dpete1:
u broke up because of infidelity on both sides,then you left her as a virgin.abeg what's your own definition of infidelity



u must be high on sapele water


attention seeking dude!!!

I met another lady, she got to hear it. And she said yes to my cousin that later told me.

Good day. Please I met this girl when she was 16 and I was 17. We became friends and broke up in less than 6 months due to infidelity on my side and hers too. I left her a Virgin. I really love her. I staged a come back some years ago and she maintained that it should be a no sex relationship as before. I inquired and she told me she's no longer a Virgin. I then left her out of annoyance. This year 2015, my mum started talking about marriage and she's the only girl I love that I would want to settle down with. I contacted her around February, she maintained no sex and I agreed. I was on training in a far state and we couldn't see till May 2015. I was happy that I have my dream girl. On our first date, she asked if our age difference would be a problem in us getting married, she's 25 and I'm 26, I told her no.
The thing is, I care for her very much well but I don't understand if she's really into me, the same way I'm into her.
From May till date, I was only able to hug her twice, no kissing has ever occurred between us since May.
She disrespects me and at times when I call her, I won't be happy after the call.
I have told her severally about this and at a point when she requested for her monthly internet subscription, I told her that money is no longer involved in our relationship. I didn't say this because of money, I average 200k monthly. I said it because she doesn't show any kind of affection towards me. She picked offense and called it quit, that same month(November). Before the end of that November we got back again and she visited and spent 3 days in my house. I made advances for sex she refused. In those three days, we didn't kiss nor hug. I managed to hold her at the back and shoulder sometimes. I told her that I don't really understand her. Why not even a kiss or a hug. Let's cuddle, she refused. She later left for her house and started being harsh on me. The thing is, I have spent some money on her. When she left for her house, she started being harsh on me whenever I call or text her on whatsapp. She later apologized for her harshness without being told. The following day, I sent her some breakup messages that I feel sorry about right now. Told her she should help me by refusing any advances I make to come back in the future, that she should go. I unfriended her on fb and deleted her contacts. She called and apologized and before evening she sent me another message that we should break up. Initially I accepted the breakup but now I want her back. She has not being picking my calls and have also blocked me on whatsapp. What should I do.