I thank everyone for the contributions so far. I have learnt a lot. I also thank Admin for bring the topic to the front page.

I have taken time to read every single comments from everybody and I noticed that I may not be far from married a nymphomanic as a result of her higher sexual drive. I said so because most of the advise given here including enough pre-intimacy, fingering, cuddling, kissing,, detecting her pleasurable spot, sucking( though not used in sucking private part), allowing her to ride on me etc, all before penetrating her, I have been doing such. Most times after such fantastic pre-intimacy and that she is in the mood, shaking and moaning,and begging that I should please insert it and start the action, yet it doesn't solve the challenge of not being satisfied after a long time before I cum even as she has preference that I should be hitting it harder and harder.

The fact is that I come to realize that women differed sexually. I am not a virgin before I married before I can confidently say that most girls I made love with before marriage, only 20 percent of the the kind work I do with my partner is enough for them to be satisfied and told me they are okay.I am not perfect but I am sure I am very good in bed but any man that have not met these kind of higher sexual drive set of woman may not understand the experience. It can make you feel you are nobody in bed No matte the effort you put, it will look like you never start. It is neither their fault not yours. Though I noticed it during dating even though dating didn't last Lang before marriage but I ignored or let's say I was carried away and considered her the most "expert" in bed among ladies I have met not knowing it will be like this level.

I have no option than to continue with it but I can never take drug just to satisfy her but can only be myself and I will tell her point blank that she should manage whatever I offer in bed for I can kill myself because even she knew she has such challenge of higher sexual drive that she can consume till eternity without being satisfied. I cannot plan with Doctorsto cut her clitoris but may be I will try and subject her to more stressful work to reduce the urge. There are most ladies that it will take you so long in fore play before they can get wet. Some don't even wet atall and love making with this kind of women is like a hellish experience. Same is not with higher sexual(libido) drive women for just two to five minutes into pre-intimacy, they are already wet , moaning and begging for penetration and many of them will demand that you keep on hitting it harder and harder. I also try all I can to not give her long gap but always around with her to avoid looking for satisfaction from outside which will be a greatest abomination I can hardly condone if it happen in the marriage. It's not easy experience but I will keep on managing the situation

We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.