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kolatunez: Marriage can and does get boring for both parties either at different times or at the same time. Once you get into a routine, it is inevitable to get bored with it over time. Picture this - you wake up, talk to, sleep beside, eat with, bath with,fight with, take about the same issues, go in the same circles with the same person every single day of your life. There is a reason why sometimes you picked going out with your friends over sitting at home with your mum while growing up, it's not because you value or love her less but just the need to break out of the routine. It is the same for marriage, people always confuse dating with marriage but one key factor that you enjoy in a relationship that is missing in marriage is the absence of the person - the ability to miss the person, the excitement of sneaking around to see the person, or having to go home after spending time with the person. It creates a vacuum to constantly want to see the person and go through that cycle, because once he/she leaves, you're back to your life - just you. In marriage, its the exact opposite, you actually just want to break out of the routine sometimes. The key to dealing with boredom is ensuring you marry someone you love and for the right reasons and consciously staying innovative with how you relate with each other. Even at that, some external factors may cause a strain and put you out of synch with your partner, constant communication and quick resolution is the only thing that keeps a good marriage afloat. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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UyaiUyai: Forestgreen: Some women take longer time to heal than others. I personally started having sex again 2 months after birth but have some friends who didn’t start till 6 months later. Most of the time it is not because their bodies haven’t healed but because of fear and trauma – will it be painful, will it feel the same, will I get pregnant again? Some women talk to their husbands about these fears, while some don’t. it all depends on the atmosphere at home and how they perceive their husbands will take such discussions. That said, based on the statement you made that she indirectly gave you the go ahead to satisfy your urges outside, she may not enjoy sex generally or she doesn’t entirely love you – that is for only you to answer. I can only help with giving advice if you suspect she doesn’t enjoy sex. It may be because she was circumcised or isn’t properly being sexed by you. You should ask her about circumcision. If she was circumcised, you will have to do a lot more work to get her in the mood – wait for her “heat period” (women are usually very Hot just before their periods, during their periods, or just after their periods – please watch your wife and see what type she falls under), when she’s Hot do extra nice things to put her in the mood, then initiate sex with long pre-intimacy, that should be enough to get her in the mood. If she wasn’t circumcised then please give her MouthAction, learn how to do it well if you must – it is the easiest way to give a woman sexual pleasure. It gives women the same feeling sex gives men and before you know it, she will be initiating sex just to have a taste of it. I counsel people and one thing married women complain to me about is tiredness from house chores, I’m not saying this is the case with you but just a general final advise. If your wife is working, babysitting, cooking and cleaning most of the time, the last thing on her mind will be sex at the end of the day. Give her some breaks and take over some chores and see if anything would change. If you need further advice please email me inwanguyai@gmail.com Hope my advise helps. LOL. Why did autocorrect change Hot to Hot and MouthAction to MouthAction? Na wa oh ![]() 1 Like |
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