septua: Hi.i am young woman in my early 20s. I hav been seeing a young man of 30 for abt a year now and about 2months ago he started talking about marriage plans although he hasnt proposed but i take dat as one.he has rented a 3 bedroom apartment and promised to take me to his parents by towards d end of d year. Long story short we pland to get married next year.i trust him although i fear he mite dissapoint as he is still struggling to his feet. But 3 weeks ago my piple called me home from were i was doin my service to meet a man dat has come for my hand in marriage. The man is handsome and wealthy but he is 16years older than me and dat alone makes me uncomfortable. Plus i dont rilly like him.we seem not to hav much in common. But my mum and my aunty has bin beggin me to marry him as we r sort of goin tru financial breakdown and dey see him as a kind of saviour.plus my mums pastor says he has seen the marriage in vision befor now. D marriage wil be done in less than 4months if i say yes. And if i say no then i wil hav to wait for my man til mid next yr. So i ask pls wil u consider your family and go into d marriage or wait for ur love.

septua: Hi.i am young woman in my early 20s. I hav been seeing a young man of 30 for abt a year now and about 2months ago he started talking about marriage plans although he hasnt proposed but i take dat as one.he has rented a 3 bedroom apartment and promised to take me to his parents by towards d end of d year. Long story short we pland to get married next year.i trust him although i fear he mite dissapoint as he is still struggling to his feet. But 3 weeks ago my piple called me home from were i was doin my service to meet a man dat has come for my hand in marriage. The man is handsome and wealthy but he is 16years older than me and dat alone makes me uncomfortable. Plus i dont rilly like him.we seem not to hav much in common. But my mum and my aunty has bin beggin me to marry him as we r sort of goin tru financial breakdown and dey see him as a kind of saviour.plus my mums pastor says he has seen the marriage in vision befor now. D marriage wil be done in less than 4months if i say yes. And if i say no then i wil hav to wait for my man til mid next yr. So i ask pls wil u consider your family and go into d marriage or wait for ur love.

septua: Hi.i am young woman in my early 20s. I hav been seeing a young man of 30 for abt a year now and about 2months ago he started talking about marriage plans although he hasnt proposed but i take dat as one.he has rented a 3 bedroom apartment and promised to take me to his parents by towards d end of d year. Long story short we pland to get married next year.i trust him although i fear he mite dissapoint as he is still struggling to his feet. But 3 weeks ago my piple called me home from were i was doin my service to meet a man dat has come for my hand in marriage. The man is handsome and wealthy but he is 16years older than me and dat alone makes me uncomfortable. Plus i dont rilly like him.we seem not to hav much in common. But my mum and my aunty has bin beggin me to marry him as we r sort of goin tru financial breakdown and dey see him as a kind of saviour.plus my mums pastor says he has seen the marriage in vision befor now. D marriage wil be done in less than 4months if i say yes. And if i say no then i wil hav to wait for my man til mid next yr. So i ask pls wil u consider your family and go into d marriage or wait for ur love.

harvey: Live your life away from all this men drama, you are almost done with service and you are young,are you scared of tomorrow? ignore all these proposals and as for your parents,they have to wait on you to start working for you to help meet their needs... add value to your life and don't let marriage be an escape route.

AmBeautiful:
Next time you see your mother and Aunt ask them this question:

If i marry him now,when i don't love him because of money, what happens tomorrow when money finish

Then come and tell me their answer

AmBeautiful:
Next time you see your mother and Aunt ask them this question:

If i marry him now,when i don't love him because of money, what happens tomorrow when money finish

Then come and tell me their answer

190: WOW even Nigerian families too

Hmm. . . i bet that family must be

DICKtator:

seconded.
Why would are some parents this selfish??

courage89: "I don’t know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone"

...This is your life, live it the way you choose and not the way of your family.

swtchicgurl:

IS THIS ENGLISH?!

190: WOW even Nigerian families too

Hmm. . . i bet that family must be

septua: Hi.i am young woman in my early 20s. I have been seeing a young man of 30 for about a year now and about 2 months ago he started talking about marriage plans although he hasn't proposed but i took that as one.

He has rented a 3 bedroom apartment and promised to take me to his parents towards the end of the year. Long story short we planned to get married next year.

I trust him although i fear he might disappoint me as he is still struggling. But 3 weeks ago my people called me home from were i was doing my service to meet a man that has come for my hand in marriage. The man is handsome and wealthy but he is 16 years older than me and that alone makes me uncomfortable. Plus i dont really like him.

we seem not to have much in common, But my mum and my aunty have been begging me to marry him as we are sort of going through financial breakdown and they see him as a kind of saviour. Plus my mums pastor says he has seen the marriage in vision before now.

The marriage will be done in less than 4 months if i say yes, And if i say no then i will have to wait for my man till mid next year.

So i ask please will you consider your family and go into the marriage or wait for your love.