tunjilana:
Let's clear this up. If want you mean by standing by him is making sacrifices for him, helping him massively to succeed then you have a point but if you feel you deserve a medal for simply him cos he is broke and possibly still adding no value to him aside sleeping with him and still collecting out of the little he has then you are not serious, something you could be doing to five guys at same time and waiting for them to blow and lay claims. show us proofs of the sacrifices you made and the inconvenient commitments you made in a bid to help him succeed. sleeping with a man isn't standing by him.

TheUbermensch:
Leave the girl to be crying foul.

Your guy left you when he hit jackpot and you don't think you're the problem?! Smh

Odianose13:
Ur boyfriend did not call and u refused to call him too.

Now that action of urs was the cause the problem. You are his lady, his counsellor and his friend too . You were suppose to take care of him and call him when u heard of his wasteful spendings.

If u seriously made business plans with that man, you would have followed up to the later. Your cautioning him would have prevented the later sequences of his irresponsibilities. He had a girl cos u were not there for him when he needed u most.

I wud have told u to leave him immediately if u told me u called and cautioned him and he didn't heed to ur advice. But u dumped him at the most sensitive time.

YOU LEFT HIM WHEN HE NEEDED YOU MOST! Guys don't only need ladies only when they are suffering, we also need u to curtail our spendings. I thought I knew how to cut down expenses until I met my wife. Oh! She cut down my expenses further and more reasonable. Now I've got more savings on my expenses than ever in my life and I'm not living below standard.

So he needed you, and you left him. That's not cool. He is coming back now like a prodigal son to a mother which u were supposed to be to him!

Donjazzy12:
Shut your trap! Did you hear me very well? I said, shut your trap! How did you contribute to his winning a gamble? Where you his betting adviser?

You berthed a business idea? How? Why didn't the idea produce? You were not willing to support him, abi. But you are willing to come here and rubbish men because your fornication partner refused to share proceeds of football betting, a venture you contributed absolutely nothing to.

Your sin partner is one million times better than you.

festwiz:
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udumosam23:
I believe people are playing politics with power (NEPA). For instance, I've lived in Calabar, i know the light situation, but during this carnival period it's constant. How did it happen? If it can be like this this period, it can always be.

In Ebonyi, there is regular light at the headquarters and other smaller communities.
But in Afikpo a town next to Abakaliki in size and population no light.

The worst case is that when it is month end, they'll bring the light like twice, go round with ladder forcing people to pay bills. After that moment, the light is gone for another month end.

In my street particularly, we've contributed money about 3 times to fix transformer. I was beginning to think they're doing it on purpose to extort money from us. Even when a pole fell, it wasn't raised until we contributed money for NEPA to raise it. Yet we pay outragious bills.

Tell me if this is not Corruption.

At a time the community got angry and decided not to pay, until light situation improves. But the situation got worse and they were forced to pay all accrued debt before they're connected to grill again. It was Maria who helped out.

Now we haven't seen light for like 2 months, they're here again with bills. Tell me if this is not witchcraf

Could this be responsible for the constant power being enjoyed by Calabar??

DisGuy:
There are no set times anymore, the trains and tracks are always breaking down hence they operate when there's availability now...you might even have to change

Their website is redundant!

Beemhan:
All I see on this this thread are religious fanatics and half-witted misogynists. So if a guy proposes to a lady and she says "no", it MUST be her fault... She must be a hoe... after chopping his money, the least she can do is agree to marry him..? Really, guys?? Are you listening to yourselves

After a guy 'spends money' on a lady, the lady MUST marry him? What sorta financial transaction is that and which body or commission regulates it? The Nigerian Association of Misogynists, and Emotionally Immature Dimwits? (NAMEID)

FYI, to the religious fanatics, not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some of them are meant to teach us and make us better partners in our future relationship (s)

Secondly, marriage should only be a subject of discussion for couples who have an almost telepathic understanding of themselves. A man that doesn't understand a woman well enough to even know whether or not she'll accept his proposal, has no business buying a ring.

Thirdly, there's a zillion valid reasons why a lady may decline a marriage proposal. She may not be READY to get married, She may not see him as husband material. Etc. A lot of you penis-wielding jugheads are dating ladies you don't intend marrying right now! You think that luxury is exclusive to you cuz you're a man? Una dey jons!

If a man can decide whether or not he wants to marry the lady he's dating, it's only fair and logical that the lady in question should also be able to decide whether or not she wants to marry the man without anyone calling her names. The man CANNOT make the decision for the both of them. Is an individual sontin.

"WILL YOU MARRY ME? " is nothing but a question and like questions generally, the answer could be negative or positive. The African man should be able to allow his intelligence match his ego and deal with this reality.

Now to the question proper, if a man proposes and she says "no", there are many possibilities here, depending on why she said no in the first place. Her reason (s) for declining the proposal will determine where they go from there.

Bollinger:
You got that right. Her ambitions set me on the path to success. She makes sure I don't make rash decisions. Which is what a spouse is supposed to do. Now I'm successful. I know your highest ambitions is to find what to eat on a daily basis so you won't understand .

Geofavor:
If she says no ( at the cinema which is IN PUBLIC)?

IMAGINE THE HUMILIATION! Why should a lady allow the relationship go that far?

For me, before I can propose to my woman in public I would have given her prior clues that I'll be proposing soon.

if after this, I go ahead later on to propose like that guy in a cinema to her and yet she says no, I will BREAK UP WITH HER, BUT AFTER I RETURN THE FAVOUR...

desreek9:
Smh for the guys above that said she stayed becos of money, is everything about money? why do most guys in this forum have this mentality, everything is not about money.
There would have been some signs from the lady showing that she is no more interested, e.g
withdrawal, lack of interest in anything involving him etc. so it's either he chose to ignore the signs or he believed there was no way she would say no.

As for the lady, maybe she was looking for a perfect opportunity to be done with him although this situation was rather embarrassing.

Bollinger:
Wrong answer. It depends on the reason why she said no. Remember, women are supposed to be the ones who do the planning. My wife said no the first time because she knew i wasn't ready financially to take care of a family. She wanted us to wait so that there is no risk of babies being made. That motivated me to get my act together. It's been almost 20 years now.

tomtyte02:
Na you arrange yourself very fast and stand. Sometimes, when a girl says no, it might be that she cant marry you as at then. Check and know why she said No. It might be that she has not been convinced on one or two things. So just like asking a girl out over and over again, try again.

Adminisher:
The ideas I have offered is expansion of existing refineries and Co-location of new refineries where there are other refineries. This is the only way to produce fuel cheaply. Refineries are not knew in this world. They are mature technologies and it is established fact that the BIGGER, the CHEAPER
Anyone building a refinery less than 100, 000 barrels a day is an idiot.

Please take it from me that modular refineries will never make a single dollar of profit in the Niger Delta.

I am not saying it for argument or because I don't like Nigeria.
It is just the truth .
Dangotes refinery is 650,000 barrels and would produce maybe 100 by products ..that is a business. Modular refineries are a joke.

TEYA:
Do you know the meaning of modular refinery? Why don't some of you guys stick to the romance section. The level of the discourse in the politics section is beyond your IQ.

Adminisher:
The modular refinery ideea is even stupid. Only ignorant people think it is a sound idea. One of the problems with poverty is it makes humans fight for crumbs. It is an insult to your generation to be fighting for a stupid idea of uneconomic small scale production of a fossil energy source liquid that will go out of use in 20 years.

DuraCon:
The total square meters of d project will be 3895 (9.5mx410m)

earthwork is 3895 x N3230 equals N12,580,850
Asphalting is 3895 x N3950 equals N15,385,250

we also do drainage works

Tolustuls:
ijeododo(the light has not blinked in d past five days) not far from ijegun ikotun.

GavelSlam:
Silence is the best answer for fools.

Igbokwe was never a noise maker and he knows many of his kinsmen are bitter fools so the silent treatment is what they get.

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PaChukwudi44:
don't be dumb!!! which court? the EFCC did a press release and photo op without going to court.The charges are yet to be filed before any court of law

Breaking: EFCC files fraud charge against Innoson | 24 DEC 2017

The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission has filed a fraud charge against Mr. Innocent Chukwuma, alias Innoson, his company Innoson Nigeria Limited and his brother Charles Chukwuma.

The charge was dated 30 November, 2017 and filed at a Lagos High Court. In the case, the EFCC is accusing Innoson of obtaining containers of motorcycles spare parts by false pretences between 2009 and July 2011 in Lagos, ‘with intent to defraud.

The goods, said to be property of Guaranty Trust Bank Plc, were allegedly obtained from Mitsui O.S.K Lines Limited in Apapa . The anti-graft agency claims that Innocent Chukwuma and Charles Chukwuma, “with intent to defraud induced the staff of Mitsui O.S.K and Maersk Line Limited to deliver”, to them through their clearing agents, the motor cycle spare parts, moulds of spare parts and steel structures and raw materials called polyvinlchloride, imported from China.

The charge said the accused falsely pretended that they were authorised by GTB to clear the goods and take delivery of them.

EFCC had on Tuesday arrested Innoson in Enugu, stirring some controversy that the arrest bore some ethnic motive and that the agency should not have waded into a dispute between GTB and the businessman.

Central to this was the story was that the parties were engaged in a dispute over illegal deductions from Innoson’s accounts by the GTB, with Innoson claiming that the bank was indebted to him and his company to the tune of billions of naira. In press and TV interviews, he said he had gotten judgement at both lower and appellate courts and that the GTB has an appeal at the Supreme Court.

GTB responded tersely that it would not join issues with the businessman as the issues between them are in the court.

The EFCC in releasing Innoson on bail Wednesday, explained that he was arrested after he refused to honour invitations by the Commission. He had been arrested by the commission before, and granted administrative bail. But he reneged on the bail and his surety could also not be found.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/12/breaking-efcc-files-fraud-charge-innoson/amp/

maasoap:
You have no right to tell a Muslim girl to wear hijab or not to, whether her head is defective or not. It is called human right under the Nigeria Constitution.
An BTW: she didn't use hijab as a substitute for wig. You should seek understanding of the topic before putting your mouth so that you don't look like a fool.

darqly:
This is entirely your problem, not mine

sherifato:
I can't see any sense in the write up, so because she want to become a lawyer she should disobey her God? Do you remember this so called education or profession come from the west, yet the westerners are tolerating every religion because they feel their should be freedom of religion. Have you been to shell even in Nigeria here where the Indians where their turbans because that's what they belief and it's not disturbing their performance. Am a Muslim and am a nurse,I will rather where and tuck in my hijab inside the uniform to prevent it from touching my uniform rather than wearing a bogus and dangling hair that is against the ethics of my profession. Sentiment is what is killing Africans, the world itself is peaceful only if we can learn how to tolerate each other.

zakari247:
if ever that happens and she is not call to bar then we will introduce a doctrine that will disobey every court ruling in Nigeria that every Muslim will take them for granted. and courts will gossip centers while judges will judge on cases of the Christians in Nigeria.

dabeto:
Small scarf?
You don't understand steathiness in Islam. It starts with "small scarf" and then grow to that gown that you won't even see the eyes again....better nip it at the bud now to avoid greater problem of insecurity tomorrow.

maasoap:
Why must a Muslim girl remove her hijab before she can practise law in Nigeria? Is there anything offensive about it?

zakari247:
thank you brother, they should all convince the Muslims the not wearing hijab it not a Christian thing. they want us to look just like they do but we refuse to wear their identity. thumbs up to Firdausi cuz after her case every other Muslim girl will proudly wear their identity without been discriminated by educated fools.

olarid01:
Believe me bro, if you talk Like this, Walai, you don't really know what Islam is. Please do take your ibadah more seriously and seek more knowledge about your religion so you don't keep making this kind of erroneous assertion.