Veronica njemanze
2005183391

Firstbank

For my kids

LittleFinger1:
If you can afford 2k, do not take away the opportunity from others.

This is for those that 2k can do something for and they can't afford it.

I will give 2k to the first 10 people.

To the recipients, whenever you later get money, help someone else or you can donate to Foodclique.

Cheers.
Littlefinger1

BOSSkesh:
Name 5 Igbo people of good repute
Yorubas lead everywhere

I really don't know what you people gain from this

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Kobojunkie:
So why exactly do you feel guilty for having him arrested for 2 days? Would this all had gone better if he had taken to smashing your head after smashing everything else?

Now that you are obviously aware the man has taken to acting out violently, don't you think it makes sense at this point to distance yourself and your kids from him instead of worrying whether he is in speaking terms and if he has eaten or not? Please, separate yourself from that man asap. The space might do him a whole hell of good..

Kobojunkie:
OP, you did nothing wrong and so have no reason to feel guilty at all. He attacked and you had to defend yourself the best way you know to. He needs to process what he did and what resulted in order to realize how far he has fallen. Will he get back up and become the husband you once loved? That all depends on how he manages his ego, and it is not for you to help him with it. He needs to grow with this experience, on his own. Else, you will continue to manage his tantrums and attitude for a long time to come. I wouldn't wish such a thing on anyone.

Thanks so much for this

talented321:
The man can even take another woman to change her except he let it slide'' the woman locked him up because he is broke at the moment''

This your comment is really unfair...

This has nothing to do with his financial status.. for two years i tried everything within my strength to make him not feel like he was jobless.. at a point i connected him to a job but he turned it down cos he feels that position is too low for him..



But thanks for your contributions

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Why close the other thread
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Samantha124:
Well, what he did was unlawful and if you ask me, you did the right thing by getting him arrested.

Let it be a warning to him that next time you wouldn't be lenient on him.... You can apologize to him for getting him arrested, but let him know that you don't appreciate what he did to you and you're not going to stand for it if he continues with his behavior.

It's not your fault that he lost his job and can't find another one.

It was more of a warning to him.. I didn't neglect him there.. he had access to his phone.. even though as first he wasn't taking my call but I kept texting him..

Now the thing is he was supposed to come out the next day but he refused. Said since I placed him there he'd wish to die there(emotional blackmail if you ask me)

I had to go with his friends to beg him the next day..

Dogalmighty17:
You arrested and lucked up your husband for 2 days? No one is dumb here ma. No right thinking woman just suddenly locks up her husband. Was there food in the kitchen for him when he came home? Did you cook for yourself and just the children?

There are other crises resolution and mediation channels available to resolve issues within spouses. Did you explore any of them?

You most probably had nurtured this thought of locking your husband up for a while. You also most probably have mocked him in your actions and your words.

Madam, you don buy market o! I assure you of this, your husband will never forgive you. The day that man gets a job and finds his feet you will be the one begging for divorce.

I am not making excuses for him. Your husband is going through serious depression. No man wants to not be able to provide for his family. The present economy doesn't help at all. You could have handled the situation better.

I have never ever nortured such thought.. I have endured countless insults and provocations..

What else could I have done.. ? Like I said I regret my actions but I just wished he had never touched me or raising his hands to the kids.. saying he doesn't even know if the kids were his.. since he lost his job it has been one issue to another.. but I try to see through his eyes .. to understand what he is going through..

I do not have excuse for my actions.. I just need a solution

Thanks for your contributions anyways

Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

Larry1960:



What' country

Good afternoon Mr Larry
You haven't replied my mention

Kajaard:


See him drinking malt drink ( a sugary and highly carbonated drink). For people above the age of 35 all you need to be drinking is water.

You guys just have wahala
Didn't you see the water beside the malt..

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YoungDaNaval:
Adekunle had never pardoned Venita. I'm not surprised sha. Na their way

You do have a serious problem seriously

What is this

Arsenal finally

Phewwwwww

nairavsdollars:
AAU Glorified secondary school. Remove UI, UNILAG and OAU, the rest are trash

What about uniabj

Let's give them 6 more days... Maybe they need a month to päck up

Tatiana4u:

That’s why she needs to win the grand prize so that she’ll buy intelligence!

Lmao

Coldie:
Ike is that kind of guy that doesn't keep a grudge and even if u have one against him he will talk to u till u are tired of the grudge

People like Ike you can't keep malice with them.. their wahala no be here

Na you go Taya...

Till tomorrow most people that have houses at nyanya haven't forgiven Rufia

Whitesnow01:
I hope Doyin envelope isn’t gym privileges except they want her to gym her bones away

Your hate for Doyin might be the end of you

Tatiana4u:
Congratulations SAMA!!!!

Tati calm down lol

Coldie:
Pity party crew, since anybody that Nigerians pity should win.

I think we have a new contender in the pity business.

Tolanibaj needs to be pitied since that's how it works lol

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duduade:


We all know this but Doyin s own get grade

When you don't like someone nothing will ever make them look pretty in your face

Just so you know doyin is not my fav

RightDecision15:
Omoh this Doyin ugly abeg

She is not... What some call ugly others would call beauty

Omofloflo:
Na WA oo. Cross has nothing in his brain. Only to do fine boy and follow women

He does actually...

Cross reminds me of a friend... Very dumb in a funny way yet innocent and naive

Peope like cross have pure souls

Oh my cross

This is normal

Tinubu and his dad were friends
It is called RESPECT

Larry1960:


How does this mutual funds work and what's the roi

Mr Larry did you get my mention
Good afternoon