Otilo

In her head, she has already left the marriage.

Na only body remain.

Pls, if that happens next time pls, kindly help her with moving her luggage outside for Uber or taxi and never look back.

That's because she's the one feeding you or perhaps she's shouldering 80% of home responsibilities

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Correct brother! I decided to read a couple of comments before typing my comment amd I just saw my mind in comment. You said it well!

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

She will go last last, focus on your future without her...you need money more than her.

I will be glad any day my wife pack her things and said she is leaving.

I'm choking already

It's childishness. She'll outgrow it with time. Just laugh it off.

U be simp. Leave her. Ashawo dey her eyes

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

I had the same issue sometimes ago. The union was not even up to a year when my wife started the the threat at any slightest arguments. Eventually, I served her right when she was not expecting it.

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Simple!
Call her bluff!
It'd juggle her back to reality

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

I wonder why someone would wait to be told this your precious counsel, I thought it flows naturally from common sense. It’s why she’s taking him for granted!

If is actually as you stated, then please don't beg her to stay, tell her whenever she leaves she shouldn't ever think of coming back ! I hate nonsense!

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue. I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Start with marriage counseling to be certain it ain't something from her past that is hunting her and hence your marriage. Unless of course, you have made up your mind to abandon the relationship entirely.

ejieddy:
It's childishness. She'll outgrow it with time. Just laugh it off.

Don't laugh it off abeg.
Call her bluff!
It would help her outgrow it faster.

Get a second wife or a serious side chick,it will balance things

Like others have said, don't beg her anymore.
Next time she wants to leave, stay calm or even assist her but don't initiate the move.

Don't pack her loads, let her do it cos she might later said you did the packing.

Pls in igbo customs and traditions please don't pack her bags by yourself tell her to pack it by herself it get why

She will eventually leave one day, Don't let a woman threaten u with that kind of thing,tell her to leave if she want to...just make sure u never accept such a woman back .

Maybe because you've been showing her too much love, softness, so she believes you need her morethan she needs you.
It's not wrong showing love to your wife, but some women are daft and foolish, taken our compassion for granted

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Op, take this advice.
Women would always take advantage of weak men. Trust me, when you man up and let her leave, she will come begging.
Why do you think women are attrcated to bad boiz and treat simps like d££ks?

Man tf up and stop acting like a weakling.

For your mental health........Let her go even if she wants to go with the child after all the child is still both yours.

She will surely beg to come back when her brain cools then you give her conditions.

She will continue with this threat until you take a decisive action.

Women sef.....When they never marry every time in the church, fasting and praying but when they enter marriage boom 💥 they claim they own the house.

But put in prayer and check for the root cause.

Just remember She is human and not perfect including you

Na mumu dey spend too much for marriage ceremony these days

Because paraventure your wife goes nothing will be returned to you

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Let's be honest, this marriage is already over, so long she has this mindset, they are both living on borrowed times...

Let her go make she see the other side of the world na.... before 90 days she will regret

adecz:


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Call off her bluff💔💔💔 except na her
dey feed you...😡😡😡



This type of behavior comes from
a woman with poor family background..


I can bet that she may even be a
product of an unmarried or widowed
mother, because a normal woman
with a regular upbringing, under a
father can't behave like this❗️❗️❗️😐😐😐


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You are absolutely right!

She settled for you, not love

lolz , she will still leave you sooner or later . it is better you know it now that you do not have a wife yet, most likely she never loved you and only married you due to one reason or the other , as far as she is concerned she is better off without you and you are not her type or same class

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Op,those pple telling you to allow her leave r not married o. If u like goan take yeye advice. Sit her down and let her know there r better ways to handle your conflicts. If she insists on leaving,follow her go. Dnt mind all these kids yarning dust

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

You are an OG bro! you need some redpill to know how to treat women, but don't consume too much of it.

Okay....Sorry dear.

Please check for the root cause.

I guess she married at her a very tender age, she has no clues and orientation what marriage is all abt...when next she say that to you in this present Nigeria situation open the door freely and let her go...there is a cane out there that will flog her sense back...