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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant; Matters Arising by Varidan: 8:33am On Jan 30, 2022
Uche1993:
Please I was just going tru the comments and I am tagged as a materialistic person. Please I am not, the only time I have asked for so much more was to buy an iPhone so I can be taking good pictures of my perfumes he gave me 80k and I added my own 100k, also the business he said he started for me, we are on a contract example my last purchase was a total of 170k he gave me 150k and I added my own 20k and from this 150k he gave me I have paid back 122k and what I am owing him is 28k I have not finished selling the perfumes, with whatever I sell I give him money until my debt is complete this is how we work, we only had a money once plus the 28k I am owing him about 34k this is because my sister was in need and I used it to help her out, I promised to pay back even with this pregnancy issue I have your access bank account I maybe late in my payment but a promise is a promise and I will definitely pay back. I am more than grateful to you for supporting my business even tho it’s based on borrow but not many people can do this, when I started cryptocurrency you supported me I am grateful.

But I am proud to say that I am very very supportive and not materialistic, I asked mister victor to go and learn a trade about car parts or house, even if he leaves the country he can then be importing and still be making money.

He put me on an allowance of 5k weekly, aside from this money I have never asked him for any other money (please Victor if I am lieing tell the whole world) never asked for food, clothe, internet subscription, hair nothing at all I make use of this money and even buy him things once in awhile I still have savings with PiggyVest please how am I a bad person.

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Your comments clarified ALOT.

at first it looked like a typical case of a lady trying to trap a guy. Prime example of how listening to both sides is IMPORTANT.

If all that you've said in both of your comments is true then Madam, you are one of the good ones and his conscience will make him do right by you. It has to.

If my first comment on this issue seemed ----, apologies too. Your side of the story clarified everything we needed to know. And also, make sure to keep the BABY.

OP: life's not fair. The moment you have things planned for yourself seems to be the moment events that would derail those plans occur the most.

I can Imagine your pain right now. It's a sad faith that this happened but you have to take responsibility. That's what grown-ups do.

And to reiterate bro, if the things she said in her comment is true then this woman is gold.

Don't break her heart.

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant; Matters Arising by Varidan: 7:43am On Jan 30, 2022
frozen70:


You are not someone that must he forced to go and do traditional marriage of a lady that got pregnant for you, it's not bye force

She has studied your family very well and wants to be a part of your family by tricks, so she became pregnant to achieve that

Now tell me, where you really ready to marry her, with or without pregnancy or you simply just want to keep her on hold till you get stabilized

Two things are involved here

If you want the woman, be prepared to keep the pregnancy but must not do the traditional marriage because its a way to commit you, especially if you are too sure of marrying her

If you don't want the pregnancy, and she wants it, let her keep it, be prepared to be a father and play the role you can

If she continues to block you, just leave her and her family, it's a bait to make you do their bidding

If they can't really get you, she will unblock you

They should keep their pressure to themselves
God bless you!!!

Seriously! People here are just pathetic with their response!

That woman is deciteful and not to be married without proper studying. Haba!

Just look at people calling him irresponsible for daring to want to make his own money and not depend on his family's before he marries.

We've gone really mad with reason in this country and that's why we are stuck.

For Bleep sake! It's sooooo obvious she planned and played him!

That's being selfish.

I'd like to think there's a million and one way for her to help him get to that point where he'd decide to marry her even if he hasn't achieved all his goals but this is how she chose to do it? Wow. We really are bleeped up in this country if this is how we think.

OP note this: women control access to sex and whether a child is born. But man controls access to MARRIAGE and RELATIONSHIP.

what she did is literally take your right to decide AWAY from you. That's selfish.

And if she can do that then calm in the knowledge that you will be doing that right thing by not even helping to raise that kid. If you choose that route then you absolutely shouldn't feel bad about choosing to go that way even if the world tries to make you feel bad by appealing to your human emotion. Absolutely nothing wrong!

I just wanted to point that out.

Just look at the way people are blaming him for this when they both agreed to not have kids yet. Wow. Men suffering!

If you are of good heart like myself, I would advise that you help raise that baby but DEFINITELY reconsider your plans to marry that lady. Or at least make sure she trly loves you like she claimed.

Ire oo.

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Romance / Re: I'm Deeply In Love With Him But He's Not Divorced Yet! by Varidan: 11:54pm On Jan 24, 2022
fikayormi:
That guy is a real player grin

When he is done lashing your pussy , smoke will come out of it
Romance / Re: Please What's Your Advice For Her...her Husband Got Her Mother Pregnant. by Varidan: 9:03pm On Feb 11, 2021
If her mom is 40 and her 22 and the mom still acted this way at the slightest of opportunity to mess up, doesn't it confirm what she's always been like when she met her dad?

Na that man I sorry for. He would think she has changed meanwhile mama is still the bureau de change she was at 18.

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