Someone just decided to waste this amount of noodles just for photo shoot to drive home a point.

Well planned but wasteful, kids are not this cordinated when spoiling things.

stancydg:
The above mentioned music reality show currently running on DSTV and GOTV platforms may likely be the "wackiest" (for want of words) music reality show in recent times going by the quality of opinions thus far by the jury, made up of a 3man panel of Obi Asika; a Record Label Exec, Seyi Shay; a perpetual upcoming artiste going by the unpopularity of most, if not all her songs and DJ Sose; who at best is skillful at selecting songs that'll mostly appeal to club audiences.

One would have thought the record label executive in the person of Asika, who ordinarily should have been exposed to artistes of various kinds, will as a father figure, be in full control of the selection process, by way of influencing the opinions of the others even though the antecedents of past judges on the show clearly sets a pace for divergence in opinions that in the end, engenders a robust decision for or against the candidates. This is terribly in deficit this time on the show, as as much as a snarl from the perpetual upcoming artiste is enough influence of the opinions of two supposedly mature and independently minded men. Sose even managed to take his obvious lack of knowledge of music and consequently, a lack of sound judgement to annoying levels by always concurring to whatever Seyi Shay breathes, despite his body language telling otherwise.

All of the above is obvious in the audition of the young music producer, whose image you'll find attached to this post. I can bet that IK, the show host was shell shocked that the young man had to be turned down for no reasonable point, except for displaying his musical dexterity. If that's a crime, then pray tell me what Idols is all about?

I was part of the very first Idol show in Nigeria that produced the likes of Timi Dakolo and Omawunmi and what I can clearly remember is that singing foreign songs or even displaying your vocal dexterity wasn't a crime. If it was compulsory for candidates to do local pangolo songs for the show to be seen as "Nigerian Idol", like Miss Shay foolishly posits, then I dare the show organisers to switch the nomenclature to "Naija Oosa/Ojuju etc" and compel the judges to speak Yoruba, Hausa and Igbo.

Besides, in the first Idol show in Nigeria, the jury made up of seasoned music industry legend like Dede Mabiaku, Radio Joc; Dan Foster and a Ghanian lady popularly referred to as "It's not werking for me" had their independent opinions of the candidates even though one out of the trio always played the devil's advocate.

Question now is; who the hell is the devil's advocate that'll ensure a robust decision making process in the ongoing Idol show, when from all we see, all trio are sleeping with their heads in the same direction??

Reason the current panel needs to be disbanded, asides the joke Seyi Shay has made of the show by unprofessionally making mockery of young chaps she is meant to encourage, thereby wreaking psychological damages that may be indelible in the lives of the up and coming generation.

PS: I don't know the guy being auditioned in the attached pictures as I am speaking for countless others that are in my opinion, obviously far ahead of the judges musically, but were turned down.

Your analysis is bias as well, every individual has a style, Seyi is doing her job, there's no point lying to people or sugarcoating the truth, if your performance is bad, she says it as it is, there is no rule that says everyone has to be nice.
The guy you put his pic had a bad performance,let's call a spade a spade.
If you had even written in defence of the 17year old girl that sang well and played the piano, that would have been fair to the ear but you gave your obvious bias out.

ahnie:
DJ sose has no business being a judge there.
Did you guys noticed how shayi Shay treated that igbo guy called chinedu?

Those judges should be disband joor.they lacked xposure and professionalism.

If you were the judge, would you pick Chinedu Chikwendu?

Did you watch the way they all treated Kayode the yoruba guy?

They first asked if he was actually 27 and Seyi insinuated he was using Football age, they all assumed he was violent reason they said he should be made to leave the premises before they will all come out.

Everything shouldn't be tribal.

Ikoja aye, I know he's cruising though but he can't handle CeeC

kenzysmith:
any when you go marry 35 this year we done wait we done tire

She was married, she has two beautiful kids.

Why take yourself through unnecessary stress?

you are not overreacting going by all you stated here, she isn't doing well at all, BUT, a woman wouldn't just start misbehaving if her husband is also not misbehaving, I can't take your side of the story seriously until I hear Madam's side if the story too.

As for the friend you've been close to due to 'sexless marriage", are you sure the person has not been the issue all along?

Think about that!

Bigman that could leave his family in darkness for four whole years, is that one a big man?

OP, your own fault is not doing the illegal connection on your own, you should have done that and wait till he comes then you will discuss the way forward, that way, he will know you have a mind of your own and can take decisions.

I shock won bakon, badboytimz in the building..
Congrats son, all the best.

I hope Osupa is healthy with this his stomach, kilosele gangan?

Another story around poverty

I don't understand how people see those with poverty mindset as the best type of people.

A woman is automatically a wife material once she can drink garri with you.

How can there be peace and love when you drink garri morning, afternoon and night?

If not for the situation of things, at 28, you should be married yourself.

The lady could be about 8 to 9weeks pregnant judging form your description.
Get a pregnancy test kit from any pharmacy for self check or visit a lab for proper confirmation.

I must say, if she is not interested in keeping the baby, time isn't on her side, she needs to decide now.

Atleast Innocent is constant in the names.
Happy birthday son, grow and shine.

Don Jazzy has lost it,
he has no talent again unlike those days.
I will even pick his boy Korede Bello over this current Rema.

JungleJustice01:

I'm sorry but no. My actions have no justification...and I rate my family above every other thing. I don't think I'll be going back to such risky endeavors. The pains far outweigh the rewards.

It's in your blood, you will still go back.
If you can deceive a naive girl into committing adultery with her, you will still go back to do more with other innocent women.
My heart is with your wife

I commend these tattoo artists, if you can draw perfectly on a soft skin, you are extra talented.

extol1:

why insulting him what he needs right now is advice. he is feeling remorseful

He's feeling remorse because he feels he has HIV, the thought of the disease alone has a way of humbling people especially adulterers.
Once he confirms that he is negative he will go back to the lady or find someone else to do it with.

I only feel pity for the wife.

I hope they won't appoint another Vice president while the current one is on transit .

Family..

Sergio Ramos the thug, I heard he's likely retiring in Manchester United.

Viknat:
if u can't choose words before posting, there is nothing wrong if you remain silent. We understand this is a faceless forum, so u can say what u like, and besides, I don't even see local entertainment, whether music, movie or even comedy, so funny enough I don't know her. U firago specie drawn from virago

You do not know her but somehow you know she bleached.

This tells more about the people around him, even with his fall out with Dbanj, no one still knew anything.
Shame on sabinus bloggers, aunty Kemi and co.

You asked if you are insane?
Yes you are!

God Bless the father in law, he did well to protect his daughter.

You sent a heavily pregnant woman out of her house at 1am with no care, you were expecting her family to come beg you to take her back as per Alpha and Omega.

They beat you to your game, kindly go and collect your bride price.

Happy married life to you and your wife.
God be with you.
What happened to your first wife or other wives?

FKK will not go and sort his domestic issue, he's there casting stone, someone that deserves to be stoned.

pocohantas:
Sponsored post, I bet Regina knows better.


Jaruma is cashing out from the gullibility, desperation and stoopidity of some women all over Nigeria.

Jaruma is married to a boytoy. Na she dey work for the luxury they enjoy.

The other Miwa chick wey be like say she get sense, is finally pregnant for a palliative-prick.

The one in Dubai is also married to a giveaway husband.

These are the top3 Kayamata sellers and their love lives.

None of them could hook a premium tear rubber man with all their kanya mata. Only randy Nigerian-used-polygamists.

I heard this gist in particular.

It's a pity she loves her husband too much that she doesn't even want to see any other woman around him but some moves are not just worth it.
It's certain now that the man's mistress will also attend her funeral,it's pitiable.

GboyegaD:


Hmmm.....good twist. However, remember someone reminded OP that all they had was 6 meetings and not necessarily a date. OP might have been confessing all his plans because he usually had great sex during these times and she was rolling with it. Do we still consider him as patient?

This distance thing in courtship is kinda personal to me, reason I don't see it as an excuse for bad marriage.
I mean who will be bad will be regardless of how long they spent in courtship or how often they see each other.
The most important is for couples to do background check on each other before going into marriage, that's the practice in my place.

Shokoloko:

Its not luck. Nigerians need to stop marrying strangers. The key to marriage is marrying someone you like, so that days when love is not felt, at least you still like the person and will not hurt him/her.

OP thinks that visiting someone twice a year is equal to courtship

If there is no child there is enough time to walk away. When baby girl cannot sustain a business yet has liver to transfer money that is not hers to another man ........................................

@bold , if true is the saddest part of the story.