AM REALLY ENJOYING DIS THREND,

tanks all for ur contributions nd advice so far,

gbanikiti:

@op,It sure happened 2me too. I accepted my gf request cos she's fun talkin wit,wen my fiancee askd i told her i tried d trick wit my colleague in d office 2confirm if twas real.i apologisd then told her nxt mnth.

smart guy,

Zahnda:

So you call him pretending to be another chick, How did that help in sorting out your problem? Eish kids!

well it hs help me alot. just want to knw hw busy he is for him nt havin my tyme,but nw i see its just all lies. he has bin callin dat line, even hes callin nw.soo

MzGreat:

D guy is a naughty person for not to have recognised your voice after so many calls
Asin don't guys grow up?

can u just imagine, am at work nw so he is nd he alwz told me hes alwz busy to call. nd he is callin dat line nw
  nd hv bin talkin to him anyway. stil nt knwin hes speakin to me.

Odunnu:

I have said it before, i'll say it again. Leave him alone and move on

thats wot am doin right away, he is a stupid guy anywa,

again to update u guys on wot is goin on, i tried his line through anoder line i got,nd i pretended as anoder girl he just met. he talkd so nice nd i dnt tink he knew am d one callin him, since monday he has bin callin d line nd hv bin pickin it nt knwin he ws talkin to me. And he has nt bin callin my own line he knew at all. CAN U IMAGINE, GUYS.Wot can i do again o?

gbanikiti:

2b honest wit u dear, check him up 2talk it over,if he refuses again then, ?. Bt if u feel lik sharin it outta here lemme knw,nid 2tel u mor sha.
Nevertheless,if u luv him try 2make him understand,he is stil better than some guys.

TANKS for all ur advice, i ve talkd with him over d last weeknd and he promised to change, well u guys cant believe dat since last week saturdat i saw him he hasnt beep or even send any mail to me. i delibrately nt send any cus i dnt want to forcs myself on him.

I dnt why guys are alwz lyk dis u hv a serious relationship nd u re stil KIPIN A GIRLFRND, MAY God FORGIVE U, u beta accept ur fiancee request moreso she shld be d only one u talk to alwaz.

@POSTER, no no u ve really betrayd ur friend. u beta ask for forgivenes nd get rid of dat tin nd move on with ur life. u cnt marry ur frinds guy nw, haba, sumone u re very close to  

highland:

You will need these products from Green world to add serious weight

Protein powder (just like powder milk)

Deep sea oil

call me o8o/3/8/o/o/o/9/7/4/

tanks, but nt dat serious weight. just to be plum a bit.

iyatrustee:

maybe you are loving the wrong kinds of ladies. some of us have good jobs, pay our bills without waiting for some weakling with a third leg like you to come open their big mouths tommorow to say we are after them for their money

True talk,

snthesis:

It cud also go to d ryt places

Plenty of rest is quite good, spoil urself a lil bit

tanks but in case i dnt really hv much tyem to rest, cos of my work. i work for 14hrs a day. is dere any option?

blank:

Why shld she come n act d role of a wife wen u guys r not married. Pls respect urself. Sometimes guys can be so childish. Have u paid dowry on her head? Why r u expecting osho free? She should come n wash your clothes, cook your food and warm your bed dat is wen u will know dat she is carrying out her duties as a lady.    

ABI oooooooo,

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
IMHO
the guy wanted to be with you back then but when you refused he moved on, along the way you got free(but he wasnt) but continue to play the single charade just to "hit that".
when you refused, he got back to his real life(and his relationship) and patiently keeps you close until he can eat the forbidden fruit. you are definitely NOT a priority in this man's life and his lack of interest in you should have had your alarm bells ringing(if you were not that desperate).

i suggest you surprize him one day by turning up at his door step unexpected, to spend the whole weekend with him and see how it goes.

btw: since you have spent very little time with this guy(in fact none whatsoever) what "relationship" are you talking about?!

i can neva do dat, neva, ok

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
IMHO
the guy wanted to be with you back then but when you refused he moved on, along the way you got free(but he wasnt) but continue to play the single charade just to "hit that".
when you refused, he got back to his real life(and his relationship) and patiently keeps you close until he can eat the forbidden fruit. you are definitely NOT a priority in this man's life and his lack of interest in you should have had your alarm bells ringing(if you were not that desperate).

i suggest you surprize him one day by turning up at his door step unexpected, to spend the whole weekend with him and see how it goes.

btw: since you have spent very little time with this guy(in fact none whatsoever) what "relationship" are you talking about?!

i cant just do dat, neva,

Am slim, can sum1 advice me on wot to eat, i really nit to be fat a bit.

deniyor:

1. It's easier to date other people's gfs. No attachment or responsibilities to take care of. Just enjoy the goods. Now that you hv left your own guy and jumped unto him, well, he is not ready for the commitment.
2. Also he has realised that being friends is not the same thing as being in a relationship with sm1. When you were friends, you were fun and philandering. While dating, it is unacceptable to him. He also finds the relationship version of you boring and fake.
3. Long distance has set him, refer to 1. you are not worth the stress.
4. Do I really need to hammer it in anymore?

knw dat i didnt leav my ex cus of him, i didnt jump to him at al, we both agreed to be datin each oder.

deniyor:

1. It's easier to date other people's gfs. No attachment or responsibilities to take care of. Just enjoy the goods. Now that you hv left your own guy and jumped unto him, well, he is not ready for the commitment.
2. Also he has realised that being friends is not the same thing as being in a relationship with sm1. When you were friends, you were fun and philandering. While dating, it is unacceptable to him. He also finds the relationship version of you boring and fake.
3. Long distance has set him, refer to 1. you are not worth the stress.
4. Do I really need to hammer it in anymore?

gbanikiti:

2b honest wit u dear, check him up 2talk it over,if he refuses again then, ?. Bt if u feel lik sharin it outta here lemme knw,nid 2tel u mor sha.
Nevertheless,if u luv him try 2make him understand,he is stil better than some guys.

tanks alot, u really touched my heart.

gbanikiti:

Did he demand 4sex &u refused? Am only asking cos if he sees romance elsewhr he then wud behav wot u mentioned.
Secondly,did u in anyway offend him?

YEAH, he did o, nd i rejectd. i dnt tink so, at list he shld tell me if i did.

gbanikiti:

Has he made luv wit u? Wots your romantic strength wit him so far?

no, bt we only kised, caress,

SA Goddess:

What he says and does are two different things, he may say he cares but if he shows he does not care, believe what you see NOT what he says!!!

jay bee:

Homeboi is moving on cos he has been der and done IT
Though his actions are cowardly for leading you on false pretence despite the fact that all he wanted was just the nookie.

he hasnt gone anywhere, so dnt even talk to dat side atal

Osama10:

Reality has set in.

but he still sed he cares abt me, i ve pland for both of us to see nd talk abt dis but he sed i sld knw d nature of d job. busy busy al d tyme.

Evagreenfields:

I think u shld call him to kw wassap even if it means travelling down to c him.have a heart to heart talk with him; from wat u ll discuss with him u ll kw if u shld move on or hang on.

I do call him,send text , send e mails, i ve even pland of visitin him, only for him to give sum excuses lyk dat. at yyems he replies d mails nd text but on a neutral level.

Thinkin abt gettin married to him, ogunmodede oladapo,

AM 24YRS, A FEMALE AND AM WORKING WITH A BANK, I MET DIS GUY LONG TIME AGO. WE BOTH WORK IN THE SAME PLACE THEN, HE ASKD ME OUT BUT I SED WE CANT CUS WERE WOKING IN THE SAME PLACE, MORESO ,I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP THEN. BUT ALONG THE LINE I BROKE UP WITH MY GUY DUE TO SOME REASONS. AND DIS GUY AND I WERE VERY CLOSE, WE GO TO LUNCH TOGETHER, HE DROPS ME IN MY HOUSE, PICK ME IN THE MORNIN TO WORK AGAIN, BUT LATER HE WAS REDEPLOYED TO ANODER TOWN. NW WE ARE NW DATIN. BUT HE HAS CHANGED TOTALLY NO CALLS, NO E MAIL, NO VISITING. WE VE BIN DATIN NW FOR THE PAST 4 MONTH I ONLY SEE HIM ONCE, PLS FRIENDS WOT SHOULD I DO?

@doc, tanks alot.

@DOC, wots can cause a smell on d private part?

love hummmmmmmmm.