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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant; Matters Arising by Varidan: 8:33am On Jan 30, 2022 |
Uche1993: Your comments clarified ALOT. at first it looked like a typical case of a lady trying to trap a guy. Prime example of how listening to both sides is IMPORTANT. If all that you've said in both of your comments is true then Madam, you are one of the good ones and his conscience will make him do right by you. It has to. If my first comment on this issue seemed ----, apologies too. Your side of the story clarified everything we needed to know. And also, make sure to keep the BABY. OP: life's not fair. The moment you have things planned for yourself seems to be the moment events that would derail those plans occur the most. I can Imagine your pain right now. It's a sad faith that this happened but you have to take responsibility. That's what grown-ups do. And to reiterate bro, if the things she said in her comment is true then this woman is gold. Don't break her heart. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant; Matters Arising by Varidan: 7:43am On Jan 30, 2022 |
frozen70:God bless you!!! Seriously! People here are just pathetic with their response! That woman is deciteful and not to be married without proper studying. Haba! Just look at people calling him irresponsible for daring to want to make his own money and not depend on his family's before he marries. We've gone really mad with reason in this country and that's why we are stuck. For Bleep sake! It's sooooo obvious she planned and played him! That's being selfish. I'd like to think there's a million and one way for her to help him get to that point where he'd decide to marry her even if he hasn't achieved all his goals but this is how she chose to do it? Wow. We really are bleeped up in this country if this is how we think. OP note this: women control access to sex and whether a child is born. But man controls access to MARRIAGE and RELATIONSHIP. what she did is literally take your right to decide AWAY from you. That's selfish. And if she can do that then calm in the knowledge that you will be doing that right thing by not even helping to raise that kid. If you choose that route then you absolutely shouldn't feel bad about choosing to go that way even if the world tries to make you feel bad by appealing to your human emotion. Absolutely nothing wrong! I just wanted to point that out. Just look at the way people are blaming him for this when they both agreed to not have kids yet. Wow. Men suffering! If you are of good heart like myself, I would advise that you help raise that baby but DEFINITELY reconsider your plans to marry that lady. Or at least make sure she trly loves you like she claimed. Ire oo. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I'm Deeply In Love With Him But He's Not Divorced Yet! by Varidan: 11:54pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: Please What's Your Advice For Her...her Husband Got Her Mother Pregnant. by Varidan: 9:03pm On Feb 11, 2021 |
If her mom is 40 and her 22 and the mom still acted this way at the slightest of opportunity to mess up, doesn't it confirm what she's always been like when she met her dad? Na that man I sorry for. He would think she has changed meanwhile mama is still the bureau de change she was at 18. 1 Like |
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