PAPA AFRICA: [size=35pt]you're gonna die, get out the house, NOW.[/size]

I reject it in jesus name and I say back to the sender. I will not die but live.

Hello nairalanders, I think someone is trying to attack me because they know I am the one that throws the garbage out. I was going to throw the garbage out today but my mind just skipped it. But tonight my grandmother saw a boiled egg on top of the closed garbage can in the backyard. When she came back inside, she called me upstairs and told me the story. Then I knew that someone was trying to target me. Please what is the meaning of a boiled egg by someone's house. Please explain thanks.

Thanks for the reply. I'm a nigerian that lives in the states so the laws are really strict about rape. He will loose a lot if he even tried to rape me so that's why i'm not worried. If we were living in Nigeria, i won't even go to his place.

Hello nairalanders,

I've known this guy for quite a while now. he's 27 and i'm 22. We've been romantic friends for like 2.5 yrs now. We don't get to see each other quite as often but we do talk on the phone regularly like once a week. When we do see each other we kiss and cuddle but that's about it. I don't UnCloth and i've never had sex with him.I went to visit him last week and he told me that he wants to move the relationship to the next level. Now we've had this talk before and i told him that i don't believe in having sex before marriage. Now he brought it up again saying that we should try it and that i'll get used to it. I told him no and he said that he can't force me or change my views. Then he told me to show him some kind of commitment like removing my bra and showing him my boobs. i refused and he tried to unbotton my shirt. I had to keep pulling his di**k to get him off me. I'm just tired of him. I feel like he's just trying to sleep with me and dump me later on. What really annoyed me was the fact that he was dating another girl during those 2.5 years that we knew each other and that one moved so they had to discontinue the relationship. He told me he really liked me which even got me more upset because i'm thinking that after 2.5 years you can't even say you love me. I didn't want to go over his place before but he begged me to come and see him because that he had something to tell me. What can i do about this matter because I'm about stop being friends with him. I don't see where this is going at all. I'm a christian and he's a muslim. I don't even think my parents will allow me to be settle down with someone of a different faith. I've advised him to start going to church but he refused. He's mom is a christian and his dad is a Muslim. My plan is to stop calling him and picking his calls because i don't want to hurt anyone emotionally. Maybe if i do that he'll get the gist. What can i do about this matter. Please i need mature advice. thanks guys.

I don't blame most of these naija girls in the states. Even if you say that you don't mind his present status right now, when he makes it, he will still be using his money to chase small girls and might even say that the wife is no longer his taste anymore. So ladies please don't settle for less. Weigh your options and pick the best. Don't ever think that because you agreed to date a guy when he is broke that when he makes it he won't dump you and look for another young lady. My two cents.

He probably thought that the grass will be greener on the other side but it wasn't. Now he wants to come back. But it's your decision to make whether you want him back or not or whether you're willing to start all over again. Good luck on your decision and I wish you all the best.

Let us all be aware that HIV and STD'S are still around. If you want to live a long life you need to be careful.

This post is really nice. we were talking about the book of solomon during sunday school not too long ago. The book of solomon is like a love poem; it's so beautiful. I promised myself to read some of the verses to my husband during my marriage ceremony.

@ ogidi olu whats olobe?

that's true but not in all cases.

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