Foreign Affairs / Re: Nothing Will Be Left Of Israel If It Acts Against Iran – President Raisi by VeniJu: 2:50pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Thank God Nigeria is Nuclear ready ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 1 Like 1 Share |
Sports / Re: Bendel Insurance, El-Kanemi Warriors, Bayelsa United Return To NPFL by VeniJu: 2:40pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Welcome to Nigerian Premier League where you can buy promotion slots ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Sports / Re: Gov Wike Rewards Rivers United Players, Officials $20,000 Each by VeniJu: 9:35am On Jul 22, 2022 |
adeeyarhabdulla: How I wish KOGI State can be serious with something for ones .... Kogi State/Kogi UTD still have 375years to go. Until they stop hoping to buy slot for NNL and also take sports seriously, they can't achieve such. |
Family / Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by VeniJu: 10:07am On Jul 21, 2022 |
Brightoalo:
So in the same Apc regime you still made it ? Yet you said not like Apc change ? You’re such a confuse lying guy.
So during your marriage ceremony your wife’s brother and the wife did not attended ? Very funny how some if you can't comprehend. It isn't about my brother in law. How would i know my Ex. Would end up marrying him? |
Family / Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by VeniJu: 9:54am On Jul 21, 2022 |
Yankee101: 1. Is this a real story? 2. If true, how come you don’t know who your wife’s bro married? Long stretch Yes. It is. How do I would or would have expected that my Ex would end up with my brother in law? And for those asking, I ended up marrying before my Ex. |
Family / Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by VeniJu: 9:38am On Jul 21, 2022 |
Dollarsea: Nawa o.. so in the Nigeria you dated and married your wife without knowing her brother all along? Same BIL and his wife (ur ex) didn't attend your wedding too?
I didn't say its Nollywood sha I knew his brother during the marriage rites and all. But didn't know my Ex. Would end up with him. |
Family / My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by VeniJu: 9:16pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
This life, just like a fan rotates, can change at any given time.. What would have been a tragic heart break turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I'll be brief with this.
I met my Ex., a beautiful charming and wonderful young girl of 20 in the University. We dated for two years. During this period, I was supporting her in ways I can. (Normal lady's requests) Later, things became a bit rough and tough. She started acting. I saw the signs from how she responds to my calls, no much visits as she used to, given excuses and all. I pleaded with her to be patient and believe in God for a better change. (Not the APC Change) but she openly told me "I no fit suffer"
I felt bad because like a flash, she seem to have forgotten the good days. And that was it. Two months later, I decided to give love a chance again. I met this beautiful and curvy lady of about 24. I shoot my shot and boom! Were off. Everything a man could ever want was in her. And she was like and Angel because after we started dating, things immediately turned around for the best. As fate would have it, she turned out to be a sister to the man my Ex. ended up with. We got married, and moved to Abuja. Life was sweet with her.. One day, she told me her brother and his wife would be visiting us and I said there's no problem.
Days later, on a weekend, we we're seeing a movie at home when her phone rang. It was her brother and the wife at the gate. She went to usher them in as the gate man instead they should call for confirmation. When they got in, the whole atmosphere changed... Like a dream, I was shocked to see that the wife was my Ex who didn't want to suffer. Apparently life hasn't been good to them and they needed help. I asked them to give us some time to see what we can do... (Honestly, I don't feel like helping) Though my wife is pleading on their behalf.
While I brought this up is to encourage men out there. Do not feel rejected because a woman left you. She might actually be an obstacle to your progress. It might be tough and painful. But see it as a blessing. 1166 Likes 112 Shares |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Gets 47 Votes And He Is 47 Years Old by VeniJu: 2:04pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Very senseless post 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Ayade Woos Delegates Ahead Of APC Primary by VeniJu: 3:48pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
fergie001:
Is he not capable?
Let's rally round him please. They no dey "rally round" person on naira land. Na on election day, with your PVC |
Family / Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by VeniJu: 6:39pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. I'll like to talk to you personally. |
Religion / Please, Help A Brother. by VeniJu: 11:00am On Nov 19, 2018 |
Hello, dear Nairalanders. Please, things has been so rough and hard. it is shameful to ask for financial assistance online, but like they say, "desperate times" and i can't steal. Lost my little job, spent the little I've saved on my dad's burial. currently searching for any kind of job. Right now, I'm starving. Please, just a little token to feed while I garner the strength to continue the search for a job. Please!!! Acct. Name: Julius A. Stephen. Acct. No: 2089570447 Bank: UBA.
Help, Please!!! 1 Like |
Family / Please, Help A Brother. by VeniJu: 10:53am On Nov 19, 2018 |
Hello, dear Nairalanders. Please, things has been so rough and hard. it is shameful to ask for financial assistance online, but like they say, "desperate times" and i can't steal. Lost my little job, spent the little I've saved on my dad's burial. currently searching for any kind of job. Right now, I'm starving. Please, just a little token to feed while I garner the strength to continue the search for a job. Please!!! Acct. Name: Julius A. Stephen. Acct. No: 2089570447 Bank: UBA.
Help, Please!!! |
Business / Re: Advertising: Multinationals, Banks, Get Knocks For Undermining Local Contents by VeniJu: 8:59am On Oct 16, 2018 |
Doerstech: They have their reasons.....
How much for a small website design? |
Business / Re: Scam Alert! Beware Of Kwikcash. by VeniJu: 3:32pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
cc: Dominique
cc: FOD
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Please, help save others from falling victims. |
Business / Scam Alert! Beware Of Kwikcash. by VeniJu: 3:31pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Hello, Nairalanders, I'm using my ordeal and experience to warn and save people from falling victims to these scammers called kwikcash, an online money lending platform. I took a loan from these guys, which they said has been disbursed into my account. But I didn't get any credit alert for the said loan. They will get your account number and other vital info to give them direct access to your account. after that, they will keep telling you to wait, from a short while, to an hour, and now, it's been five days since it happened. Please, be warned. they are scammers. There customers service don't pick calls. when you chat with them online, they keep asking you to wait. they will send you mails and sms to wait, but would never do anything. Please, learn from my mistakes and safeguard your account. I have screenshots of their mails, chats and sms. but it's not uploading here. |
Politics / Re: PDP Convention: Saraki Won't Step Down For Anyone- Okupe by VeniJu: 5:11pm On Oct 06, 2018 |
Going by other aspirants, both from PDP and APC, his looks is very much presentable to the world than any other. very much younger and vibrant. 1 Like |
Food / Re: Man In Owerri Who Sells Crocodile Meat - Photos by VeniJu: 11:48am On Sep 25, 2018 |
oyonu: hmmm! Not every animals should be killed and eaten na. These are animals that may likely go extinct soon, we need animal protection law in this country self but by the way, these ones na baby crocodile why not hunt the large ones if u can? In other words, you mean it's "CrocoLizard?" 1 Like |
Phones / Help! My Phone Is Misbehaving.. by VeniJu: 1:46pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
Hello, friends in the House. please, what could be wrong with my phone, Tecno W3? First, it started by restarting itself.. Later I discovered the menu and minimize buttons has stopped working. I can't get notifications atop the phone as before. now, I can receive calls.. Any ideas, please help. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by VeniJu: 2:14pm On Sep 15, 2018 |
maikbanj:
How do I make him back off??
Find out more about she and this bestie.
PM me and know how to get info using spy chat. |
Pets / Re: See What Was Done To This Fowl. by VeniJu: 7:04pm On Sep 12, 2018 |
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Pets / Re: See What Was Done To This Fowl. by VeniJu: 7:03pm On Sep 12, 2018 |
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Pets / See What Was Done To This Fowl. by VeniJu: 7:02pm On Sep 12, 2018 |
If this is done by someone, then I think it's bad.. what do you think?
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Family / Re: How Akwa Ibom Makes Their Daughters Unmarried Via Marriage List by VeniJu: 2:48pm On Sep 08, 2018 |
HungerBAD: Reading
This sounds interesting. Story not complete. Joeruano complete this story.
Joeruano thanks for completing the story.
I try not to talk about my personal stuff on Nairaland,but will make an exception today and tell a story before commenting on yours.
I am a Niger Deltan like you too,and a couple of months ago,my younger sister got married. I am also the oldest child and my dad is late(RIP) and so I am the Head of the family.
I had known her husband to be for a couple of years,and I know him to be a struggling young man,who is into different businesses and trying to survive.
Sometimes, without telling anyone, I push little contracts for him to handle so as to meet up,since he never once approached me for money considering the fact he knows I am on the okay side.
I liked him then,and I like him now. I wished him my inlaw,which he eventually became. I consider him a younger brother and that was how I treated him.
My Sister too, a beautiful young lady works for one of those organizations that pays in the 200k region . My sister is also a prudent woman who I know does not spend money on petty things.
When it was time for marriage. They approached me,and after giving them my blessing, I agreed they should go ahead and plan their marriage in Lagos. Later my mother started giving me heat that we should not ignore tradition,and out of pressure from more of my mothers family, I asked them to go get the list from the village.
When they brought the list, the young man went into a very sad mood and my sister called me complaining that village people want to destroy her marriage.
I will finish this story tomorrow. I am about to go take care of some personal matters.
Finishing my story.
When I saw the list, to say I was taken aback would be an understatement. They asked for everything there,and then some.
Now let me talk about this my village people and my history with them.
I went straight for my post-graduate degree,after my NYSC,and after graduation, showed up in my community,thinking they will hook me up with one of the Multiple National oil companies there, as a native.
They refused to help in a hostile way,and called me a Yoruba man,since i was born and bred in Lagos. And that the spots for jobs they had was for the people that grew up there,and not for strangers like us.
I left there after weeks hanging around, knocking on different doors. It was the humiliation of how I got to Lagos that still gets me upset. I sold my shoes,belts, trousers and my wristwatch.
I swore to never go to my people again for anything.
But my sister was getting married,and her husband to be did not have the muscle to sort everything out. I wanted to help, but did not want to look desperate as if I am in a hurry to just throw my sister way.
Told them not to worry,and that I will sort everything out when I fly back into the Country. A week later I flew into Nigeria,and called for a meeting with my inlaw to be. I asked him to look at the list and see what he can afford there. And when he picked the little things he could shoulder, I told him to bring the cash equivalent,and that I will go to the village myself to beg on his behalf.
I went to my hometown that weekend,and had a meeting with the elders of my family and the community, where I presented them with everything they asked for. I told them my inlaw had provided them to me in Lagos. They got their complete list,as I had swore me or any of my family members will never beg them for anything again.
The only thing they did was send a 5 man village representative to Come for the traditional wedding in Lagos,and that I took care of too.
My sister got married because big brother would not let traditionalists hold her marriage to ransom. They got what they wanted, and everybody is happy.
Not everyone I understand has a brother, or even anyone willing to stick it out for them to make sure their marriage works,as regards meeting the financial burden. And this is why the Tradition of extorting people under the quise of a long lists for marriage should be stopped.
Big Bros, please I seek your assistance. Please. sent you a PM |
Health / Re: Help Me! Syphilis Wants To Finish My Life by VeniJu: 2:25pm On Jun 03, 2018 |
mark123456789: hello people please I need your help I need the sure cure to syphilis,my joystick is very ugly now because of this std,help a brother Sorry my dear brother. Are you on whatsapp? |
Career / Re: Travelling To Canada And Starting A Pure Water Business In Nigeria. by VeniJu: 2:30pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
papascode: Good day all,
I have been confused on what to do with the money I have saved. I am a contract staff in one of the banks and I have saved considerable amount of money over the years I have been working there. But I am tired of my job, as same as many of my colleagues who wish they had one quarter of the money I had saved to quit the job.
I am not a lazy man I am very hardworking as adhuged by my supervisors but the issue is I have stayed on one spot for too long and no promotion. My greatest joy is that I was able to achieve a masters degree in a federal university in nigeria while working but my job doesn't give me time to even look out for other jobs. So please guys I am throwing this up here because I know on this thread there are people who have been in my situation before that made the better choice and are happy for it. I have two very important decisions to make either to use the money I have saved to travel abroad for school for masters and hopfully settle down there or to stay here in Nigeria to start up a pure water production factory but Nigeria and it's uncertainties keeps discouraging me. kindly note that I have saved up to 9million naira to take up any of these ventures and I am 35 years not yet married. Please I need honest advice to a brother there are some persons like me who will benefit from this advice we render. Thank you Abeg, 20k can save me from a situation. thanks in anticipation. meanwhile, setting up a pure water factory depends on your location. Canada is equally good too. My advice, Canada. |
Crime / Re: 2 Schools Fight With Cutlasses In Ibadan Over Girlfriend - Pictures by VeniJu: 2:23pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Pupils abi students? |
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: A Nairalander's Photo-realistic Drawing Of Atiku Abubakar by VeniJu: 2:21pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Nice Paper.
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NYSC / Click, Register And Earn Money. by VeniJu: 8:28am On Jun 01, 2018 |
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Sports / Click, Register And Earn. by VeniJu: 8:22am On Jun 01, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Wizkid, Alex Iwobi & Models Pose In New Super Eagles Jersey by VeniJu: 9:09am On May 31, 2018 |
I don't know if it's because I no longer find anything good about this country. there's nothing special about this #30,000 Jersey. |
Romance / Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by VeniJu: 4:18am On May 31, 2018 |
Cynie42: Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.
But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?
No insult plz whatsapp 08129078105 |
Romance / Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by VeniJu: 3:17pm On May 30, 2018 |
Cynie42: Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.
But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?
No insult plz very serious delima. I know how it is. chat me up let's talk privately. |