naija4life247:


Slap sense into the girls' head, then you will see their Cultist boyfriends come and teach you a lesson you will never forget. People no play with you, e come dey vex you, you wan slap them, go ahead nah

you get sense at all,,? are u a fool? so when you go to the bathroom and a person is inside you start blabbing and insult the person? if they have done nothing as u claim why did l open the thread? please if u dont have anything to say u can skip the post

Munzy14:

Clowns don't make the goto boy friend for a mature lady..

Most of these skit makers and stand up comedians are different in real life...Some no dey smile anyhow in reality..

Their is something unserious about a man being a clown...It is highly repulsive for some ladies even if you have a comfortable life..

Again, one can be a clown for the money, and one can be a clown and use it as advantage to be touching the ladies who come closer anyhow..It is very very disgusting...

In whatever you do as a man, Respect your self and have self control around women..Even if she is your romantic interest..Their is something attractive in a man who acts like he doesnt care.

Well, your new life is fake one due to past insults from women, that is why it is hard for you to maintain it..Just return to the clown sef, but respect boundaries..You don't touch a lady anyhow even in private if she isn't yours and not cool with that.

Read body language of women more...They communicate more through that means.

My new life is not fake please, people learn and change , there are characters you your self engage in that something may have prompted you to stop doing them l am not forming anything

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It's just a matter of time and you will port back to the normal you. This one you are doing now is adaptation to new environment.

Forget the mr mature you are trying to act once you get comfortable the boring life will be dropped.

It will take just one neighbor be it guy or girl that will come close to you and you will feel comfortable then you start hearing " so you dey talk like this", " you wey no dey laff with person ", " you wey too serious " blah blah blah then in your head you will feel like me wey be Mr no dull moment and boom all hell will be let loosed [/quote ) This is the 8 months l have lived in that compound and l honestly dont see myself going back to that life,, you don't understand how l feel that day when a jambite threatened to slap a graduate because l refuse to respect myself,,, so l have learned bro,,is just that l dont want someone intentionally provoking me because l choose to be on my own.

Ate247:
I think you talk to much

Talk too much how? in a compound l just explain that l hardly relate with anybody,, this is over 8 months of living in that compound and l can bet most of them dont even know my name.

Thebadpolitican:


Now that you have kept your distance in your new compound you can give anybody wotowoto if dem disrespect you

Thanks man, l learn in a bitter way,, trying to make everyone happy abd been a clown is a receipt for insult,,,

Prettygirl200:
Well based on your experience in the first compound I wouldn't advice u to repeat it again but then forming Mr too serious is not that nice, my gender most times are annoying, yeah " I know. What u would do is this out of all the males in the compounds u can be close to one or two the rest just keep dem for tight corner if them see say u get two or three friends dm no go dey too dey reason am. Shey u get?

Thank you l am close with the males,, we greet on regular basis and interact when am back from work,, is just that the females when they greet u once or twice and expect u to follow up with the momentum of been all that friendly and gisting and you refuse the next thing attitude begins,, they can gossip me all they want l honestly dont care,,but trying to be rude or hostile to me for no reason is what l dont think l will tolerate.

ChoCho54:
Nope!

I will be praying for you.

This is unnecessary,,, and not part of the topic

ChoCho54:
Na face me I slap you be your compound?

yes any problem with that?

Channah1:
Must you relate with any body?
Can't you be by yourself?

Abeg, rest!

you didn't get the post ma

Zeekaycn:
While you were there playing with them one naughty guy de f*** them one by one. Na him them go fear and respect. Fear that gender ooooo.

l swear bro,,in my previous compound their guys dey come knack them even for the compound,, when they finish go,na me go come be sabinus or apkororo wey go come dey entertain them,, l dont want to live that kind of life again,l am more mature and wiser now,,is just that this ones in my presentcompound are trying to get at my nerves for starving them of my attention.

sript:
Chief check yourself well...

You got tons of character flaws you didn't realize, hence everyone is leveraging on it

that was before,, how this ones know my flaws when l barely talk or relate with them?

Nonam:


Since you are starving them of your attention, be ready to receive constant gossip.

l tell u bro,,,

pheelhip:


Relate with them, greet them, smile abit but keep distance, no unnecessary jokes, keep conversations short.

na so e dey start bro,, that was how l started in the first compound,,,,let them just be on their own and let me be,, the other day l was at the bathroom and within 5 minutes of been in the bathroom one of the girls came and start blabbing how the person in the bathroom is wasting her time,, saying all manners of rubbish outside to purposely irritate me,,l just came out and hold my peace ,,l didn't reply to the barking dog,,but honestly one day l am afraid they will push me to the wall.

Ballzproblemm:
first thing in this life ,if me and you have no business together ,u have no right to disrespect me be you senior or junior , check yourself well nobody will disrespect person they Don't know, maybe you are still exhibiting clownish behavior ,if you aren't ,then ignore them do your thing highest na side talk as far they ain't saying it go your face

God forbid bro,, the previous compound taught me a lot of lessons,, this ones are just pushing me to see my limit and they will definitely get it,, is like women feel insulted when been ignored,is annoying bro

Youngwiz71:
Wetin happen for your previous compound na "see finish" them dey call am..... For my dialect them say "when you play with dog too much e go tear your cloth"..

As for this new compound I happy say u don borrow sense, talk to them when you have to but other than that my brother hold Side....

Plato talk say "a fool talks because he has to say something but a wise man because he has something to say"...

Thank you my brother,my life is more at peace

So the previous compound l lived in, l was literally the clown of the house, I try to make every one happy especially the females. l was jovial, friendly and accomodating. I realized that the attitude wasn't in any way paying me. l was disrespected and it looked as if most of the girls were just using me to pass time and nothing more.

The one that broke the camel's back was when a girl barely 20yrs in my compound threatened to give me a hot slap if l ever touch her, this is a person we do play and gist a lot o. Since that day l borrowed sense.

Now l am in a new compound. Unfortunately the house has a lot of female occupants, with guys, but based on my past experience l no just send the girls and l am already in a serious relationship so even their friendship doesn't trick me. l no just want compound wahala...

So now the way those girls look at me and try to get in between my nerves is something else, all guys play and relate with them so why me? The hostility is getting out of hand and l dont want to slap sense into any girl head.

Please how do l handle this issue.

nawebco:
Talking of religious balancing.. Check these facts

*Facts On Religious Balancing Of Joint Electoral Tickets in Nigeria*

*Fact 1:*
Total States in Nigeria - 36
Christian Governors - 20 (56%)
Muslim Governors - 16 (44%).

*Fact 2:*
Total States in Nigeria - 36
Christian Dep Govs - 22 (61%)
Muslim Dep Govs - 14 (39%)

*Fact 3:*
Total States in the South - 17
Christian Governors - 16 (94%)
Muslim Governors - 1 (6%)

*Fact 4:*
Total States in the North - 19
Christian Governors - 4 (21%)
Muslim Governors - 15 (79%)

*Fact 5:*
Total States in the South - 17
Christian Dep Govs - 14 (82%)
Muslim Dep Govs - 3 (18%)

*Fact 6:*
Total States in the North - 19
Christian Dep Govs - 8 (42%)
Muslim Dep Govs - 11 (58%)

*Matter of Conscience:*
1. Which region has been more tolerant of religious diversity in the joint-ticket elections in Nigeria?

2. Which faith has been more tolerant of grossly lopsided joint tickets in Nigeria?

National
Why did obi pick a Muslim northerner as Vice... Ans. To attract votes not religious reason.

Why did Atiku pick Southern Okowa.. Is to get votes not because Okowa is christian.

Why did tinubu pick Shetima.. To attract votes.

They all are adopting different strategies to win the election. Simple.

If you won't vote BAT/KASH don't vote but don't stoke religious intolerance it won't do this country any good.

#SayNoToReligiousIntolerance

Copied.

ME: with the above facts some brainwashed Christians especially from South still spread the islamization agenda propaganda

God punish you,, you are a fool,, Your life and your generation will be rule and manage the way APC is ruling Nigeria,,

olaniyilukman:
I am a POS Operator and I started my business with as low as #100000 but now I have 5branches to my name and I made nothing less than 30000 to 35000 from all my branches a day...

please you people should stop exposing this our business,, we are becoming more saturated by the day,, let them mock pos operators,, imagine even those who may not smell 70 -100k a month in their working place are mocking pos operators,, this our youths dont have sense o

Kenmatt:
Mark this today, any team he joins will also go down from where they were before he joined.

His career finished in Mardid, check out Juventus and Manchester United.

His inclusion in MANU contributed to where the Club is today and now he wants to go

did u watch juventus last season? were u aware they were trophyless without this same Ronaldo? , so psg that have been playing champion league , semi final and final and was recently kicked out of r16 was not caused by messi? they bought,varane Sancho and Ronaldo,but somehow it is Ronaldo that is their problem? why this so much hatred on this guy? if he retires today,, u you will call ur messi g.o.a.t just for a season and when no one answers you,, you will get bored and keep quiet,, this is beyond football trolling,, this is witch hunting,, please messi is the best,, we agree, enough of the hatred ,, enjoy ur messi and leave Ronaldo for us in peace ,to a lot us he is a mentor, and our own best footballer.

CheapHomes1:


Does the fact that people chose to work for and not start their business justify the mistreatment they receive from their employers?

Must everybody start business? Which business have you started?

The same you who saying employees are wailing is the same person wailing about govt. Why don't you contest for a govt position and go and fix the issues you raised. In your own words "those who take bold steps to go into politics and government are making sacrifices and should be appreciated.

l can bet you are not up to 30yrs and you are likely still in the university,, so this speeches and ranting are expected,, when you come out ur narrative will change,, when l heard the word " is everyone built for business,, l sense unnecessary excuses and laziness,, what do u do for your employers? it is either you are selling or you are rendering services, they still fall under business,, how can one say that of all the businesses in the world they dont have interest in anyone,, of all the services rendered u cant pinch yourself to start any? no problem everyone must not be a businessman ,, but please when they treat as they want to treat you remember not to come and wail here.

younger girls are not virgins , majority of them are broke, emotional instability, and high probability of cheating,, what exactly do they have over older girls? young succulent breast that will still go down after u press it for 2yrs? to think one fool up there is measuring a woman body count by her age? u get sense at all? l have fvcked over 18 young girls and the ocean in between their legs is something else,, ironically enough ,the tightest pvssy l have fvcked this year is that of a 28yrs old lady? what does a simp like u mean by pvssy mileage? guys avoid single Mom, but if u need a reasonable serious relationship go for girls of 27yrs and above as the op suggested, he is a real niggah,, some claim those ladies are pretending,, try pretending to be who you are not for a week and see how successful you can do it,, like it or not in most cases age comes with maturity,, there are things l do and engaged myself in at my early twenties that you wont find me doing them now, so will someone who meet me now claim l am pretending? some of u just love liabilities l swear,,

This small boy may likely be a chronic masturbator who has never tested a woman before ,,like someone said up there a failure and a lonely gay in real life who doesn't know what a pussy is all about, 80 percent of woman are clean down there,, Virgina is ten times cleaner than the mouth,, what is this small boy blabbing about?

novia22:
I don't need to hear his story to swallow this advice hook, line and sinker.
The world is just too evil these days. Everyone is acting all Holy to get what they want and when they do, you see a demon you never knew existed.
Some people have even planned you before coming to pretend to ask for help.
For me, if you are stranded and need a place to stay for a few days, I will gladly check you into a hotel. After your few days finish, OYO but as for my home, fogerrit!!!!

you didn't get what the op is saying,, anybody here can be ur sister, mother or cousin,, and l ask what is wrong with people living with you?

Sucre6:


I love people especially family and friends but I don't know why, but each time i have a visitor, be it my girlfriend, family or friends, when they finally leaves I feel so much relieved and unexplained inner joy, I don't know why

you masturbate right?

Numbers of p.o.s outlet will increase

Kirkman:
A lady who did all these for you in this day and age...

"l met and fall in love with the most precious being any man can ever pray for,, she regroom my life, gave me confidence and showed me love, during service year she encourage me to save so we can start a business , as God will have it after service we started our business separately and doing well for ourselves,"

I would only tell you this... you will get another woman "yes" but you will never get another woman like her or even close to her. Do wetin dey your mind, I have no advice to give you.

Thank you my brother,,

Unzerious:
Not all Dreams are Achievable. You'll have to chose between your Family and Her. Both Decisions will have Repercussions.

If you chose her, She'll never fit into your Family and may likely sever ties between You and your Family.

If you chose your Family, You will Break not just her Heart but Yours.

This isn't the best time to be You, but, I think you should get the Opinions of your Parents and Elders.

God bless you bro, l told my mom about her and even without meeting her she told me her spirit accept the girl after seeing her photos,, though my mother too emphasize on financial freedom before marriage and we are pushing towards that, l just want to do something tangible for my parents before settling down they are still young and doing there normal businesses ,,l just wish the girl will be more patient,, even at 32 or 33 God knows l will marry her.

bukky1994:
mumu why u carry the mata come online since u sabi wetin you wan do

God punish your father, why u no skip the thread since you have nothing to contribute,,, thank u for ur advice the thread is not for teenagers so u can leave, because if u quote me again with insult u will regret the day u join nairaland

bukky1994:
Where is this op from, see no marry that girl because age is not on her side, no be you cause am, she is motivating u so you can marry her asap, u still have younger ones, you better face your life and hustle by 30 u will still get a good woman there are many out there because if that girl gets to 30 and you too 30, u will find her unattractive because she mist have depreciated girls no dey finish my bro and to think of it, she is older than u, na when u marry am u go sabi wetin dey sup

please my attraction is not base on the assertion you are highlighting above,, not every woman is pretending to be good,,, did she tell u men were not asking her out before l came to her? l was the one who intends to marry her and not the other way round,, if l ask her to go now l am sure she wont last upto 6 months as a spinster , because she posses the beauty, intelligent and smartness every man is looking for,, l am not looking for younger girls bro, thank u

DorianD:
Why not share ur concerns with her.Leave no stone unturned and ur fears behind

l told her that when l will be planning to settle down with her should be in three to four years time, she was a little bit concerned and complain she will be 30 by then ,,l told l in particular dont mind 30 is not old age to me,, my fears now is with the plan l have on hands what if they don't materialize, what if l dont have enough to take care of her and my family by then,

please l need a sincere and a sound advice, what you tell me today may go a long way to determine my future decision,
l am the first son of my family, not just the first son , it took my mother another 10yrs to give birth to another child after me, we are four in numbers,the one following me is 10 years younger than l, am 27yrs and he is 17, the other two are 11 and 9 respectively,, l didn't come from a family that is financially bouyant , so we really struggled with my education, l graduated last year and during the service year l met and fall in love with the most precious being any man can ever pray for,, she regroom my life, gave me confidence and showed me love, during service year she encourage me to save so we can start a business , as God will have it after service we started our business separately and doing well for ourselves, a business that pays 6- 7k on daily basis is honestly not a bad start,,
My problem is this: l am 27yrs and she is 27yrs too ,, in fact she is my senior with like five months,, l know as a woman age is no longer on her side in terms of marriage, we have sat down and discuss our future and l told her as long as she is with me she is someone l intends to marry, my major concern is my family, going by my description above , l have a lot of work to do,, will it be selfish from my side if l went ahead to marry her , because l intends settling down at age 30 or 31,, l just have this deep feelings if l let this girl go l will regret it for the rest of my life,,but base on my analogy will l be able to carry and solve my family problems even at 40,, does that mean l wont get married or settle down? l want to expand my business and go see her people,, but my head is just scattered,, please help me nairalanders,, please lalasticala take this to the front page l need audience,,

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