Thank you soooo much for not Judging her and calling her names rather for advicing her ppl like you are few may God bless you ppl are quick to judge but not help other ppl this is the best advice and sound good thank sir

all4naija:
@ OP

All the guys asking for telephone number and email here are scams. Please, don't give them.

If she is interested in serious relationship with a Nigerian guy she should start getting involved with activities where descent male Nigerians are found to be associated with. Like Nigerian famous churches in SA, try to have Nigerian friends in South African university campuses, visit Nigeria as a tourist( it is cheap) and go to conventions, seminars, ask to visit good marriage ceremonies, etc. Places where descent Nigerians are found. Not this online predators who are looking for who to prey on.

I hate to see any lady blames Nigerian men for their relationship failure. Enough of that because there are good Nigerian men as well.

Thanks nana

PunkyVeer:


Ngenzani la? It's a forum just like any other forum. Duh! I frequent many others. But I'm definitely not lana looking for indoda. And you know what? You're right, it's definitely none of my business what your friend does. Like it's also none of my business ukuthi what sort of guy azoyithola through this public announcement. Yindaba yakhe, nawe leyo. My only concern is, abantu balana already have a very low impression of amacherrie aseMzansi but that's also none of my business. Rather you than me. As you were. Qhubeka.

ku nge ndlela oyi bona ngayo sisi and wena if awu dlani nawo wenzani la nakhona you dont have to get involved kwi zinto ezingakufuni uku thi umgane wami uya gosha aku funi wena lokho standwa sami so wena focus kuma SA guys or whatever you dating yena u funa indoda qha and wena you not in a position to tell her how to go about it so take your diplomatic prostitution ways aways from this issue and na khona she doesnt need to be mothered on this forum ......thanks neh nana

PunkyVeer:


No, 1st of all, mina angijoli na Naija guy so let's get that straight right now. 2ndly, I mean, come on, is this the way to go about it? Acting like a thirsty hoe on the internet? Ababantu they already have a lot of negative things to say ngathi & then this? This is shameful & whorish. Sorry.

Bengithi nina a ba thanda a ma naija ni yenza so and bantsolile a ba se hilbrow anyway then e home affairs ba funa a maphepha so there and whoremones are incheck thanks

PunkyVeer:
Uzookor1, like seriously? Why couldn't your friend go hunt for one in Hillbrow or at the Home Affairs queue?

This is so unlady like of this friend of yours. Talk about being THIRSTY. After uzokhala when ababantu bemthuka.Tell her to keep her whoremones in check. WTH

send her an email on zandizikamamakhe@gmail.com to get her numbers just dont wanna give it here

Good day

My friend is looking for a loving nigerian man in South Africa for a serious relationship the guy must be serious ooo

Yes he cheats she has found so much evidence and its one story after the other even used condoms.....

MarvellousGod:
Please don't marry that yoruba man unless you want to come here crying how your husband cheats on you with so many girls. ..
You should be more concerned about your happiness than what his family or whoever will think.... You should be happy you found out about his cheating ways before tying the knot...

Meanyl, do you have any evidence that he cheats?

I don't know about the SA guy, like whether he's truly changed or not. .so no comment. ..

Wooow this is the best advice I am even crying on the truth spoken here thanks

mutter:
You cannot build a house with straw and expect it to stand. An introduction over the phone is not a proper introduction so it is not binding on her in any way.
How can she be thinking about disappointing the man and his family? The most important issue here is the stability of the union she is about to go into.
So much to the yoruba man.

I cannot really advice her on whom to choose but she has to reflect on the implication of marriage and of having a family.
Marriage is not something you rush into especially not when the materials with which you want to build your home are self destructive.
It is like building a house with a time bomb and then lamenting when the bomb explodes.
A broken home brings pain and trauma to the parties and also to innocent ones that are not to blame. It can affect the lives of the children for ever. Please let her not use sentiments alone but like a wise builder make sure that the materials she wants to build with can build a solid home that can stand the test of time,

Thank you so much this is so true and straight to the point

natasha:


so clearly she wants the Yoruba cheat of a guy for husband....no need to waste my time typing an epistle.
i will save it for 2 years time when she comes back here posting "stories that touch" about how her horseband (yelzz Horseband!!) is cheating on her and how she is always fighting girls bla bla bla....
When will ladies learn, what you see a man doing whilst dating is WHO HE IS. Dont expect him to change because he is married. If he was cheating whilst dating expect him to carry on when married (some of them might just become more discreet about it)

He loves her but she is not sure with her feelings for him cause a lot happened in the past but he is focused now and know what he wants he even bought her an engagement ring last month she said she wanted to think about it.......Think she loves the Naija guy and their culture

Moana:
If the ex loves and respects her and she still loves him too she is better off with him.

Ladies and gentlemen please assist a sister........she has been in a 7yrs relationship with a south African guy then they have been separated for 2yrs now and during that separation she met a Yoruba guy and they are in a relationship but the Yoruba guy still chase after ladies to an extent they fight every weekend over different girls that he brings to the house(they live separately)…..He has introduced her to his mom over the phone so she feels if she is to separate it would be disappointing him and his family and when they talk about his wayward ways he denies it and upsets himself to make her feel guilty……… then the SA guy now realised that he wants her back as his wife and is ready to settle........please advise and give reason and only mature responses please….What would you advice she do

I am a South African and looking for you buyphones to marry me.....why must she be from Naija what is wrong with loving girls out of naija na wa ooo

Mine will be "My love my friend my confidant"

For me both

Yebo I am

PunkyVeer:


You're a girl ne?

We should hook up

PunkyVeer:


Kright. Nice meeting you,

Yes ooo I love the D

OlaoluEmir:
4 What reason! try 2be wit him alone then 6c dat tin nd make sure u hold it tiet, nd let him know dat If E refused u'll cut it!
KONDO naa best FOOD 4 LIFE

Ke ya bolela dear

PunkyVeer:


Also Gauteng but in PTA.

Uyakhuluma, boa, thetha..?

See there you go again wanting to play hard to get like naija ladies

LadyBoss1:

Just like dat

Gauteng dear Bedfordview and you

PunkyVeer:


Ubuyaphi?

We should be friends

LadyBoss1:

Oh my bad

Hi ooo

PunkyVeer:


Wow, another South African. Hi there *waves*

Didn't know Vhendas said it like that. Interesting

LadyBoss1 Lesson here is no one is clever we are all fools but just that the levels differ and we believe what we all wanna believe to be honest and true but bottom line we are all fools in relationship

So just love the D and forget about being fooled or not so from today love the D and dont be afraid to say so


I LOVE THE D yhooo

LadyBoss1:

ur not making 1 but of sense hope u know

Abeg its friday no kill my vibe follow Op yan dat one

Sepedi …………………… Ke a go rata
Afrikaans ……… Ek is lief vir jou
IsiNdebele ……… Niyakutanda
IsiXhosa ……… Ndiyakuthanda
IsiZulu ………… Ngiyakuthanda
Sesotho ……… Ke a go rata
Setswana ……………. Ke a go rata
SiSwati ………… ngiyakutsandza
Tshivenda ………………….. ngiyakutsandza
Xitsonga …………….. Ndzakurhandza

This is how we say it in South Africa

loool

Nicklaus:
how about a man shows his lady shez special by not giving her a premarital day-in-day-out p***sy friction service like he ll do to you . I think Its u who should muzzle up!

lol I am a female

LadyBoss1:

Lol u sure ur female lol jeez too early for dis wait after work
We go yan hehehe

You are reading what you want here why do you only see the fucking around and not see the fact that my friend is not getting the D

LadyBoss1:

So a man shows his lady she special by fcvking around ok .. Glad to know dats wt u think is right..
Say no more

Yeah I can relate but then again if something is not yours you let it go

Lol you seem to know it all I wonder how many girls your man is doing behind your back and here you sing how when one is special he will not cheat any way if I find your man I would knock his brains out with my kitty kat

LadyBoss1:

If she was special
He wouldnt be having sex with anyone else


Common sense .. So she special n he bleeps around if he gives her std nau nko .. Like no guy dat loves u will do dat .. Its basically cheating n u tryna justify if .. Chai

Reason why I can voice it out is that there is no need in pretending when and if a woman loves something she should not be afraid to sa it



I LOVE THE D YHOOO

Problem Naija girlds pretend a lot you should see them here they are free and live like prostitutes but when in Naija they are ppls wives and behave so I get a feeling you alos love the D but worried about how ppl will look at you for voicing it out anyway freedom of my speech

Problem with this my friend she is like you she likes pretending

LadyBoss1:


But u look at what u type do u blame some ppl
Lol u will never see " you nigerian girls love sex, like really una no dey fear even western countries dont chat like dat but anyway .. Dats how ulot do things ..

Yes oh , love d D , better than loving d kitty i guess..
So we talking bout u not ur fri nd
Y don't u get rid of the guy den since his not meeting ur needs ... Women have needs to not just guys ... Once a month ror a sexually active coulpe is too low

Niklaus I like the way you see this hey and there is an element I like in it if it where me I would go get it from another man period but she is the faithful type

Nicklaus:
A guy who has sex with other ladies but put your friend in reserve probably has great plans for her. I m sure its his own way of saying she is special to him. But since he can't keep off from another man's property, I suggest she pay him in kind and go eat some cock. Good morning!

Aids is everywhere dear just hate how Naija ppl like making us look dirty where you find Naija guys here doing up to 100 girls a month.....and in Naija the call it spiritual attack or one sickness or the other when they shy away from Aids being real abeg I love the D and can never apologies for that

LadyBoss1:
U can tell ur "friend" <-------- u see as i type friend ...

Lol ok well if she is dat obsessed with sex den she should look elsewhere "her" or your man c,ear,y dont find her attractive to be humping like rabbits ... Soo dat should tell her or u something ...

Lol @ south african girls like sex ... D irony Aids is real sha