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Family / Re: Please My Husband Is Diagnosed Of Azorspermia Zero Sperm Count by Weijjjj: 11:40am On Jun 01, 2023
I will advise you to discuss with your husband about adopting a child right away.

Why you may ask, It's for you to have a child to bring you succour while you both tackle the problem medically and prayerfully. I know this as I am married to a man diagnosed with azoospermia for the past 19 and a half years and from experience, I can tell that you both have a very long road ahead.
It's an experience I do not wish on my enemy......

If your husband has the obstructive type, then hopefully with surgery some sperm can be extracted and used for IVF, if its the non-obstructive type.. then Jesus is Lord and with God all things are possible....

I will strongly advise that you INSIST on attending all doctor's appointment with him, so you get all the full details about his condition in order to be able to make an INFORMED DECISION about your future with him.

In my case after about 9-10 years of marriage, I gave my darling husband an ultimatum, we either adopt a child or I walk away! He accepted and we have just that child today that has been my saving grace and joy - even though his family accepted the child half heatedly. I stayed in the marriage because of my belief that marriage is for life and I don't belief in remarriage, I don't know about you.

I am in my upper 40s and darling husband is over 50 now, but I still believe what God cannot do does not exist.

Good luck and I wish you both well. I pray for a miracle to that will surprise you, me and other people going through similar situation

I had to register another username in order to comment as I like to keep my privacy on such sensitive matters.

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