Iyaebe:
nobody,you are on your own.Sex starved op.

You too worry

Odetokun3:


It's been used by suicide bombers in time past

Hijab is different from burqa and niqab

Magnoliaa:
This is purely a traditional discussion and it is for you people to discuss. Those of you that subscribe (fully) to the ideals. I don't have a problem with it 'long as you're not trying to set is as a standard for every woman/man.

Actually, feminists believe in sharing (that is not along gender lines).
'Masculinists' believe in being the heads and providers.

So, it is not feminist to say a man is the provider and it is not 'masculinist' to say a woman must co-provide/'bring something to the table'.

Masculinists are your allies- or they are supposed to be. Y'all believe the same thing. So why are you attacking masculinists in your main OP; why are you attacking men who wants to provide??

You people should be getting your terms and conditions clear o. I don't know what feminism has to do with this.

You people are sha confusing everything and want to straddle all sides.

Sometimes I really feel some so-called "feminists" lack proper education talkless of know what feminism actually entail. Just imagine this one going round around feminism and masculinism and entangling them without arriving at a point

Racoon:
Hehehe! Same governor that boldly said he paid killers herdsmen to stop killing people instead of routing them? This midget is a bloody hypocritical terrorist that is masquerading as a Saint. Never you believe him. Ask the beleaguered Southern Kaduna people about their unfortunate plight to clear your doubt.

DoEs he have the power/command to rout bandits? He chose the means which he was easily able to do. All the military formations are under the FG

angelfallz:
I hope you aren't including foods like swallow?

No na

LesbianBoy:
Btw, when we talk now, SIMPS will think we no like women. But the BITTER TRUTH is that, as a man (especially when you are rich) you have to be careful with that gender if not THEY WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE.

Forget all that blackmail....."respect women don't you have a mother, do what women want, listen to women bla bla bla...."

Omo, if dem show you pepper eh, your eyes go clear

This guy life and career has been ruined before it even started.

From his tone, it's like he has spent so much money on her and now it was time to have sex she is refusing him.

This is what happens when you want to personalize a HOE. He is a rich footballer. He should have just left her alone and go and meet other girls.

Now see what he has done to himself

Spending money on a lady doesn't entitle you to physically assault her, not even dowry. Just as she didn't force you to spend on her, don't force rape her

vanida6:
Don't forget she's he's ex'' am not surprised about this, some ladies can go extra mind when they re heartbroken. she probably went him back nd he does not, so she has to do something that will tarnish his career

That's more reason you should treat people with respect so that when the tide isn't friendly anymore, they don't have reasons/loopholes to victimise you

zumarock9:

Ejide

Ikeme

MufasaLion:


I can't imagine a lady doing that in my presence. It's not feminine to me. Weird, I must say.

Even me as a guy, I don't do it.

Me too. I go just use the plate slam her face. Disgusting habit synonymous with individuals who use hands to eat almost all foods

presidency:
Soccer-loving Nigerians were heartbroken last Sunday when the Super Eagles of Nigeria could not fly higher than the Carthage Eagles of Tunisia in the second round match of the ongoing Africa Cup of Nations (AFCON) tournament holding in Cameroon.

Nigerians were full of expectations. The Super Eagles players were confident. President Muhammadu Buhari had done what the father of the nation should do, engaging in a video conference earlier in the day to ginger the players. Alas, Nigeria lost the game by a lone goal, and exited the tournament.

Nobody likes to lose in a keen contest, whether political, economic, domestic, professional, or in sports. Winning is exhilarating, gives a feel-good sensation, and generally sends the adrenaline pumping. But you know what? Losing is part of the game. Any game, all games. We may comfort ourselves by saying no victor, no vanquished, but the real truth is that somebody loses. A team loses. It is ineluctable.

I follow football a lot, and apart from our local and national teams, I also pay attention to the English Premiership League (EPL), where Manchester City currently leads its closest rival, Liverpool FC by nine points.

In October, Man City had been beaten 2-0 by less fancied Crystal Palace, and right at Etihad Stadium, home base of the league leaders. It was something akin to sacrilege.

Pep Guardiola is possibly the best coach in the world today, and handles Manchester City. When he was interviewed after the Crystal Palace debacle, he just shrugged, and said; “Losing is part of the game.” True.

We want to win at all times. We don’t want to be worsted, or have our nose bloodied at all. But life is not so. You win some, and you lose some. That was what happened to Nigeria last Sunday, though rather painfully.

I have read many silly, idiotic and imbecilic comments, trying to link the loss to the video conference the President had with the players on Sunday morning. Witless. Thoughtless. And incidentally, if the Super Eagles had gone into the match without encouragement from their President, the same people would have come out to condemn the leader of the country for being taciturn and insensitive. Head or tail, you never win with some Nigerians.

There are countries, and football teams, who have established a tradition for being outstanding in soccer. But such teams and countries have lost scandalously before, underscoring the truth that losing is part of the game.

We have talked about Man City and the loss to Crystal Palace. After that week, they went ahead to win the next 12 EPL games, and the fairy tale run did not end till last Saturday, when they played 1-1 away to Southampton FC. You win some, you lose some.

Football can be cruel at times. There can be a humiliation of the brightest and best, but it does not mean the end of the beautiful game. After falling, you get up, dust your pants, and move on, waiting for another day. “It’s not whether you get knocked down, it’s whether you get up,” says renowned American football coach, Vince Lombardi.

Now, see a few checklist of humiliations of great soccer playing teams and nations, and see whether it calls for the otiose politicking, as we saw with some Nigerians earlier this week.

AC Milan and Real Madrid are super powers in football. But at the semi final of the European Cup in 1989, Milan handed a 5-0 trouncing to Madrid.

In the run up to winning the European Champions League last year, Bayern Munich crushed the great Barcelona FC 8-2. The defeated team included world’s best, Lionel Messi.

Argentina is a super power in soccer. But in a 2009 World Cup qualifier, it lost 1-6 to Bolivia. Scandalous!

Brazil, possibly the best soccer playing country in the world, hosted the World Cup in 2014. They had reached the semi final, and were clear favorites to lift the trophy. They met Germany, and got thumped 7-1. Outrageous! Well, losing is part of the game.

Argentina, under the legendary Diego Maradona lost a World Cup game to Germany 4-0. France beat Brazil 3-0 at France ‘98. The old Czechoslovakia trounced Argentina 6-1 before, England slumped to Hungary 3-6 at Wembley Stadium, their home base, while Portugal fell 0-10 to England at Lisbon in 1953. Spain beat Germany 6-0 in 2020. I say it again: losing is part of the game.

One thing was clear from the way the Super Eagles played their firs three matches at AFCON. The German Technical Adviser, Gernot Rohr, should have been fired long ago. He contributed nothing to Nigerian soccer. The team played better under the tutelage of home based Augustine Eguavoen. As the Sports and Youth Development Minister, Sunday Dare, has said, the team “faced the challenge bravely and gave a good account of themselves.”

On those making mischievous political capital out of the loss, the Minister rightly said: “We, as a nation win together, and we lose together. Sports is a unifying factor and those that seek to use it as vectors of division, targeting players with hate speech and making irresponsible statements should rise above such behavior. We are much better than that as a people.”

The best players in the world-Pele, Maradona, Johan Cruyff, Messi, Ronaldo, etc have lost, and still lose matches. Under Muhammadu Buhari as military head of state, we won our first Under 17 global trophy in 1985. In this dispensation, we have won the same trophy twice. So, why do the heathens rage, and the people imagine vain things?

“Winning is not everything-but making the EFFORT to win is,” says Lombardi. Super Eagles made the effort to win, encouraged by their President, but they lost. Sad. But that is how it is, till another day. Losing is an inevitable part of the game.

*Adesina is Special Adviser to President Buhari on Media and Publicity

DId we really played better under eguaveon than rohr because the match against Tunisia made eguaveon bare naked. Our tactics before the red card was simply to pass to Simon Moses and that mumu will start dribbling like who nor get sense.

maxwelltony:
Good morning Nairalanders

There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..

We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..

I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.

During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..

Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..

I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand.
I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing..
It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out
with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.

I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?

Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..

I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .

Same stories over and over again, different victims. Is to that people don't learn or these guys actually use jazz

SIRTee15:


Pls don't twist the scriptures. People perish for lack of knowledge. Church doctrines are purely based on societal practice and denominational culture. Nothing like holy spirit inspired.
God is the same yesterday today and forever. His rules and ordinance are forever. They never change.
There was a time deeper life banned television, now there's no deeper life home without TV.
One will think their women will never wear trouser. Yet their women in western countries wear trousers to church.
Any rule that adjust to modern times or reality is not GOD's law but man made.

But you Christians claim it's the Bible and holy spirit that direct your lives, so how are doctrines manmade? The church led by Jesus has manmade doctrines to guide it? Do yo know what you're typing about sef?

headSmasher:
Good to serve as deterrent to others.

He is not even suppose to be taken to court at all

He shouldn't be taken to court? So how will they convict him legally to bring about the execution?

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

It's either you know her bads but you're not telling us or you "love" your cousin too because I don't see anything here. because if she's truly your friend then you should want her in your family too.

Ademola47:


The Punch

He didn't do it to you intentionally, these are some of the victims that frustrate justice. Maybe the bullet should have gone to an organ more vital or your story his a lie. People don't know that when you bring evil people to book, you're saving another human

SIRTee15:
Well I don't know of nails but deeper life churches in western countries really need to modernise or else their youths will leave finish.
Focus should be on discipline and spiritual development. Not all these inconsequential church doctrines.

Inconsequential church doctrines inspired by the holy spirit? Some of una Christians dey always make me dey question the genuineness of Jesus, holy spirit & Christianity

WoundedLamb:
Ukraine is the target. I see people above praising Putin and his allies like this is some video game or HBO series we're talking about. The Soviet Union is long gone, what would be the justification for invading Ukraine at this time? It's even funny cause those claiming to be anti-democracy on NL ride on the back of democracy to share their opinions. It's always as if the grass is greener on the other side, but we all know Nigerians won't sit well with authoritarian leadership. We've been there, done that.

Just only buhari, they're shouting. Democracy still remains the best govt

Shetemi12:
No news without Tinubu nowadays

Na tinubu childhood picture be ds abi

nwekeugochukwu:
Comedian, Basketmouth's wife, Elsie Okpocha has expressed her concerns over the alarming increase in the prices of food Items In Nigeria, IGBERETV reports.

Taking to her Instagram story, she wrote;



https://igberetvnews.com/1412454/comedian-basketmouths-wife-laments-rising-cost-food-items-nigeria/

Thought it was your husband haircut in US and that of Nigeria. Goan buy foodstuffs in US

chiagozien:
Sex na cheap commodity now which this school girls are willing to give just for 10marks.





The lecture have been having sex with you people,not that he having be raping you.

Na una dey enjoy sex pass,na una dey come form victim.





Useless girls everywhere.

Having sex with hIs students sound pleasant to you abi?

blinking001:
My incoming president come 2023, the Jagaban, i know he can give us the Nigeria of our dreams afterall he has been tested and proven to be a man of integrity and goodwill.
Tinubu FC
Aso Rock is his to claim come 2023

The way some of una dey talk dey border on mental disabilities rather than poverty

Hanibbal:
U.S is jealous because the hypersonic missile it is finding hard to launch and deploy North Korea is already mastering it

By now one would think they should be tired of these sanctions that don't produce results other than suffering for the innocent civilians but as usual...Carry on Kim, continue to pepper them.

You're a baby when it comes to world issues. Go read the history of the Korean war and you'll understand why it's necessary to stop some countries from acquiring nuclear weapons

AnonPoet:

https://twitter.com/DefenseNigeria/status/1481672089119739907?t=e8qul-L0VeLAdcDyJS8Lmg&s=19

Effective only against protesters

Aidejay:

The only thing worse than a liar is a liar that's also a hypocrite! ...

so the homosexuality thing that Nigerians are so disgusted about is what some are using as scope to seek asylum to enter canada.

LOL!
advise for people wey never marry
https://www.nairaland.com/6923477/dont-marry-pastor-advise-women#109074074

Exactly my thoughts. We're very wicked people sha. They are depriving homosexuals the right to stay legally in Nigeria but want to enter other countries as homosexuals. Thunder fire their blokos

Raphaelda1st:
Not a man united or Ronaldo fan but sometimes we shouldn't just say things because of the hate for somebody.
How can you say Ronaldo is part of that team's problem that can't make simple pass?
How many times did ball flow from midfielders to strikers upfront?
Very disgusting display from the team abeg, if you say generally the team (Ronaldo included) played woefully, then it's fine. But saying Ronaldo is the problem is what I don't understand....
Even Norwich , Newcastle and Watford can hold and make accurate passes than man united...
They have to solve the basics first

Did I say "Ronaldo is the problem" or "Ronaldo is part of the problem"? You already agreed in your post the team is woeful but you want to single Ronaldo out, is Ronaldo not part of the team? You're turning around bush just to find way to single Ronaldo out. Plus how many midfielders can continue to pass to a striker just to tap into the net week in week out? Man utd played beta before Ronaldo arrived, maybe it's a loss of form or the team getting used to Ronaldo or the manager's, we'll never know. But looking also at juventus performance before and with Ronaldo present, shows some teams don't work with certain kind of players. No Mata how good Ronaldo, his style of play might be a curse to most teams (just like what Portugal are experiencing now) and a blessing to others with a balanced midfield, solid defence esp with Ramos at his prime and creative wingbacks/wingers(as when he was in Madrid).

Jokerman:
Could have stuck with Mourinho and forget about all his shenanigans in the media.... he would have blended all these lazy clowns.... even martial and Shaw improved their games....

Mourinho dat almost gave Shaw mental problem

LesbianBoy:
Man United has a huge problem that even Ronaldo can't fix

Its like he made a mistake coming back o

Ronaldo is part of the problem

AsabaPropertyAg:
After watching this video, I remembered One Hon. Emeka Martins Chinedu PDP, Federal House of Representative, for a Bill or Motion sponsored by this Honourable to equip clinics/ Emergency units in all Nigerian Airports. An international Airport like Abuja there is no clinic / emergency unit.

Is there a clinic in aso rock sef

Opeyemiextra:


You do have a point. We do most of these things because of love but you should also note that not everyone is capable of these things mentioned.

For me, love is a decision. Now, what that decision is for everyone would be different.

Yea, it could seen as a decision. Decision to be kind, merciful, compromise, be slow to anger, forgive, etc. Not everyone is capable of these characters because love is hard, hence they say perfect love doesn't exist either in heaven or hell or earth

Opeyemiextra:

I want to believe that but I have seen that love is a different thing on its own and you can do all these things because of love but not everyone has the capacity to.

Love isn't actually a thing on its own, it's the the compilation of good characters shown toward others

Opeyemiextra:
These are very valid points because we have come to understand that love is not just enough to sustain a relationship. Communication, understanding and a little compromise here and there are important for the success of marriage or any relationship at all.

The communication, understanding n compromise all dey enveloped in love.

tamdun:

What is the diff? They kept quiet and now...

There's a difference between cheering on and indifference