nferyn:

On what basis are you saying this?
Please define [i]clean [/i]to me and then we can have a meaningful discussion. It is pointless if we are talking about different things

Clean means that once u touch her, she feels the touch and enjoys it without comparing it to others.
Clean means "new" in term of experience, and you teach each others what you like and not like, and u will face that more if u are new to sex compared to "experienced" guys, and this is healthy in my opinion.

nferyn:

So what if she does? Besides, someone who thinks that the size of his [i]cock [/i]is that important has got serious issues

The size of the cock was just an example, but my point was I am not there to be compared to others, I am there coz I am in love and her entire sex experience should be just me, and she should be my entire sex experience and teach each others.

nferyn:

So you are defining the worth of the marriage by having sex. I was under the impression that marriage was about more than sex, but of course, I could be wrong.
Once again, you're stating that the only thing you get from marriage is sex.

Again sex was one example of the fruits of getting married, not everything in marriage ofcourse.
Having a family and responsibility and thinking about the future and all the good stuff, are just examples. But ONE very nice fruit that reflects love and all the emotion u have to each other is having sex, so being inexperienced and teaching each others what u want and go to the peek together in my opinion is the BEST thing u can get from sex. That also what I meant by clean.

nferyn:

The first impression I get is that either you're not married (and thus do not really know what married life is about) and/or you haven't had sex (which would explain your obsessive approach to sex)

This is not the point for discussion today...
Anyways, I liked ur questions, and I hope I have answered them.
Have a nice day

CimonJorr:

Yellow card...

Thanks for the card CimonJorr, I loved it...

The scenario should be

U being a virgin -> Find a virgin person (same experience as u) --> get married --> have a family --> Have sex.

Other than this scenario is NOT normal, and people who are defending having sex before marriage or with non virgins are just peopl who suffers from the problem that they can't be virgins anymore.

A virgin can be non-virgin, but a non-virgin can't be a virgin (By virgins I mean real virgins not talking about operations of course).

Also people who defend non virginity are only people who can't control their desires enough to find the life partner, they just get sex when they wanted it, no matter what are the consequences.

No offense to anyone, this is just my opinion and it makes sense to me though.

nferyn said" Don't forget that at the rate our body replaces our cells, no bodypart will be the same after 9 months maximum. If you're really that worried about cleanliness, just wait a couple of months and you'll have a brand new girl "

I think this is only correct for people who want to have sex casually, without the meaning of the sex being involved.

A girl who has had sex before 100 times is not clean even if her "cells" are renewd mr. nferyn.

At least she will always compare between your performance and the other guys in her mind before u.
She can say, Ok Mr nferyn was doing his best but, Mr X had a larger cock. Do u like to be put in this situation? Always in comparoson for your dignity.

Having sex after marriage makes a family with all its meanings, compared with animals!

If u get all what u want before marriage, then why getting married then, and if u don;t get married then there is no family and if there is no family then there is nothing left to be done. Have sex, have sex, and then have sex, so what?

Thanks goodguy, u answered for me.

I meant in my previous posting is that, just know the person and make sure you're emotionally compatible. Once u are done, both of them will be competing to satisfy/please the other. But I can't imagine myself touching a girl who has been [sexually involved] before till the other guy was totally satisfied. As if you're using a used non clean property. I also believe in saving yourself to your spouse, clean and new.

Virginity means something "new", clean, and as if you are the first owner for her and she is the first owner for you. U try and say all what u want and she does the same. We are all different, everyone want something special form the other partner. You will do all ur best to please her ans she does the same to u. Again Virginity is amazing u feel that she is YOURS, never touched before and just for u. Conclusion: Virginity it is for both males and females FOREVER.