laydoh:
u r 4rm kwara state?wia exactly

Ifelodun

Ur relationship is at a very delicate stage,and its depends on how you handle it from here,you can either make it work or destroy it. To everyone telling you she needs financial petting and maybe she is seeing someone else,that might or might not be the case. Remember taiwos destiny is different from kehinde. I know of a friend who said she can't date a guy because he is not creative,the only thing they talk about is business cos they are both in the same line of biz,so he is more or less like a business partner. Girls want guys who are spontaneous, fun, strict when necessary ,creative and so on. For example my bf recently played a game where he acted like a network provider and asked me to subscribe for hot romantic messages for seven days,even got his friend to talk to me as a customer care. My point is girls fall for this kinda thing,stop taking the same routine everyday. One would eventually get tired,be dynamic. Don't just call and say hello,how was ur day and end the convo there. Love fades away,you have to constantly remind yourselves why you loved each other in the first place by doing things to spice the love.
Everything must not be about money,I love my guy and he is still hustling too but I love him for who he is,so don't conclude its financial related. Secondly,communication is the hallmark of a good relationship. Talk to her and find out what are her expectations from the relationship. A lot of people makes mistakes in this aspect,you should enter a relationship clearly defining the purpose to one another.

This is long overdue,am tired of people referring to me as non Yoruba because am from kwara state. I have to start explaining history to them

Waow,this guy. He was always a celeb then with his calm nature and accent. His name is Afolabi Nosa and not musa o

AutosBay:
please locate an Npower representative for your local government like in Lagos each local government has an Npower representative or you can call the overall Npower representative but he is in charge of Lagos his name is Felix Ayorinde 08035199414

Yes,I spoke with my local govt representative and his response was to go and see her at alausa.

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I SMH when I see a post like this,did you come here to promote a tribal war. I wonder when people would be reasonable enough to realise that before we are Yoruba,Hausa or igbo,we are all humans.
Which study showed that peoples attitude is in accordance with the tribe they come from that you have to conclude that all Yoruba's are like that.
My aunt married an Igbo man,this man refused to work all in the guise that he wanted to go back to school. He became my aunts bank,she would only receive alert on her phone,cos she was a Christian and believed in total submission to her husband. This Igbo man would bring his girlfriend home and introduce her as his sister,never allowed any family members near my aunt cos he didn't want us to enjoy her money. He would use my aunts hard earned money to stock up his girlfriend shop. The girlfriend would come,my aunt thinking its his sister would even give her money and cloth. Eventually, the step sister was the one who told my aunt the truth,still he begged and they moved on. The real issue was when she needed airtime of just #100 and he refused to give her knowing fully well they paid her salary not long ago,things became violent they got a divorce. On the day he was leaving,he packed the flat screen TV,air condition, generator and other items in the house,mind you he wasn't the one who bought all these things. Ooh,did I tell you she collected a loan for him at her workplace for him to get a car,she continued paying the loan while he went with the car. Family wanted to take it up with him,but my aunt being the coolheaded person told us to leave him to God,Now was it a Yoruba man that did all these,was it a Yoruba man that was callous enough to rape my friend for the 1st and second time.
Was it a Yoruba landlord that showed me pepper where I served in south east that they entered my room and stole my things.
Was it a Yoruba man that did all this,yet I never came on nairaland to spew trash about Igbo's,I still have them as friends.so before you come here and create a tribal war,try be of help to your sister instead

AutosBay:


Please if you are part of Nagro and Nteach, and you discover your payment is on hold, pls send your name, program, LG, evidence of employment example your posting letter, time booklet, or assumption of duty letter to support@npvn.desk-mail.com
Or you notice you haven't been paid either for this month or previous months, kindly login to check your payment status.

I have sent support a mail,was asked to submit the document to my state focal person.please how do I go about that

Congratz babe,the struggle was worth it. Na person wey u sabi well but ain't disclosing my identity. If that's ur age na hin be say I senior u

Zimri:
When there is money. I'm sure she attended a Private university

She attended a federal university

npowerng:


After the physical verification, Did you receive any SMS or Mail from Npower?

Hello npowerng,
I am a 2016 volunteer and I have been going to my ppa,didn't receive December stipend,later found out that my payment is on hold as a result of my name being on the absconded list. The information is false as its was a mistake with my file at the LG level. I have sent a mail to support and attached the necessary evidence but haven't gotten a feedback. Please help resolve this issue as soon as possible.
Thank you

npowerng:


Weldon sir

Hello npowerng
I didn't receive my December stipend and I checked my profile its says payment on hold,which am sure is a mix up cos I have always been attending my ppa.
What can I do to rectify the situation.

gidjah:
Hahahahahahha, chei we introverts kind of life style... Quite unique, God is just great. Been indoors since y day after church. On. My bed too. Thank God for my newly acquired gadgets. Very strong battery cells to keep me flowing. Would have tot of going to the Abuja millennium park.. But abegi I no fit drive inside this
cold weather. The car sef go suffer for my hand so let me kuku MA lay on me bed. Like seriously we rock the world. I am enjoying my privacy and lonely thing. Where do u reside @wide flower? Who knows you could be my next door neighbor !

Lol,Thank God for the 20hrs electricity supply,it's keeps me going. In as much as we enjoy our privacy,we should also try to moderate it. Haha,I can't be your next door neigbhour. Am in Lagos

gidjah:
I know most of you guys gonna stay indoors just like moi...anyways,its part of the fun, God bless you all.

Like seriously, am celebrating on my bed with TV and my phone

locust:
Merry Christmas homies.
How are you celebrating? I'll try to go out there and woo a lady. I go shame the devil today.
Yes! I'm beating my chest on it

Lol
Ride on bro
We gat ya back
Sha don't come back with a swollen eye

Merry Christmas guys and happy new year in advance.
I pray today birth the beginning of wonderful testimonies in our lives. Happy celebration

DAYTEECOM:
still available MTN DATA SME and [url]smedata.com.ng[/url]

Tried reaching you sir but your line is switched off.
I need data

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plavic:


Alright, but bear in mind that circumstances and people differ and results might differ too.

1. Smile often: The face is the door to the state of the heart. A smile is often a sign of approval. When one smiles, it creates an atmosphere of friendliness.

2. Kindness: Most introverts are kind and understanding people, but there are silent wicked folks too. Being kind to people creates a warm regard for you in their heart, hence their behaviour toward you is reciprocated in kindness.

3. Truth: No one loves a liar, nor would want to associate with them. So truth spoken without hurting the feelings of others makes them know you as a truthful person, meaning gossips won't "bring their market for you to buy"

Other striking qualities include hardwork, humility punctuality etc

Rightly said,I smile a lot,only with people am comfortable with,can't just begin to smile at a random person. Believe me,I am fun and loving only if I trust and am comfortable with the person. My family knows that,the issue is people outside,for example the route I take to work everyday,I got an info from a friend that the people there was gossiping about how I keep a stern face anytime I pass. Now that's a bad impression, you can't just expect me to start smiling when am walking,its doesn't make sense and I keep the stern face so no one would try rubbish with me,I hate forming familiarity with people because then they had take advantage of my kindness and my being transparent. That's why I don't like people getting close because of my past relations with people

gidjah:
hahaha ha mental Kwa? That one na another level of. They are learned people o, the husband is a vice principal in a very reputable school up north. The woman sef na acada. They weren't just it that's the summary of the matter.may be they have issue of low self esteem too abi wetin we go talk?we intros really need to wake up and dig things up the right way. This our 'over shy and crude attitude' won't take lot of us far. I for one has out grown most of this stages..though I still cherish been alone like kilode! I value my. Privacy and perimeter too much. And if I have my way I would like to live alone till christ returns�. Any one in my shoes pls?

You might be a little right on the low self esteem,I used to suffer from it while growing up,then to open my mouth take greet people na wahala,even to pass on my street where people are closely watching was a crime,thank God have gotten over that. Honestly, their problem goes beyond introversion,being an introvert or extrovert during a time of crisis,you forget who you are at that moment and all you are concerned about is how to find a solution to the problem. Everything in life is about moderation, we intros should learn to get along with people in our own little way cos we can't spend the rest of our lives alone without interacting with our immediate environment.
About being alone,yes I also value my privacy a lot,infact right now my right to privacy has been confiscated because everyone is home for Christmas and its a full house.
I even think about it sometimes, if it was possible to live in seclusion as long as I have everything I need but truth is its not possible,and its not healthy for ones mind.we can't deal with life alone,we need people around us.

owolabee:
dis one that I've not gotten either Test invite or 'Chill pill' mail, hope everything is alright sha.
who else is in my shoe

I wonder o,I didn't get any mail from them.

gidjah:
hmm maybe this is critical of, while I lived far north few years ago, I vacated my flat when I had to honor my transfer to Abuja.. I gave my flat out to this couple, freshly married, both were intros wallahi those two no dey try at all. Mumu follow join for their matter, they were both teachers in my area, by the time I came visiting that meiborhoid years back, na so so stories of hate complains full my eats. The couple weren't relating with the flat mates, the wife was pregnant and ready to deliver you can't imagine the man couldn't talk to the next guy later neibor to come help. The woman put to bed in his room yet he couldn't call the next door flat mate who is a nurse, until the new born baby died in the room yet the couple didn't raise any alarm!!! I was so disappointed at them when I came visiting. Two mature graduate married in a room but live like strangers within the compound with poor relationship. So marrying ones kind of temperament is not a good idea ever

This your story is very strong o and like Donoms said I think their case is beyond introversion. If not someone should explain the term introversion again. I am exactly like that in the sense that I don't relate with people in my environment cos I can't stand gossips and hypocrisy.Something happened last month a woman that I do not have any rapport with,just casual greetings fainted,I heard shout from her room,I went there and rendered the little help that I could. Just because we are introverted doesn't mean we should neglect people completely,like people would say,your neighbour's are your immediate family,in terms of crisis they would be the one to come to your aid first before any of your family member arrives. To the point of a baby dying,I don't think they are both mentally stable

plavic:


Hello dear ,I could help you deal with that - people's misunderstanding of whom you are if you permit me to.

I also do not talk much but people do not misunderstand me. They actually miss me when they do not see me for a while. Mention me if you'd like to know how.

I get you but that was when I was in school,now I just try to get along with people without too much familiarity but its would be nice to hear how you do it

Thank God for you,it's a real testimony for many has passed through it without living to tell the story.

marachy:
i have not gotten too o lagos centre....what is happening

I have not gotten too,Lagos. Its should be in batches,let's be hopeful

CHRISTIAN71:

I believe you quoted me and I believe you did not read all my write up because you feel you can take an element from my compound to win cheap point.
I never said self control by partners are wrong, note I generalized it that's because I know that in some relationship it's even the lady in rare occasions that initiate it, my dear I even cited myself as an example.
I will not bring you to my level because I don't know your level of understanding but I will take you back to your days of adolescence when mumsi would always say, if you can't abstain, use a condom. That means our parents understand that weakness in us. Even God understand our weakness and that's why he said we should abstain from fornication and adultery. Haven said the above, we all can agree that our parents in most cases fail to teach the male child the need to be in control of their emotions and their hormones, things has gotten so bad that even our female children are no longer taught these norms. At this point, I would like to take a break on this topic. Sincerely, I would have loved to highlight more points to justify and bring out the truth about many things but I am busy at the moment.

Easy there Mr macho guy,I never knew its was you I quoted in the first place,was referring to the guy who said if she is not a virgin then she should give in,cos the guy who disvirgined her doesn't have two heads. You don't need to bring me to your level cos I smell pride there,so thanks am okay with my level of understanding.
Also,no need to send me home to my parents cos they trained me well and they obviously taught me self control, never I repeat never did my mum encourage me to use condom. So stop assuming what you don't know.
Shalom

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Waow,so because sex and relationship is relative then a girl must give sex if he demands for it especially when she is not a virgin. Now my questions
* A man that doesn't have self control,is that one a man
* A man that allows his dick control him,is he worthy being called a man
* will giving out the cookie guarantee that the man would never leave or cheat on his girl
* If she eventually gives him,does it guarantee that she did it because she truly love him or she did it out of coercion
* Does having sex in a relationship guarantee its would lead to marriage
I must say am not surprised with your opinion,especially now when a 16year old girl would have sex and flaunt it on Facebook. Everyone is all about sex now but please stop misleading people,sex/lovemaking should be mutual,it should be because u feel connected to your partner and not just because you want to ease your sex drive.