Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Olosho blood still dey here body

Both of you need to be tutored on core values of marriage

Tell her to leave anytime she makes that threat again, let her know you will be helping in packing her luggages

Oh boy....Na scam.

My Wife did this for a long time and one day I just got some courage and told her to leave.......oh boy since that day, the meat and fish she cooks for me got bigger and tastier. Peace dey my house now.


No let woman scam you.

NeoWanZaeed:
That's because she's the one feeding you or perhaps she's shouldering 80% of home responsibilities

That's exactly what I want think.

But God when are you sending my own woman helper naaaa 😞

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

She knows you love n cherish her and you dont want to loose her, pls next time dont stop her.. Abi you no wan get rest of mind ni, this gender you see, they are crazy o

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

right there, u have it.

This is normal, atimes help her pack the bags. Naija girls can get very emotional, sometimes over nothing. It's not easy to maintain a very emotional woman.

Hotzone:
Both of you need to be tutored on core values of marriage

If you like call baba God to come and give the training, Woman will still find problem somewhere with you. Na their nature.

This is what happens when u are the one as a man who pushed for the marriage.. if u are a well to do guy and the lady u are dating is not pestering u for marriage oga run o . Don't ever as a man be the one pushing for marriage and the lady is indifferent. Know this and save urself issues like this.

Best option

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

It simply explained you are a weak man.

And I know you will always beg her

When a woman is surrounded by weak men, she will start acting tough, And when she is surrounded by tough men, she will act soft and very feminine.

what kind of couples issues if I may ask?

Threatening ur partner is wrong unless where issues are out of hand.

Decent girls are looking for good husbands, wayward girls are playing with their own.

She's doing it because she sees you have no choice.

Never make anyone feel so indispensable that they feel you cannot exist without them.

It takes two to make a marriage work. If she threatens to leave, allow her.

Never beg her to return.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Every woman does that, bro

It is in their DNA

Your job is to tell her, she is free to go anytime

If you are good and she realizes your value, she will never leave

This is basic format for handling the situation

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Why are u holding her back.. Help her pack her bags and lock ur door when she leaves.. Nonsense

The day u threaten me like that, i will ensure u leave my house that day

tnerro1:
Call her bluff or you leave the next time, let’s see how she deals with it. But if you married an ex olosho, no take my advice ooo

lol what do you mean

1. Sit her down when there is no issue and let her know you don't like that her attitude, I mean when the atmosphere is peaceful.
2. Call someone you know she respect and honour and report the matter to him/her. This second reason is the main reason we advise singles to marry someone who has somebody he/she respect/honour/"fear".

she probably has issues from her past. is she from a broken/problematic home or did she witness the effects of such a home growing up.
perhaps let her go one day make we see where matter go end.#

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

A friend of mine who recently got married during my casual discussion with him disclosed to me that two things are involved in marriage; either it works or fails and went further to conclude that one should always expect either. So if she has been threatening you of leaving the marriage why not you give her a chance and allow her to go. You won't die. Don't allow your fellow human being to make life miserable for you.

jaxxy:
what kind of couples issues if I may ask?

Threatening ur partner is wrong unless where issues are out of hand.

People get tired and numb to a particular problem from their spouse if it keeps occurring.

Valoromega

This is actually very good advice.

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Yelight:
1. Sit her down when there is no issue and let her know you don't like that her attitude, I mean when the atmosphere is peaceful.
2. Call someone you know she respect and honour and report the matter to him/her. This second reason is the main reason we advise singles to marry someone who has somebody he/she respect/honour/"fear".

How do you know he has not done this?

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Absolutely.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

here are some suggestions for addressing the situation in your marriage:

1. Communication: Encourage open and honest communication between you and your wife. Let her know how her threats of leaving make you feel and express your desire to work through issues together.

2. Understanding: Try to understand the underlying reasons for your wife's behavior. She may be feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or lacking support. Understanding her perspective can help you address the root cause of the issue.

3. Counseling: Consider attending couples counseling to improve communication, address conflicts, and strengthen your relationship. A trained therapist can help you both navigate through your differences and find constructive ways to resolve conflicts.

4. Setting boundaries: It's important to establish healthy boundaries in your relationship. Let your wife know that threatening to leave is not a constructive way to address issues and discuss alternative ways to handle disagreements.

5. Focus on the child: Keep your child's well-being as a top priority. Ensure that any decisions made are in the best interest of your child and create a stable and supportive environment for them.

6. Seek support: If the situation feels overwhelming, seek support from a therapist, counselor, or support group to help you navigate through this challenging time in your marriage.

bemeruca:


How do you know he has not done this?

Because he did not say so and he's the best person to answer if he has or hasn't.

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Call off her bluff💔💔💔 except na her
dey feed you...😡😡😡



This type of behavior comes from
a woman with poor family background..


I can bet that she may even be a
product of an unmarried or widowed
mother, because a normal woman
with a regular upbringing, under a
father can't behave like this❗️❗️❗️😐😐😐


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This I can attest too

Do you beg her anytime she has issues with you whether she's wrong or right?And have you ever attempted to allow her to leave in order to see her reaction?Your wife should realise there're many younger and more beautiful women who are still out there willing to be married but not married,youthfulness is not only the basis or access to marriage.

call her bluff

madridguy:
My only be say make this your wife and her mother no kill you one day

Meanwhile, I hope you don finally do your daughter's DNA.

I don't want to say anything concerning your wife now but make you enter transfer market for now make you dey shadow for replacement.

You suddenly turn legal adviser nomawagbe. You don’t tire to dey defend bad government? 😂😂😂😂😂

She will eventually leave. Women don't say that without a reason. Is she the breadwinner? Do you simp for her? Is she having an affair? In case she leaves, change the locks to the house like my cousin. I dont see marriage as favour. If she wants to leave open the door for her & wish her well. Marriage is not by force.