You did nothing wrong my dear. I believe in a healthy dialogue btw couples. Call your husband and talk to him. Don't see it as your right that he helps out in the kitchen.

I did sometime ago and lost my peace. Lolz! I think it's better to just let sleeping dogs lie, for what would be would surely be.

It all depends on the relationship between both parties. I for one never had a good relationship with my step mum. But for my stepdad it was quite the opposite. We had a good bonding. He never differentiated between his biological kids and us. Though he is late now, I still miss him.

Personally I think the whole idea about marriage has lost its taste. While we fight for gender equality and bla bla bla, we fail to realize that men and women are not the same. Forget the modern day manuals about submission and slaving your ass out. Marriage is supposed to be a bed of rose but within that bedroom is an enemy with thorns and thistle waiting to destroy you.

Mennnnnnnnn!!! Will they ever change?

I don't believe in this phrase "its in their blood" or d sentence "men r born polygamous" et al! I think it was adopted cos of their chronic infidelity not really cos they were really born dat way! I think they use those stupid phrases and sentences to justify their he-goatism =)) (if english will permit dat word)

A black pole.