I strongly agree with xjovial,it all depends on wat ur intention with her is all about,even as a friend tell her hw u feel abt it,then its her choice,but if she is someone u intend/hope to marry,then its high time u put ur foot down with her,wateva u fail to streamline now,u wil never in near future,goodluck as u mk d wise decision

I DISGREE WIT SOME GUYS WHO SAID ITS WRONG TO WASH A WOMAN'S UNDIES,NOT SPKINg CUS AM ONE,BUT U C, I BLIV IF U LOVE UR WOMAN,THERE IS NO BIG DEAL,IF A WOMAN CAN DO IT FOR A MAN,Y CANT HE?WHEN THEY SAY LOVE IS SHARING AND GIVING,WAT ARE WE REALLY TALKING ABOUT.GUYS GET REAL WITH LIFE,biko noooooooooooo

Bolarge,yes u could be right to say my sense of relationship is grotesquely,smhw wil not dispute that but u are wrong to say i sound a bit desperate about finding a guy,if i am i wont be here asking for opinion,or propbably in d past would hv opted for just anytin,i have my head up and at same time,there are phases in a woman's life,get it rite and all d same tnks for ur opinon.

Two good heads are better than one they say,thats y am here seeking ur different candid opinion /advice.I kip loving the wrong people i have come to realised cus i always go for looks. Pity, but thats the way it works for me even when they are not up to standard financially.Dont ponder why i go for looks,am not wonderful so to say but i cant be ruled out also,and  funny enough at the end of d day it doesnt go far as wanted.

Problem no.1 is this,i have turned down many marriages offer down because they are not really what i want in terms of looks, i have always believed that i can always find happiness wakeing up every morning beside a man i like so much,whether food on d table or not as long as my guy is fine.

PROBLEM NO 2. I HAVE TWO MEN ABROAD willin to marry me,one cum in August and the other by year ending, one a naija man/ white american man,both single and in early 40's and am early 30's,but the american to me appears more serious, both good looking but not equally the standard i have set for my dream man (looks) will i eventually find d joy i so deisre in any one i choose to settle with despite , ? and d greatest fear since no opportunity of courtship as both far away even though i have seen them one/one and spk constantly with them via mails/calls. Please advice me on what its like marring  someone u never court,Can d marriage turn out more than i visualize.

Thirdly my fellow girls,can u marry a white man not just because he is white,but because he is so serious,committed/loving as d plan of walking to the aisle is knocking hard

Earthtone have a point,thumb up gal,men respect women who treats them like shit more than those who are more submissive,i have been a victim, i tried to be who i am,obviously u cant be another person,so even when you dnt work so hard for it,the one dat wants to love u wil definetly do,girls dnt work so hard for love,experience has tot me not to,kip ur head up, that one dat kwns wat he really want wil surely show up to you.anytins am left wondering if some guys really kwn wat they want

chioma chukwuka,is daa bomb for me,anytime,anyday,she is cool and damm to earth and potrays the xcter of a real african woman.