chaircover:

Hmmmmmmmmmm I didnt think about that o!. Ever since the airport drama, I've noticed that he always gives me more "pocket money" when I travel

BTW Richy, this kneeling down thing is mostly a Yoruba thing o! and not everyone practices it, but I am sure that every wife regardless of tribe has her own way of appeasing/stroking her husbands ego/apologizing/getting things off her husband etc etc

Richvkunt: Women should understand and know their role in a marriage.
Be submissive and all good things will come to you.
Learn to accept your husband as your Lord, Lover, and provider.
You kneel to insignificant people? How much more the one who feeds and clothes you. The one who gives you children, the one whom without you would not be a missus!
Please respect and worship your husbands. The own the keys to your life and happiness.
I see that madam chaircover has the right idea-worship his ego, no matter how small the gift.
Tayour too,gets the idea.
A word is enough for the wise ones.
Thhe fact that when you kneel down for hubby and he tells you to get up does not mean he does not enjoy it and get a rush when you do it.
A wise woman@always finds a way to massage her husband/partners ego.

slimyem: I won't even hesitate to..
Its a small price to pay for peace to reign!

hannydarl:

And you believe only a husband can feed and cloth a woman? You think only a husband can make a woman pregnant? Na wa. Do you think the womans duty as a home maker is not important too? The man plays his role and is appreciated likewise a good and carring mother plays her role. They are both important to bring up successful kids and family as a whole.

I kneel down to say sorry to my hubby cos he is much loved by me. Its wise to boost a mans ego. He feels you acknowledge him as a special part of the home. Its tickles his imagination. But he must love you too to appreciate your kneeling down if not it back fires.
I overheard once one ashawo man bragging to his friend. How his wife dared not ask him where he is comming from even if he leaves the house for days. How she begs him on her knees if he frowns at her questions as to what he has been upto. He was bragging to his friends and their sugar girls. Such men see your kneeling down as a sign of hopelesnes. Like you cannot eat or drink without them. And if you progress financially, they feel threatened.
A kind, loving, caring and understanding hubby is rare(most naija men will remind you howmuch garri you eat in their house). He deserves all the kneeling down his wife wants to offer. He is special and treats her special. I kneel to say thank you when ever he wows (He blushes and does more jara afterwards) me not neccesarily when he I want to say sorry.

Mynd_44: No I can't and I don't expect her to

@yemidot:
If it's my husby,it won't take me a second 2 go on my kneels n its best 2 do it in order 2 av peace in d house.

@yemidot:
If it's my husby,it won't take me a second 2 go on my kneels n its best 2 do it in order 2 av peace in d house.

Darius2000:
HONESTLY, I JUST DID IT TODAY...I WAS WRONG AND I HAD NO CHOICE...TO HELL WITH MY EGO.....

taryour: As long as its my hubby,i do it so no big deal. Its a sign of my respect afterall he is my husband although he dosnt like it.

chaircover: I tried it once when I offended him but he immediately said I should get up and not to kneel down for him again. I do however kneel down to tease him when I want to get something off him or want to say thank you for something and we both joke about it. Once I was traveling to Nigeria and he gave me some money at the airport and I knelt down on my two knees to say thank you in the middle of the airport. People around must have thought that he gave me a million dollars LOL

If he was the type who felt that kneeling down was very important to him as an apology after a fight, then of course I will. Shebi He is my husband at the end of the day and if that is what makes him happy; then kini big deal?

Richvkunt: Women should understand and know their role in a marriage.
Be submissive and all good things will come to you.
Learn to accept your husband as your Lord, Lover, and provider.
You kneel to insignificant people? How much more the one who feeds and clothes you. The one who gives you children, the one whom without you would not be a missus!
Please respect and worship your husbands. The own the keys to your life and happiness.
I see that madam chaircover has the right idea-worship his ego, no matter how small the gift.
Tayour too,gets the idea.
A word is enough for the wise ones.
Thhe fact that when you kneel down for hubby and he tells you to get up does not mean he does not enjoy it and get a rush when you do it.
A wise woman@always finds a way to massage her husband/partners ego.

Zeus I: A great out-of-line oratory there(a partial answer). Would you kneel to beg your wife after a fight you caused?

Excelboi: Real men don't kneel down, they make up !

stillme: Capital "NO" but my woman can do that for me.