what baby dick is I personally consider myself average

JOACHINpedro:

How did u improve your cunnilingus and fingering?

lol that doesn't really require a pro now does it? especially when the clit is there for you to see

Mchenryfreeman:
So you think you're still a virgin after fingering there's God ooo

lol I don't think so cuz she bled actually

modified: oh you meant me I still am I've gotten BJ's but I never cum..

JOACHINpedro:
Lose a virginity to a hoe!!!
That's grand BS

I'm thinking they can help me get better at my game improve my sexual confidence without Having anxiety, i really loved my last girlfriend but losing her made me realize I need to sort myself out first

Ok so I'm a 24yr old virgin, I'm naturally shy but I can hold my own near a girl infact I got a little game but I have sexual anxiety and I've lost alot of girls cuz of that, my last girl was a virgin too but I never talked to her about it (no girl would like to hear that anyway), I would finger and lick but never sex. Anyway I've decided to let go of the whole Relationship thing cus it's mentally exahustin and I tend to mess things up at some point so I've decided to visit an olosho joint inorder to get over this anxiety I need advice it's my first time having sex and also visiting a brothel I need to work on my sex skills.. I need advice.