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 Romance / Re: Am I wrong for refusing marriage counseling when my husband suddenly wants anoth by vicvan: 12:31am On Feb 19 |
vicvan: Most people are just terrible husbands or husbands-to-be. Read the paragraph below again; hia "Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over. So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no" |
| Romance / Am I wrong for refusing marriage counseling when my husband suddenly wants anoth by vicvan: 1:49pm On Feb 18 |
https://anthonyex.com/5-genius-ways-to-make-money-from-home-using-ai/ I (33 f) have been married to my husband (36 m) for 7 years. A little over 5 years ago I got pregnant with our son. Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over. So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no because I just needed to get over it and we didn't have the money for it. I hated him for the first year of my sons life. Like with a burning passion. However, I learned about meditation and mindfulness and over time my hatred dissipated and I just felt indifferent towards him. I didn't love him anymore but I didn't hate him. I wanted a divorce but my family and his family convinced me it would be better to stay for my son and I did for him. My relationship with my husband, if you could call it that was fine. I still did everything I was suppose to as a wife. I cooked, cleaned, and let him use my body to get off whenever he wanted. I just saw it as a chore that I needed to do. I thought everything was going fine, our son just started going to Kindergarten and I have been looking for a job while son is at school, I even started working out again. Now the problem is my husband came to me and said he wanted another baby. I laughed because I thought he was joking but he was serious. I told him that I wouldn't have a baby with someone that I didn't love and he was shocked. He told me that he had no idea that I didn't love him Which was ridiculous to me because in the past 5 years I stopped wearing my wedding ring and have never said I love you to him. We didn't do anything together no date nights, didn't exchange any gifts for any occasion. We were just living like roommates who had sex some times. Now, he wants to do counseling and all this stuff to save our marriage and I just don't want to or see the point. Am I at fault? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Celebrities / Re: Solve If You Are A Genius by vicvan: 5:34pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
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| Celebrities / Solve If You Are A Genius by vicvan: 5:14pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
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| Romance / How To Thrive When Everything Feels Terrible (hbr.org) by vicvan: 10:58am On Nov 03, 2020 |
VISIT DIRECT LINK : https://nairaab.com/how-to-thrive-when-everything-feels-terrible/ Avoid negativity Watch out for what you say out loud Adopt a neutral mindset Practice gratitude consistently Take care by managing your energy Seek out positive relationships — inside and outside of work |
| Career / Are You A Job Hunter? Then This Tip Is For You. by vicvan: 10:08am On Oct 29, 2020 |
If you are job hunting its always worth applying for the unpaid internships that you see. Not to take the job but to get interview experience whilst also getting the needed experience should the internship working condition is suitable. Having interview experience will help you in many ways when job hunting, especially in how you answer questions (and how you react to the odd weird question you may face). If they give you the ‘job’ you can simply say you have taken a paid role elsewhere if you don’t want it. You will feel much more prepared and confident when you go for that real job! Useful? https://nairaab.com/are-you-a-job-hunter-then-this-tip-is-for-you/ 1 Like |
| Crime / #endsars-9 Faces Of SARS Officers Accused Of Killing Innocent Nigerians- THEICIR by vicvan: 1:22pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
9 Faces of SARS officers accused of killing innocent Nigerians compiled by THEICIR Today, THEICIR (The International Centre for Investigative Reporting (#THEICIR) is an independent, nonprofit news agency that seeks to promote transparency and accountability.) has provided us the names and faces of SARS officers accused of killing innocent Nigerians; https://nairaab.com/9-faces-of-sars-officers-accused-of-killing-innocent-nigerians-compiled-by-theicir/
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| Romance / 12 Signs Your Relationship With Your Partner Is Healthy by vicvan: 6:34am On Oct 07, 2020 |
Many of us want to be in a happy and meaningful relationship but nowadays the dating club is plagued with superficiality Staying sane is much easier said than done, the initial spark is great but it takes a lot more than attraction to sustain a relationship What are some ways we can keep a healthy relationship and ensure longevity with our partners you may ask? Here are 12 signs you are in a healthy relationship https://nairaab.com/12-signs-your-relationship-with-your-partner-is-healthy/ |
| Education / Internet Marketing Hacks For Students By Scholars Society by vicvan: 4:47pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Scholars Society is an African students' initiative dedicated to training students in essential skills, preparing students for the future of work and entrepreneurship! PRESENTS: Internet Marketing Hacks for Students: Understanding & leveraging the internet to your own advanatge Join Up on Telegram: http://im.bimberbuzz.com
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| Phones / 40 Best Android Smartwatch On Jumia With Price by vicvan: 11:33pm On May 01, 2020 |
Smart watches have been in existence for around three decades. Early versions of smart watches allowed a user to feed data, view different time zones, and perform basic calculation. The next generation of these devices incorporated GPS and a host of other wireless sensor features, including thermometer, compass, altimeter, barometer, camera and accelerometer. Several combinations of these features were developed to attract a specific set of consumers https://accessories.com.ng/40-best-android-smartwatch-on-jumia-with-price/
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| Business / Someone Help! I'm Not Making Money And I'm Broke by vicvan: 8:14pm On May 01, 2020 |
So, I've been searching for ways to make money online. I have made some cos I do some online investment with pretty good returns however, everything came crashing in spite of the pandemic Now, I'm not making any money and I seem to be stuck, not making any progress. Just living everyday like that I'm tired. Someone pls advise what to do with my life oo. I have quite a number of business ideas, but seems not to know how to make money from them HELP!!! |
| Phones / Re: How Much Influencers Earn On Social Media by vicvan: 3:59pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
No doubt, social media has made a lot of people rich and famous. These people are called "influencers". Did you know that the going rate for a sponsored post on Instagram is $1,000 for every 200,000 followers? Source: https://influencer.mediamoneyhq.com/ |
| Fashion / Re: Designers With Taste Are Online by vicvan: 9:32pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
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| Fashion / Designers With Taste Are Online by vicvan: 10:18pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Fashion designer or tailor? Which one are you? Your online presence will tell!
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| Romance / Re: 10 Benefits Of Being Ugly by vicvan: 10:16pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
| Romance / Re: 10 Benefits Of Being Ugly by vicvan: 3:57pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
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| Romance / 10 Benefits Of Being Ugly by vicvan: 1:46pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Ah, you look surprised? Being ugly comes with its own benefits Check them out: http://how2.com.ng/10-benefits-of-being-ugly/ |
| Sports / Russia Banned From All Global Sport Including 2020 Olympics And 2022 World Cup by vicvan: 5:45pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
The World Anti-Doping Agency (WADA) has imposed a four-year ban on Russia from all global sport, including the 2020 Olympics and the 2022 World Cup finals according to SkyNews Read more: https://mediamoneyhq.com/russia-banned-from-all-global-sport-including-2020-olympics-and-2022-world-cup-finals/ |
| Career / Why You Need To Start Searching For Job In December! 3 Things by vicvan: 11:11pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
However, if you are planning on getting a new job in 2020, the planning starts now. But before you continue your job search, here are the things you need to know to help enjoy December’s unique opportunities in terms of job search https://ianthon.com/why-you-need-to-start-searching-for-job-in-december-3-things/ |
| NYSC / Corps Members Making Additional $6 Per Day With 10 Minutes Work! Miscellaneous by vicvan: 7:51am On Nov 28, 2019 |
Do you believe in making small money before making a bigger one? Do you have free 10 minutes a day? Are you interested in having another source of income? An additional 2k or $6 per day isn't bad, right? If your answer to the questions above is a Yes, Join the WhatsApp community here: http://6dollars.mediamoneyhq.com/whatsapp |
| Business / 6 Ways To Attract Money by vicvan: 8:48pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Do we have to chase money or money will have to chase us? Your choice Let’s look at the case of a cat or any pet whatsoever, if you hold on to their food, do they chase you or you chase them to come to eat? Of course, they chase you for their food So also, it is for money, when you possess what money wants, money flows to you Without wasting much time, let’s get to it: https://ianthon.com/6-ways-to-attract-money/ |
| Health / Re: Goron Tula, the natural fruit that cures it all. Look In Here by vicvan: 2:29pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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| Health / Grow Your Nails Faster With These 7 Methods by vicvan: 12:38pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Growing your nails can be a trying process, and it definitely tests your patience. “Nails grow slowly,” “It typically takes about six months to regrow a fingernail and an entire year to regrow a big toenail.” Thankfully, the following expert-backed tips will help speed up the process. Click here: https://ianthon.com/grow-your-nails-faster-with-these-7-methods/ |
| Health / Shaking Your Head To Get Water Out Of Your Ears Could Cause Brain Damage by vicvan: 11:51am On Nov 26, 2019 |
When water gets inside your ear after swimming or a shower, it’s an understandable reaction to try to shake it free by vigorously shaking your head. But you really shouldn’t do this, a new study suggests, pointing out there could potentially be serious health risks that result from violently shaking your head Read more: https://ianthon.com/shaking-your-head-to-get-water-out-of-your-ears-could-cause-brain-damage/ |
| Education / Nigerian Student Sent To Jail For Criticising Lawmaker On FB by vicvan: 2:08pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Be careful what you post online guys A magistrate court in Kano has remanded a student of Bayero University Kano over a Facebook post criticising a state lawmaker. Yahuza Tijjani, a second-year student in the Department of Science and Technology Education, has been held since September 30 after he was arrested by the police in Madobi Local Government Area, his brother, Murtala Tijjani, said Source: https://mediamoneyhq.com/nigerian-student-sent-to-jail-for-criticising-lawmaker-on-facebo/ |
| Phones / New Whatsapp Threat Confirmed: Android & Ios Users At Risk From Malicious Videos by vicvan: 3:23pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
If someone has sent you an MP4 file on WhatsApp, guard against downloading it as hackers may use a critical vulnerability in the Facebook-owned app to execute snooping attack on both Android and iOS devices. Read more: https://ianthon.com/guard-against-downloading-mp4-file-video-on-whatsapp |
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