Enugupikin:

That's not the message, you're setting different questions and answers entirely for yourself

An SE person travels to Delta doesn't mean he's from Delta. If this doesn't answer your question. I don't know what will

olril17:

O ri eee buruu nii?😎

get out of your skull. I don't understand nor speak Yoruba.

sleek214:
That's where he will concentrate on, the roads in the south will remain bad.
GEJ concentrated in the North and neglected the South. Dave will concentrate on the North and South West.

this particular construction has been on since Buhari took power. It's a major road linking the south and the north. It's cost hundreds of billions of naira and it is at the minimum over 60 percent complete.

olril17:

Na ronu people like you dey frustrated naa.
Like the one in the video prostrating for Bulanba

crying more than the bereaved. You're on nairaland 23 out of 24 hours a day shouting it will favor me and my family. Just dey nairaland dey shout ronu like a hungry anumpa...😄

It's very obvious the thing dey una most and the only way you can mask and hide the pain is by coming on nairaland to type it out will favor me and my family 😁

fuckJones:
someone who bear Igbo name and speak Igbo language is an Igbo man,

Beats me. Or is Chukwuemeka now a hausa man?

olril17:

Shut up 🤐

do you have a tumour in your brain. Carry your frustration and get the fvck outta here😁

Nonexisting1:

😄

1. He helped his family
2. My girl is my only and best friend.

EDOSBROWN:
Money, body count, past relationships

Your past relationships does matter to some people. Some people would feel you'd betrayed their trust by not being honest with them if they found out you'd lied about some things.

Racoon:
Extreme hunger don reset ronu disciple brain. The it will favour me crew.

You're always on nairaland crying more than the bereaved. You're always complaining how people are having it difficult. The way you carry the thing for head be like be like na you the thing affect most😁 I don't see anyone complaining. I only see you lamenting on behalf of everyone. Try dey rest😄

*Your family problems

*Disease 😁

Lifeomann:
I don't know🤔

*Income
*Number of people you've slept with
*Toothbrush

What are those things you must never share with your partner?

Dtruthspeaker:


Again you are wrong and my answer is that i wont tell you because, if they were indeed good people then they would have figured it out.



As i said life is in front of us all and the options are out there for us to choose. So you can choose to rob a bank or push drugs or pretend to play good person so that God would bless you or whatever strategy that you think will make your better. In the end, you are the one who eats what you cooked, whether the meal is sweet or horrible

There's no such thing as God blessing you for the things you do. We live in a world of cause and effect. Every single decision we make everyday affects us with positively or negatively. We live in a capitalist world where those at the top are always trampling on those at the bottom. There's no wrong or right. People just want result and will do anything to get it. It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong. They just want results.

Dtruthspeaker:


Bet you do not see that your thoughts are tangled and jumbled all caught up in your lack of knowledge and understanding of God.

1) I don't think you have read the bible else you would see that God is about right and wrong and that He always always supports the right and destroys the wrong.

2) And that you do not know how to judge justly else you would have seen that God is indeed always always Just.

3) And that you are letting the amazement of one of the judgments which God gives knock you out of order in your already lack of judgment and understanding and Law.

Which is why you do not see why sometimes, not all the time that some of the worst people live in what you call the best places and why one devil would wake up and blow himself up in a crowd.

God is interested in everything people and He has His own reply to them, which simple you say "life happened".

So, true, people are directly responsible for their acts but God did forewarn us "i lay before you, good and evil, blessings and curses, fortune and misfortune" choose ye which you want.

And people choose and have made their choices, so bye-bye is their name and now life replies

"Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans." — John Lennon

"Get busy living or get busy dying." — Stephen King

"Life is really simple, but men insist on making it complicated." — Confucius

I have a very simple question for you. Why do bad things happen to good people? I can tell your response without you even saying it. You're going to say how there's something they're not doing right. Or you'd bring up something about how they're not very righteous or morally upright. You cower and find a way to justify this because it's beyond your understanding. You have no answer to these big questions that need answering and because you have no answer to it, you resort to trying to make it seem as though the one in search of these answers is doing something wrong. Making it seem as though they're are ignorant or something. God if he exists gave us all a free mind and a free will. You can become anything you want to become today if you're willing to take the risk. You can decide to rob a bank and become extremely rich, you could be successful and you might die in the process. It's all your mind and your decision. the idea that some supernatural being up there's has anything to do with the things that occur in our everyday life strikes me as dumb. You can even die if you wanted to die today. It all depends on your approach. Your life and your decisions are in your hands.

Kobojunkie:
All this na gibberish naw.. what has morality and your private perceptions to do with this topic or God for that matter? If you want to spend time debating useless ideas that have no connection to OP'S question, please open another thread for that.

They're not just perceptions Kobo. It's just the way it is, and people like you are afraid to talk about it because you'd supposedly be questioning things that are beyond your understanding. People love to pretend to themselves and act like everything's okay when it's not. you're patient and resilient as it brings you closer to God. Or it makes you a righteous person; as you would say.

Dtruthspeaker:


Yep for people like you. And how well have you fared?

Anyway, it is not so for others for life is always good to them.

if we were being logical, I don't think there's anything right or wrong before the eyes of God. If God was a just God we wouldn't have the worst of people in the best of places. What im trying to say is there's nothing morally right or wrong in the eyes of God. That is why one person can wake up one morning, strap explosives to themselves and blow themselves up in a crowd full of people. People's actions and inactions have nothing to do with God or faith or how it was predestined to happen. So you might just spare s the morality lecture because being morally upright and good is not a guarantee life is going to treat you fair. I do believe there's some supernatural being up there watching over us. What I do not believe is him having anything to do with the things that goes on in our everyday lives. We are all directly or indirectly responsible for our actions.

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! The summary is God has never changed His position since the beginning regarding those whom He regards — the righteous— and those whom He never regarded from the beginning — the unrighteous. So, it is wrong to conclude that God refused to answer his prayers because God never ever promised to answer the prayers of the unrighteous.

2. I am not righteous yet! I am still in training to become such a person myself. That training requires that one accept God's every Truth— not just those that seem convenient or flavorful to one — whether one already benefits from it or not.

You're still implying he's unrighteous and I ask again. Who or what is righteous in the eyes of God? So many people slave, pray and work so hard yet they end up miserable. The worst of all people are call to rule and it you start to wonder if it's actually the opposite. You wonder if God rewards the unrighteous and let the righteous suffer in pain.

Kobojunkie:
None of what I posted has to do with your perception of life at all. It is rather what is written as relating to the God of Israel, and Jesus Christ who was sent only to the Lost sheep of Israel.

The summary of everything you wrote is Good has refused to answer his prayers because he's unrighteous. Do you pride yourself a righteous person Kobo?

Kobojunkie:
You see, Scripture states that God does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous; the pleas and requests and every petition, praise, offering, work, plea, sacrifice, etc., of the unrighteous are tainted by their sins(disobedience/unholiness) and are hence an abomination to God. So, what is definite is that even your many pleas for the forgiveness of sins are not answered by God given that God made no special exemptions for that kind of plea. No amount of praying can cause God to change His mind regarding that which concerns the unrighteous by the way. So if you are thinking of prescribing more prayers that only means you really don't understand or know God at all.

God, however, openly bragged about how He only answers the prayers of the righteous; He delights in granting them the desires of their heart meaning that they are those who he loves. For this very reason, Jesus Christ urged His followers to seek first the Kingdom of God and God's Righteousness in order that all things— the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God(holiness), answers to prayers included—shall be added on to them. And as Jesus Christ explained in His Gospel, the only way to become Holy, and then also Righteous, is by way of continuous submission and obedience to the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, god's Truth and Law in the Kingdom of god - John 8 vs 31 - 36 & John 14 vs 15 - 23. Jesus Christ is the only way. Obedience to the Truth of God is the one and only path to righteousness. No amount of praying and other religious rituals can accomplish that.

God deals indirectly with the unrighteous, the same way He deals with the unbelievers including the wicked and the ungrateful and that is by pouring out His mercy and kindness on them daily. So every time as an unrighteous you feel that God has answered your prayer know that at that same moment, or moments before that, God also provided the same mercy or similar to someone else across the world — or maybe just across from you— who does not even believe in God, nor asked God for anything. So, if answers from God are what you seek, then do what Jesus Christ said you should, which is to seek first the Kingdom of God(holiness), and then God's righteousness, in order that all these things —the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God(including answers to prayers) can be added to you.

2. Now, you asked for a solution. Well, the one and only solution is to attain God's Righteousness and that is a feat that takes at least 3+ years to accomplish considering one completely devotes oneself to the purpose. This is according to Jesus Christ in Luke 13:6-17 where fruits are expected to be produced from the fig tree by the fourth year.

nothing but theories out of thin air. Life's all luck and chance.

Samantha124:
Now you're just being dramatic..😂😂😂

If you was my spouse and you asked your friend to look after my kids. I'd ask your friend to move in with me.

Samantha124:
But I suggested that the wife should leave the children with a friend and he'll pick them up on his way home after work, you still didn't agree.

What do you want?🤦🤦🤦

I guess these friends don't have their own live? Their only purpose is to help babysit your kids when you want to go see your sick relatives. How do you know these FRIENDS aren't maltreating your kids while you're away?

AndrewTate:
no need to waste your time explaining...she can't understand you.
It's called "Hardwired way of thinking" that's a very typical woman

lol

Samantha124:
But he's not a doctor or a surgeon.

What is your point exactly?

I'm saying no one wants to employ a liability. If you have a business where all of your staff are asking for a time of because their spouses have family emergencies. It affects productivity. You won't be in business for long. If what the OP is saying is actually true and I was his employer. I'd have fired him a long time ago. He's dead weight

Bigseven:
Well you are a good husband not a sim. But someone is selling ideas to her head most likely cheating idea. You are too cool for her that’s why the audacity is high. If she wasn’t like this from the beginning then you need to dig deep and find the root cause even if takes you monitoring her line via her service provider. Most importantly make your marriage work because there’s none better out there every one is packaging ni especially you’ve three children. Raising a girl child in single parenting the result is not always nice. Ask God himself for guidance

I've seen single dad's who turned out to be better parents than single moms. This is a fact. Aman will always want to protect his daughter at all cost. Only down is he may not always be available to look after her because of work. But men do better at parenting than most women nowadays.

Samantha124:
I'm sure if the husband explains to his employers that there's a family emergency, they'll understand.

So you expect the woman to go and see a sick relative with the children?

No, she should throw the kids in the gutter on her way out😁 His employers would understand? What if the husband is a doctor? Or a surgeon? I know you're just trying to be petty😁

Samantha124:
So her asking for some time out means she's mistreating the children?

Do you expect her to stay indoors with the children until they're adults without taking a bit of a break from them?

Why is it so important she has to leave the kids behind? You have a family emergency that requires your attention. And the best thing you can think of is ask your husband to leave his work place and come home to stay with the kids. As you're the one that employed him eh? What would happen if he loses his job? The same woman would find a way to heap the blames on him.

Samantha124:
You would've long brought another woman to mistreat your children?

What makes you so sure the woman I'm bringing in is going to mistreat my child. Besides. My wife is already mistreating my kids by not being there for them. So yes. It's a risk I'm more than willing to take. Children are usually supposed to be closer to their mothers by default. There's no written rule to this but it's just the way it is.

oyewale0001:





Bros, I swear if it enter, I will share you the 7k

zoom na nonsense. no put ur mind😁