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Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by gud9ija(m): 7:36pm On Dec 24, 2007 |
100% trust why not? Well i advise you put that into a relationship if and only if you are sure of your parachute! Parhaps u've got the best SHOCK ABSORBER! Guys give it a try! ![]() |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by Millena(m): 9:38pm On Dec 24, 2007 |
There should be much trust in a relationship to get it going, but U definitely cant trust any man 100%. even the Bible says that it is better to put our trust in God than in man (Psalm 118: ![]() So, I cant trust myself to give any man/woman 100% trust. That is foolishness. Thats overtrusting em. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by Elgaxton(m): 5:43pm On Dec 25, 2007 |
Hmmmm Why not? Trust her 100% as in 100% to do the wrong things and 100% to do the right things ![]() That's women for u! ![]() |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by dremoney(m): 3:30am On Dec 26, 2007 |
personally, i doubt the possibility of having an 100% trust for my wife/Gfriend n vice-versa. sm situations byond her/my control might warrant either of us to cheat/b unfaithful, its onli logical and natural. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by dremoney(m): 3:36am On Dec 26, 2007 |
JeSoul: cnt help bt laugh wat even made ur own case worse is the location, ur possibility of loving 100% tonite,wake up d nxt morning n hate 200% hahahahahahahahahahahah |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by sholashola: 11:41am On Dec 26, 2007 |
I don't think 100% trust is possible. And if possible, it is definately not advisable though trust is a basis for any relationship but it can't be 100%- just God. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by jiogah(m): 8:56pm On Dec 26, 2007 |
1000% trust HOW? my dear it's tooo risky.but if u'r good at taking risks, no long tin.with the rate at which gals are sharp. U wan kil yr self |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by holythug(m): 5:30pm On Dec 27, 2007 |
haba. . . o boy 20% sef too much u wan die. . . . . . wen dey slap it on ur face u now run d streets . . . dont need to finish d statement ![]() |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by holythug(m): 6:51am On Dec 29, 2007 |
;d |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by bodejohn(m): 12:43pm On Dec 29, 2007 |
There was once a time in the singles' fellowship of my that church this topic came up as a debate. It was about love and trust and the one that comes first. We should approach this with utmost sincerity and passion as some of what we call relationships today results in marriage tomorrow. I can't imagine what i or anybody else should be doing in a relationship which i know deep within myself that i can not give 100% of my trust. What goes around comes around, if i am not ready to give 100% i cannot get 100%. As a matter of fact i cannot love who i cannot trust 100%. It also does not take away the fact that people change. Should we say because people pass away in their sleep we will stop sleeping? if i ever find myself in a relationship where my trust drops to 99%, i will call the girl and break it up at once. Not been able to trust our fiancee / spouse is a sign of the dept of infidelity in our society. It is just a cover up of our inconsistency to compare the trust we have to God to that which we display to other people. They are both not the same. If we cannot trust the people we see, how much more God that we do not see. Jesus Christ himself comfirmed this by saying how can you claim you love a God that you have not seen when you cannot show same love to people around you. I have stayed on the two sides i,e being single and now married and i can say that it is better to get someone you can trust 100% than jumping from one person to another in the name of i can't trust 100%. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by macgozy(m): 1:57pm On Dec 29, 2007 |
Trust no one!!! that's a commandment 60% trust should do 4 both parties |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by anyakarl(m): 5:58pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
In any relationship except in marriage, trust shudn't be even close to 70% because we are all human beings. We could stray at anytime. 4 instance when there is a long distance between d, , anything can happen ![]() ![]() |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
It's even impossible as a human to trust another human 100% so there is no room for discussion. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by Jezzy(f): 7:35am On Jan 04, 2008 |
Can I trust someone a 100% in a relationship? Yes.And if I can't,then I won't be in a relationship with him. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by royalyinx(m): 12:35pm On Jan 05, 2008 |
According to what has happened to me before,i'd just say you should be prepared for anything anytime so its better you trust yourself than to put so much of your trust in ur partner |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by Tawak: 6:30pm On Jan 05, 2008 |
SURE INFACT MUCH MOR DAN 100%,IF NYTIN LIK DAT EXIST |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by alineh(f): 8:02pm On Jan 06, 2008 |
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Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by Nmeka(m): 8:09pm On Jan 06, 2008 |
no, never! u shud neva giv anybody ur 100 percnt trust, it shud be okk 4 d relationship, not totally, u cud wreck urself n thaz wat drives people to commit suicide once d trusted one bleeps up, me i say no. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by keenchiori(m): 6:20pm On Jan 07, 2008 |
100% trust on a mortal is far too much. Say may be 60% or, cause when you trust someone, you get tied of them quickely. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jan 07, 2008 |
So much illusion. Idealists! Be more realistic! |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by odiaseo(m): 11:36pm On Jan 07, 2008 |
no, never! u should never give anybody your 100 percent trust, it should be OK 4 d relationship, not totally, u cud wreck yourself n thaz what drives people to commit suicide once d trusted one bleeps up, me i say no. Trust should be 100% in a relationship from both parties if true love really exists. The truth about love is that you empower the person you love with the ability to hurt you the most. We cannot change that fact, it is how love works. However in loving someone, you must give room for mistakes and errors because we are human.Only God is perfect so if our dearly loved ones goofs we should turn to God for strength and not commit suicide |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by tome1: 1:27pm On Jan 08, 2008 |
Love and trust should go together.and i dont think there is anything like 100% trust sha because whether u like it or not there will be doubts at one point or the other. we are humans so we are bound to have second thoughts i love my swetheart and i trust him to do some things and not to do some but can i really measure the trust by percentage? i dont think so and wont lie about that one love ![]() ![]() |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by odiaseo(m): 2:15pm On Jan 08, 2008 |
i don't think there is anything like 100% trust sha because whether u like it or not there will be doubts at one point or the other. I suppose that why dating / courtship is important so one can disperse whatever doubts exist before committing to marriage. If both parties are in a godly relationship 100% trust can be achieved. It is possible not to have 100% trust in a relationship where they are sleeping together. In my opinion why should you trust a person 100% when God cannot trust him/her. If they can sleep together without getting married, what stops them from doing so with someone else or even in marriage. It is the believe that you partner has the fear of God that gives one the confidence to trust 100%. You cannot be with the person all the time so you definitely don't know what the person would be up to or can do. But knowing that the person loves God and fears Him, you can trust 100% |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by wealthyman(m): 9:46am On Jan 10, 2008 |
[/quote][quote author=bodejohn link=topic=101168.msg1803314#msg1803314 date=1198928635] well said what more can i add. thanx bro,all the best in ur marriage,ur marriage will be full of lafta and joy |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by vanstanzy(m): 10:18am On Jan 10, 2008 |
[b][/b]100% ![]() She no f--k up sha!i was just very disappionted and so hurt by her action.Some level of trust is advisable though. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by bissy44(f): 3:52pm On Jan 10, 2008 |
Actually to me it depend on both parties, if dey re faithful to each other why not but if it is d other way round it will not be possibe. my bros. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by powerblaze(m): 3:07am On Jan 11, 2008 |
I think you guys and some of you ladies are stating the exact reason why you don't succeed in relationships. How can two work together except they agree? Trust is in levels. You can't start at 100%, but that should be your aim, for only then can you find true peace. We just decieve ourselves. We don't trust anyone, yet we want to be trusted. Neva works like that. ![]() |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by metro(m): 2:52pm On Jan 11, 2008 |
powerblaze:i concor bro u cant get what u dont av and perfection is not attained in one day |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by GeeCee(m): 4:04pm On Jan 11, 2008 |
100% trust is an illusion; it never exist. I don't even expect it from anyone. |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by holythug(m): 8:43pm On Feb 01, 2008 |
notin is 100% but a lil ll do |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by holythug(m): 8:46pm On Feb 01, 2008 |
notin is 100% but a lil ll do |
Re: Trust In A Relationship: Should It Be 100%? by tulk2mi: 1:00pm On Apr 24, 2008 |
Never trust anybody in ur life is a usual advice Many said i trust God 100% , do u really? If u cannot trust man whom u have seen how can u claim to trust GOD whom u have not seen God is Love and God trust man despite man's failures Just as many claim I love my spouse, yet u cant trust him/her a 100%. True to type many will disappoint u dat should not stop u frm trusting. Those who do not trust r merely echoing what they r, not trust worthy "man wey dey kill person with cutlass no dey want make person take pen knife pass im back" If u truly love somebody u can trust them a 100% just as ur kids love u n dey look up to u as there hero with wide trusting eyes. they trust u 100% but as they grow up they come to discover dat u dont even trust urself then how can they trust u. again pple dont stop falling in love cos somebody they love broke their heart just as pple dont stop goin 2 da hospital cos somebody died there, u trust dat wen ur sick n u go there they will put in their best 2 get u beta. So 4 all those who have been disappointed by those they trust try trusting again maybe we can change the trust no body to trust everybody untill then just be true 2 urself r u trustworthy? |
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