midnighter:


You started bullying her first, when you said this:









You think the way you spoke to her was okay just because you were fake-polite and passive-aggressive about it? If you're so concerned about her and you're such a "bystander" you would have put your points across without embarrassing her.

We know your type, who try to disguise spiteful comments by coating them in honey first and then claim innocent when the other person loses their temper.

As for the insults, well, let me be as biased as you are and say that you deserve them! People like you never learn so let me be a hypocrite like you and take sides with her so that you can understand yourself.

You are a bully. Maybe a well-spoken and subtle one, but still a bully.

Think well before going about picking on people in order to make yourself feel superior. You're busy lecturing people about dignity and class when you yourself are a classless manipulator.

Acidosis:
..That's because some women have perfected the act of turning the hearts of their children and husbands against the paternal family. This kind of thing is not permitted in my family. This usually is one of the first and ONLY instruction we tell our wives! Don't even dare!

I'm close to my cousins and relatives on both sides. They're both important to me, and I love them equally.

Some cousins from my maternal family lived with us for many years but it didn't influence me into loving them more than my paternal family.

Preshy561:

It's always the women's fault.

pocohantas:

Acidosis:

Who else notice the trend of comments from women on this thread??

I pity men in this life




If you're a man and you're reading this, ensure you recondition the mind of your woman o before marriage. Women have been conditioned by generational experiences to hate your family.

Acidosis:
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Yes, certainly. A lot women read meanings to every damn thing!

Jarrow:
Lol... interesting stuff is that one person's paternal family is most times, another's maternal family.

bukatyne:


Bar exceptions, nobody can turn anyone against everyone for long periods of time.

Some people would see through the facade and enlighten others.

Your moniker is a guy so your struggles is not necessarily your wife's struggles.

Except you are saying all children are stupid, maternal and paternal families have equal chance to prove themselves.

Jarrow:
Lol... interesting stuff is that one person's paternal family is most times, another's maternal family.

maternal and paternal families have equal chance to prove themselves

The OP ignores the issue of who is the primary caregiver and what are his or her (op) references for the claim.


Meaning what is the reason for this particular question?



What is the background to the thread?

Jarrow:
Lol... interesting stuff is that one person's paternal family is most times, another's maternal family.

midnighter:


That's just what I was thinking.

Jarrow:
Lol... interesting stuff is that one person's paternal family is most times, another's maternal family.

cococandy:
Shows the cultural double standards though doesn’t it?

Siblings will acts totally different to the husband of their sister but become a different kind of humans when it comes to their wife of their brother.

The children do take note.

bukatyne:


Bar exceptions, nobody can turn anyone against everyone for long periods of time.

Some people would see through the facade and enlighten others.

Your moniker is a guy so your struggles is not necessarily your wife's struggles.

Except you are saying all children are stupid, maternal and paternal families have equal chance to prove themselves.

cococandy:
Why is it that it’s easy for folks to say ignore ignore. And then make the person who was first bullied to appear as if they are the bad guy when they react.

But somehow they manage to remain silent in observation when the bully is going on his bullying spree.

If you won’t call out a bully, don’t tell the person they are bullying how to react. It’s unfair.

crackhaus:

You know what, I think you might just be the most enlightened poster I've read from since the beginning of last week.

Apart from me of course


I like you, I like you very much...no homo!

sweetmelanin:



You're only saying this because she has successfully won you over to her side by sucking up to you.
... Not that I support the guy or anything, but lets play fair, genq often makes good points but sometimes let's himself get caught up in fights because female monikers wont let him be.... I watch a lot of you guys gang up and insult him and other male monikers just coz they have differing opinions.
Go and read Breaststroke other posts you will see what I'm saying, she's always insulting one guy or the other... why can't she just let things go

Jarrow:


Lol at the bolded. Cheers to the compliment.

I like you too for your humour.
Be a good brother and in-law!

nlPoster:
Everybody is now a victim.