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Note 4 still needed. |
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Samsung galaxy s3 screen for sell Porthacourt only!!! |
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still needed. |
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i am still in need of it. |
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What would you like to do if Money were no Object? How would you enjoy spending your life? Your contributions should come from the heart and be sincere no matter how stupid it might sound? |
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emekhar:Tried to call you but no reply. |
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i need the international version not carriers. Only port Harcourt. I will inspect the phone before anything. |
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If you kindly have a clean samsung galaxy note 4 for sell in porthacourt, Kindly indicate. |
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Clean galaxy note 4 needed in Porthacourt. indicate if you have. |
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xplicite:sent you PM Kindly reply with your number. |
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i am looking to buy Samsung galaxy note 4 the Verizon version it has 4g,what do you guys tink? is it ok? |
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US Congressman Writes Kerry, Accuses Buhari of Autocratic Tendencies, Selective Anti-Graft War http://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2016/09/04/us-congressman-writes-kerry-accuses-buhari-of-autocratic-tendencies-selective-anti-graft-war/?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=facebook 187 Likes 21 Shares
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Introverts are often thought of as shy, aloof, disinterested and “stuck up” because they keep a low profile. But that assumption couldn’t be further from the truth. Think of James Bond for a moment. Bond doesn’t always wear his emotions on his sleeve — or on his face. He is quiet, pensive, confident and driven. Do you think his demeanor makes him more or less attractive? His style makes him more attractive. Similarly, introverts don’t center themselves as the life of the party, but they are among the most incredibly attractive and fascinating people you’ll ever meet. Here’s why: 1. They are mysterious. Introverts have an mysterious aura about them. People want to know what they are thinking, but will never know all of it. This makes introverts incredibly fascinating and intimidating at the same time. It is no wonder that they are so extremely misunderstood by the more outgoing and vocal people in our society. 2. They are easy to be around. It might surprise you, but introverts are some of the nicest and friendliest people you’ll ever meet. They are naturally chilled out, relaxed and loving. In a world that is always in a rush and that can’t stop talking and clamoring for the limelight, the introvert’s cool and laid-back nature is extremely appealing. It is true that introverts are drained by crowds, but they thrive in small groups and one-on-one interactions. 3. They are dreamers. Despite what you may have heard, dreaming is anything but a waste of time. Psychologist Scott Barry Kaufman and colleagues explain that a mind that wonders aids in the process of “creative incubation.” You may already know from experience that our best ideas come seemingly out of the blue when our minds are elsewhere. Introverted people get lost in their minds often and come out of them with refreshing and wonderful ideas. When you are with them you are fascinated and feel like a part of the magic because of the way they treat you and let you in on intriguing, new possibilities. 4. They are good listeners It seems everyone in our extroverted world today is preoccupied with themselves and what’s on their own mind. Every day is like a shouting contest where everyone wants to speak and no one wants to listen. So, when someone shows an interest in another and is willing to listen, it’s a huge attractor. Introverts listen more than they speak. They listen with the view to understand and not merely to reply. And that is incredibly rare and special. It boosts stronger connections and healthier relationships. 5. They are intrinsically motivated. As inwardly-oriented people, introverts tend to be intrinsically motivated. That means they are motivated to act by deeper, internal convictions rather than shallow, external motivations like reward and recognition. They know who they are, what they want and what matters in their life. And that is why they are the ones most likely to pursue their true passions despite the risks and inconveniences involved. Anyone who is self-driven, motivated by higher values and passionate is undeniably attractive and inspiring. 6. They are observant. Introverts see things others often miss or don’t see. The world is an introvert’s wonderland with possibilities everywhere. They are constantly taking in information in their quiet state and using it as fodder for creative expression. When you are with an introvert, nothing is lost. And it often seems like the introverted person always knows what you want even when you haven’t spelt it out, which is brilliant and endearing. 7. They are mindful of what they say. Nothing makes you look stupid and unattractive faster than saying inappropriate things because you rushed to speak and did not take time to consider your words. Introverts don’t speak out of turn. In fact, they won’t speak at all unless they have something important to say. And when they do speak, they say just enough to pique your interest and leave you wanting more. The more they speak the more fascinated you become and the more you want to hear them speak. 8. They are creative, out-of-the box thinkers. According to studies by the psychologists Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and Gregory Feist, the most spectacularly creative people in many fields are often introverted. That’s largely because solitude is a key ingredient for creative success. Introverts have no fear of being alone. They actually cherish privacy and freedom from interruption. In the state of solitude, introverts get in touch with their inner monologue, ask the right questions and flex their creative muscles. Author Susan Cain notes that, “Without introverts, the world would be devoid of: the theory of gravity; the theory of relativity; W. B. Yeats’s “The Second Coming”; Chopin’s nocturnes; Proust’s In Search of Lost Time; Peter Pan…” and so on. That natural tendency to embrace solitude, focus deeply on a subject, think and act creatively makes introverts, past and present, gloriously remarkable and attractive people. 9. They are studious and smart. Introverts are naturally drawn to reading and study. They enjoy learning and figuring out new things for themselves. And while they might be dubbed book worms, they are smart. And a smart person is sexy and attractive. You are better off spending time with someone who’s knowledgeable and eagerly interested in learning more, than someone who is ignorant and disinterested. 10. They are intellectually stimulating. Because introverts are studious and self-reflective, their conversations are intellectually stimulating. They know all kinds of things to share with others. And there is something magical and beautiful about someone who lights up and is energized by meaningful, intelligent conversations. #Credit Lifehack.org #ProudIntrovert 1 Like |
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I honestly can’t shake the pity off my mind anytime I see how many ladies wallow in frustration simply because they are still single at very marriageable ages and this is why I decide to drop this thought provoking piece. The major reason many ladies are still single at very ripe age is HIGH EXPECTATION and below is a simple illustration to explain my point. As a lady please get this straight; Good potential husbands are everywhere but your spec may not be readily available. An average Nigerian lady wants a cute, rich, caring guy and no matter how hard they try to shrug this off, they keep using this as a yardstick to be with a man but unfortunately 2 out of 10 guys are the specs of 8 out of every 10 ladies so these 8 ladies clamor to be with these 2 men but unfortunately these 2 guys can’t marry more than a wife each. My advice to many ladies is to understand that it is perfectly normal to seek for a “financially ok” guy to marry but no matter how hot you may be, it is easier to get a man to marry you when he is struggling than when he is made. Comfort,wealth and good life is not usually instantaneous but progressive. Don’t be fooled, many expensive wedding ceremony you see are sponsored by the bride or groom’s family. As a lady, try your best to get something doing and lets just assume you meet a guy that makes as little as 40k a month and you also make like 40k a month, please start a life together and continue to build your lives together. You can always do an elaborate intro and engagement party and proceed to the registry and when you have money you can do a very big wedding ceremony. This thread is not for the few ladies who are fortunate to find a rich dude but for countless number of Nigerian ladies who are on the other side of the divide. Our ladies should Stop indulging in ultimate search contest with many other ladies for a rich guy and Until our ladies learn to look in the right direction, be financially independent, lower their expectation and be ready to build a life with a man without the negative preemptive mindset of what will happen after he becomes rich,i guess there will forever be an increase in over-aged unmarried ladies. Just trying to make sense. *Ladies let leave good behind and let be better.* #COPIED# 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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Greetings everyone i am newbie in this thread i am looking to apply for Nursing looking to do a topup course i am already a registered nurse here in Nigeria. Can someone advise me on the school. Your suggestion is welcome. Thanks |
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