XavierBlue:
Back in the early 1990's when Christianity was dominating others forms of religion, a lot of people flock to church. But those numbers seems to reduce over the years. The reasons are put below, though some are assertions.

1. CHURCH ARE FULL OF HYPOCRITE.

No need to debate on this fact as its all clear and decipherable. Perhaps, even in-eradicable. We all say one thing and do the other, we all criticize people and still turn around to indulge in the same acts we were vehemently against. The church is full of this set of people, thus making people lack the desire to go to church. Yes.. I am an hypocrite, but with all due respect, you are also an hypocrite.

2. THE CHURCH IS BORING.

You could chose to debate on this. Since when was the church meant to be entertaining?. Well! The church has witness a dramaticall change over the years, and to some people, this assertion is true.

3. THE CHURCH IS EXCLUSIVE.

The church has an exclusive message, which is for everyone. The thing is, every one knows the message, "jesus brings salvation" etc. So why bothering going to church to hear a repetition of it?. This is also one of the reason why people stay back from church, to them, they know the message the bible and church is relaying.

4. THERE DON'T HAVE TIME.

This is undoubtedly any major point. Simple, they don't have the time or are two busy. People who are on work shift during the weekend also fall into this category. This is priority issue, but a valid reason nonetheless.

5. THEY DON'T HAVE CLOTHES.

Though this shouldn't be an excuse for Christians to stay back from church as they worship the Lord and not men, it is a reason why some people stay back from church.
I know of a church that laughs sadornically at members that repeat clothes and attire. The act alone is appaling. Instead of being laughed at, some people choose to stay at home and avert such mortification.

6. LIFE IS BETTER WITHOUT RELIGION.

This is an assertion but With that perspective, people tend to neglect church since its the "pillar" of religion. Going by the norms and commandments of the church by being a Christian are hectic for others. For me, i don't care much about religion but a better relationship with God. Some people that neglect church also hold to this assertion.

7.THE CHURCH WANT YOUR MONEY.

This is undoubtedly another congent reason. If you go to a church that talks more about offering and ransom than sermon, you'd found this a valid point. Maybe the church is faced with financial difficulties.
I think The Leaders should do more about praying and trusting, for God will provide.
However, am ain't advocating that members shouldnt give to the church but It appalling for leaders to "CHALLENGE" members into giving, it should be a thing of the mind.

If you have a different perception of the amazing nature of the God who created you, you should find ways to reorganize your priorities around such a wonderful God.

Written by moi.
Lalasticlala.


Xavierblue

good point.

XavierBlue:

Written by moi.

Add yours, ladies which are you guilty off?

Lalasticlala.


Xavierblue.

very true.. , lalasticlala the lala attention, i fp endorse this

XavierBlue:
1. SPEND YOUR LAST DIME

Most of us went through this.
Sometimes, guys spend their last kobo just to make the girl they like happy. Maybe to buy a gift or a date. They girl might not even be aware. The funny thing is, he'll keep a happy demeanour all through but deep inside his heart, he's in grave thought.

2. BORROW

Some guys borrow from pals, money to please the girl they like. Most of us still do this. taking loans to go on date or get a gift or send airtime. Some guys can borrow for a living.

3. ENGAGE IN FIGHTS

Na this one dey vex me pass. Just as women fight each other because of men, guys also indulge in this. This is something we know happens almost regularly. Just like last week, in my neighbourhood, two guys engaged in a duel because the other tried to woo his girl, they fought with bottles, correct ones. The girl stood afar watching, i can swear i saw her stifling her mouth, she was giggling.

4. CLEAN UP A ROOM WITHIN MINUTES

Virtually all of us are guilty of this one. No one can clean a dirty room faster than a guy expecting a lady, especially when it her first visit. If you think usain built is fast, then you haven't seen a guy cleaning a room, expecting a girl in 60secs.


Add your own.
Written by moi.
Cc, Lalasticlala, ishilove.


Xavierblue

nice one. Fp endorsed.

XavierBlue:
As humans, we are all addicted to one thing or the other, mainly based on what we are obsessed with. Sex addiction is one of such things, with it disadvantages trailing beside it.
However being addicted to sex is like being a slave to your pleasure and desires, as it control you.
Below are points i compiled to suit the article.


1. CAN’T STOP THINKING OF IT

If you're the type that have the thought of sex constantly revolving round your mind and you can't help it, my dear you need God. This act only signifies your addiction to sex as what you think is what you indulge in.

2. MAKING SEX A PRIORITY AND NEGLECTING ALL IMPORTANT THINGS

If you're the type that neglects important things like family, work and church for sex, this portrays your level of addictiveness to sex and it a point of concern.

3. INDULGEMENT IN CRIMINAL ACTIVITIES BECAUSE OF SEX.

my dear if it reach the level where you can't help, but indulge in criminal act like raping, just to satisfy yourself, then water don pass garri.
This act alone does not only relay how addicted you're but how you lack self control and can go to such extreme extent of commiting a crime for sexual gratification, kirikiri is waiting for you


4. POSSESSION OF MULTIPLE PARTNERS

Though not all people in this pitiable category are addicted to sex, 80% of them fall into this species.
This portrays how unsatisfactory you're and sill goes to the extend of possessing multiple partners and still cheating on all of them, just for sexual pleasure.

5. CONTINUAL INDULGENCE DESPITE THE RISK

In this era where HIV and other STI's victims are very common, and you're the type that don't give a hoot and still goes about jumping from every d1ck to d1ck and vice versa Sisters and brother it means you're addicted and i advice you seek God before it too late, if it not late.

Sexual Addiction will make you cheat on your partner despite being caught, warned and maybe threatened withal breakup.

6. ADDICTION TO PORN


We all know that porn addiction and sex addiction is like 5 and 6. Though it dosent implies that all the porn addict are all sex addict. But when you constantly feed your mind with those arousing nude images and videos will make you an addict .

7. WHEN IT’S BECOMES JUST TOO REGULAR

I no talk say e bad to get high sex drive o, infact na for your own good but when it becomes too regular for a day, it becomes a point of concern. After round five and you're not yet tired or done for the day, my dear i pity your future spouse, i pray you guys should be compatible.


8. EXCESSIVE MASTURBATION.

pls don't misquote this point, masturbating is also done by the naive and introverted people but the sex addict, rather sadly also falls into this section. Excessive masturbation, -- maybe due to lack of what to unleash your urge on , is also a sign of sex addiction.

9. EXCESSIVE USE OF PROSTITUTES

If you constantly hire lovepeddler and you can't do without them, it signifies how addicted you're and how you lack self control.

10. TURNING TO PROSTITUTION FOR SEX

It is in my knowledge that girls go into prostitution because of money, but some go for the fun of it, and that the sex. Going into lovepeddling because of a need to satisfy your self, maybe you haven't a man to give you the way you want, is a huge sign of sex addiction.


Na me write am,



Xavierblue

nice point.

XavierBlue:
A woman in desperation might go a long way to get anything she desire, here are the 8 signs to prove she's desperate.



1. HAVING PROFILE ON ALL DATING SITE:

All though this point isn't applicable to all, A desperate woman will have a profile on almost or all dating site, because she desperately needs a man, and she believes she might get a hook up on those platforms. Eg. Nairaland

2. HAVING NO CHOICE WHEN IT COMES TO MEN:

In desperation, she has no particular types of guys she flocks together, she's for all and mingle with all different species of men. Na dis types ma pallis dey call all weather

3. RESCHEDULING.

She'll willing reschedule her priorities for an impromptu date
and does it regularly.

4. POSSESSING A SELF IMPOSED TIMELINE.
When a lady is desperate, she'll want the guy to take her to his parent or would take the guy to meet her parent after a few weeks of dating so as to get married. There are mostly the women within 30 and 35 age range guys watch out for this types, they're every where.

5. SHE WANTS EVERYTHING THE MAN WANTS:

when a woman is desperate, she'll demand to have everything the man wants without having her own suggestions or opinion.

6. SHE WANTS ENDLESS COMPLIMENT:

This calibres needs to really work on their self esteem because they slack in that aspect. They'll need to be constantly reminded that they look good.


7. CALLING CONSTANTLY WITHOUT ANY CONGENT REASON.

A desperate woman would call frequently without content reason, and the calls can be disturbing.

8: DEMAND FOR SEX WITHOUT CONTRACEPTIVES.

Though this is not applicable to all, but some girl in desperation will demand for sex without condoms so as to get pregnant and may decide to tie you down with it through marriage.

By XavierBlue


abeg add yours.

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XavierBlue

i agree with the mentioned point. Fp things.

Funny post though. But i think this should be in the literature or jokes section. Ishilove or farano pls do the needful. Move the thread.

Nice point here. This deserve fp. Ishilove and lalasticlala.

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