Rocktation:

My thoughts are that she'd do whatever makes her fell good, yesss! Men will be men even when a woman sheaths herself in potato sacks!!!!!

queensmith: My mother was asking me what exactly my problem with Nigerian men is, I responded with 'even if he is the nicest guy, he seems perfect, handles all his issues right, is open, is honest blah blah- there isn't a day he won't come out with bulshit that will make me divorce him in a split second'

This topic is a prime example- the op may be the most innocent, polite nicest man or whatever, but his mentality and his views are 1st world sickening. Does marriage=bondage?

is putting your photos on a website simply a means to attract attention? You never heard of sharing? I guess you also believe your wife shouldnt have male or unmarried friends and if they are they should be ugly and or crippled.

Nigerian men are inherently insecure, the insecurity is translated into all sorts of nonsense standards to be upheld. Its nothing but hogwash and bulsh*t

maclatunji:

Thank you, you have hit the crux of the matter. This thread started-out as a question, until our women jumped-out for the Jugular. In that case, I am just dishing-it out to them.

Who is she trying to impress? I ask because obviously men will admire them and being married, one would think she understands that she shouldn't do anything that will make other men who are not her husband well... "hit on her". What are your thoughts?

iragbijile:

I was gonna get a new bullshittometer, but whats the point? No matter how big or better designed the new bulsshittometer is, Maclatunji will find a way to break it. He is that awesome

maclatunji:

Thank you, you have hit the crux of the matter. This thread started-out as a question, until our women jumped-out for the Jugular. In that case, I am just dishing-it out to them.

Ujujoan:

Doors that should be closed

As in married women don't deserve to be complimented on their looks

You make marriage sound like the end of the world. For most women, it's only the beginning.

Take me for example, I'm not really the make-up or dressing-up type. But ever since I got married, my husband insists I dress sexy, make up, wear flasy colours e.t.c! Of course I get more compliments now than I did in my single days. Does that mean I'm fishing for these compliments

As for posting pictures on the internet, I beleive people should be free to express themselves anyhow they want, with or without being married. As far as it doesn't exceed decent boundaries, there's no need to limit a woman in the the name of marriage. Simple!

coogar:
stop trying to save the world.....

maclatunji:

Are you done or is there more to come?

maclatunji:

I don't disagree with this, emphasis on married [/b]woman here.

[b]Who is she trying to impress? I ask because obviously men will admire them and being married, one would think she understands that she shouldn't do anything that will make other men who are not her husband well... "hit on her". What are your thoughts?

debosky:

Symptom #4 of messianic hallucinations - the subject has an insatiable need to save the world.

debosky:

Symptom #4 of messianic hallucinations - the subject has an insatiable need to save the world.

Tolaaaaannni: @Op same thing should go for married men then, because only God knows how many married men i have seen on facebook. This double standard B.S has to stop, with what women cannot do and what men can do.

coogar:

bringing chesticles out on a public transport? isn't that a sorta indecent exposure?
gambia must be one helluva place to be then....



some men are wired that way - the huge dark ring around the nipples of feeding mothers stir their hormones - lol

JallowBah:

You hardly see anything of the nipples when the baby is eating..
And no, that is not exposure. Its feeding a baby. Youre not flashing anyone, you are FEEDING A BABY.

JallowBah:

Pffft.

Men hit on me even I am wearing baggy pants and no make up with a big t-shirt.

coogar:

do i get to see anything when the baby stops eating?

maclatunji:

Imagine what they could do when you wear less?

Sisi_Kill: Yipeeeeee!!! He's gotten his wish. . .the thread is now on the frontpage!!

Now my Uncle mi can sit back. . .All is well in His world!

How do you like 'em apples!




What freaking crux of what matter??

Lmao!! Who do you think you are dealing with here. . .children?

This is your initial post, no?



So how does it align with what Coogar wrote that you are now touting his post as the crux of your matter!!

Please! Please! Please go back to the drawing board and Pleeeeeeeeeeeease do try to come up with sensible this time.

maclatunji:

This is one of the reasons I started this thread. I want to know if married woman consciously prevent themselves from posting photos that for all intent and purposes may be deemed "sexy". The reason I ask is they would then get comments like, "looking good", "fine girl", "fine mama", "looking cute and sexy". It does make me wonder if a married woman should be doing such? Personally, I believe it opens doors that should be closed especially as a married woman.

If it is a single lady, you could probably say she is being exuberant, seeking attention, looking for a husband etc. But for a married woman, these things shouldn't apply or come into play at all.

I am sure most husbands wouldn't appreciate such.

@ Poster

Since you already have an opinion, nay, a firm view of your position, need i say more? Just asking

JallowBah:

I wear less many times. Not too much difference in how many people approach me or not.

maclatunji:

But there's a difference which could be because of any number of factors.

scribble: the OPs views does not represent the views of all men anywhere/everywhere

maybe he has insecurity issues

debosky:

Symptom #4 of messianic hallucinations - the subject has an insatiable need to save the world.

Tgirl4real:

lol. Hiro Nikorama (Sisikill, abeg help me with the correct name)

btw, I actually recommended the topic for home page.

JallowBah:

Of course. It could be the clothes, the make-up, the attitude etc.
The days I wear baggy pants O probably look more sad as well, not too happy with myself those days.
The days I dress up, they will see I am happy with myself as well, and THAT attracts attention more than anything,no matter the dress.

maclatunji:
But there's a difference which could be because of any number of factors.

maclatunji:

You see what you want to see.

coogar:

so you think the way a woman dresses determines her promiscuity? come on - you are beginning to sound like those islamic extremists who cover up their women like ninjas. what does it stop? i have a reliable statistic that says women in hijab are hornier than the babes in bum shorts and tank tops!

JallowBah:

Hah, maybe for 2-5 seconds if you`re lucky.

maclatunji:
You said that not me. Your conclusions can as well apply to you. React to the things I type not what you imagine. Thank you.