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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Dayaa: 2:20pm On Oct 27, 2022
It's up to you to decide what you want.
Do you want to tell her or you want to keep it to yourself?
It's likely she doesn't even know herself, you know.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by advanceDNA: 4:41pm On Oct 27, 2022
Dayaa:
It's up to you to decide what you want.
Do you want to tell her or you want to keep it to yourself?
It's likely she doesn't even know herself, you know.

She doesnt know?? So another man sperm jump inside her pvssy by error
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Chapii: 7:17pm On Oct 27, 2022
FalseProphet1:
Women are the only creatures on this planet who can kneel down, cry their eyes out and still be lying to you. Know this and know peace.

This I have seen.
For the 1st time you are a true prophet.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Highman1900(m): 8:31pm On Oct 27, 2022
Op, pls how much take you to conduct the test, i beg tell me.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Mavrick2012: 8:50pm On Oct 27, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?
oga op,nawa for u o,
You know ur wife is a good woman yet you still wasted money for a DNA test?
This would have been necessary if u observe she is a runz woman.
See,now you have caused urself unnecessary trouble
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by sulakishop(m): 5:12am On Oct 28, 2022
Worry not, most 1st child ain't their father's...
The details of the disasters are as follows :

-You are still single, bc she's still seeing her e,x

-You don't know how many children that you have

-You're not safe, your life is at risk

Goodluck!
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by galantjoe(m): 5:35am On Oct 28, 2022
You have to confront her now with evidence. Let her tell you who and who are responsible and why she did it. You can still forgive her if you re so stupid or simp. The most important is keeping it secret if you re to forgive her. But truth must to be told because it is only truth shall set us free.

If you refused to let her confess now, that child who is not yours, will succeed you. And in your old age, having getting ground may kill you or frustrate your life to untimely death.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by babaribaba4: 6:58am On Oct 28, 2022
Hello bro, you may need to find out where things go wrong. Truth is that if your wife is good as you have said, it's possible that there is mixed up at birth, you may need to search more into the truth about the whole issue, kindly talk to your wife and confirm the Maternity, test the child with his mother. You need to confirm this. If you continue to keep quiet and your wife find out that you know already this might lead to something bigger than you can imagine. Please seek help and ask questions. Thank you
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by efficiencie(m): 8:40am On Oct 28, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Dude you are going to put yourself in a ton of trouble later. That your wife is now an angel does not mean you should not right the wrongs of the past. You need to let your wife know of what you found and let her know you would like to get this resolved as amicably as possible. She needs to identify the man responsible for the child and you two need to work on having the rightful father take responsibility for the child. In addition you need to make up your mind to inform that child about his status in the home as a step-child (if he remains in your home for the time being). You need to also ensure that you are not doing in this in secret. You need to ensure that the parents of the lady are involved in the process. Once this process is concluded you can continue with your married life and heal. A wound hidden is not a wound healed rather it is a wound that festers.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by chatwithbruno(m): 8:52pm On Oct 28, 2022
Your wife is a cheat and will always be a cheat.

Funny enough, out of 100 married women with kids, first children of about 19 of them belong to other men.

This anormaly happens to fulfill the purpose of the coming of the Lord.

I will never stoop so low to father a child that does not belong to me.

If you wife should know that you're aware the child does not belong to you, she WILL KILL YOU.

Never forget the capital letters in a hurry.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Probz(m): 2:37am On Oct 29, 2022
Ndo, o?

Ewo.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by 1Sharon(f): 9:52pm On May 08
Mischievous OP.

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