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Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by 190: 9:13am On Sep 16, 2012
xynerise:
I warned u not to go out with that girl that looks like wife of Frankistein but u refused undecided


Ok I would have gone for skydeepp init undecided
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by xynerise: 9:28am On Sep 16, 2012
190:


Ok I would have gone for skydeepp init undecided
you are not her class. Am serious
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by hardbody: 12:21pm On Sep 16, 2012
ATMC: @hardbody what said okafor's law

It goes like this, once two parties have phocked, there is always a possibility of phocking again provided there is consent between the phocker and the phocke . That is Okafor's law paraphrased
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by hardbody: 12:26pm On Sep 16, 2012
Moukafoam: Why are guys always after what's under? Is the two antena untop not enough? angry

Talkikng about ex, any guy u see arround his ex is looking for something else undecided

Will you rather avail the antennae at the expense of what is under?, if yes, you have yourself a deal
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by ATMC(f): 1:13pm On Sep 16, 2012
hardbody:

It goes like this, once two parties have phocked, there is always a possibility of phocking again provided there is consent between the phocker and the phocke . That is Okafor's law paraphrased
state it mathematically
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by infolekan(m): 1:39pm On Sep 16, 2012
Duke_Nija: People have different reasons for ending their love relationships, and these reasons ultimately determine the level of communication or friendship between both parties.(No need to explain this)

I am friends with my ex's. They call me. I make them laugh.
I've been talking with one of them for the past two days. She says she thinks bout me. She has a new dude undecided


That's why there have to be boundarieS......because keeping in touch everytime makes room for someone to fall back in love believe me. I have my exes as contacts & we talk once in MONTHS but keeping close touch(whatever 'friends'mean though) isn't healthy for anyone.
This is someone you've been every intimate with...you know their weak point & you were once on fire for them. Sooner or later...someone will start feeling the spark again. Not wise in my opinion except as a contact on a phone.
The 'wise' ones will talk about being matured though, like they really are when it comes to love things undecided
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by Ogundale(m): 4:50pm On Sep 16, 2012
Nope i can'nt
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by 190: 5:01pm On Sep 16, 2012
Una still dey on dis matter
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by secnelly: 5:43pm On Sep 16, 2012
All ma ex are still ma vey good friends but we r no longer together(same vicinity) and i call them my ex. But each time i see any of them, we feel lyk gettin down again and again cos they are proud of my relationship with them.
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by hildaa(f): 9:59am On Sep 17, 2012
it all depends on how we broke up and who brought the issue of breaking up. For me i will say no
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by cugardmalino: 10:31am On Sep 17, 2012
Staying friend with your Ex is like a kidnapper collecting your number and keeping in touch. Run very far cos if you guys were meant to be, the word Ex wont showcase
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by costaside(m): 11:07am On Sep 17, 2012
I am currently in this situation and it is really affecting my love for my present girlfriend. My Ex and I now create tangable time daily to speak on phone. We talk almost everyday for at least 1 hour. We see at least once everyweek and we watch each others back. We talk about our present relationships to each other and sometimes we advice each other on how to treat our partners. But the truth of the matter is, we prefer staying together than being with our partners.. I don't even understand anymore if this is friendship or love again. Please everyone advise.
Thanks
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by gbengarock: 11:56am On Sep 17, 2012
Leobreezy: You can't consider someone as your ex-lover when you still have feelings for them because, he/she is still the one you love.


Absolutely wrong...d fact dat u call one ur ex does not mean u don't feel anytin for dem anymore



Ex means former, so before you classify someone as that, then all emotions and desires you had for that person must have effaced into oblivion

easier said dan done



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Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by TBankz(f): 1:57pm On Sep 17, 2012
HumbleServant: I CAN'T BE FRIEND TO MY EX (EJIRO) A GIRL DAT I LUV'D, SHE DIVOICED ME WITHOUT ANY REASON. This is my present problem. I STILL LUV HER, I CAN'T BE.,...,..,.,.,
sorry oooo,take heart.
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by TBankz(f): 2:06pm On Sep 17, 2012
Omo Alata:

My ex ran off with my friend lipsrsealed
funny but sorry sha.
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by kubelan(m): 2:57pm On Sep 17, 2012
I have an EX that walked up to me and told me she want to breakup cos she might not be able to get married to me cos of family stuff so why date. and i have another that pretended to love me and when she was about to go she left without blinking in fact when she discovered i was not going to give up easily she arrested me and charge me with threat to her life and property, after listening to my own side of the story, the DPO told me to run away from her, this is someone i cleaned up i couldn't hurt her cos i really loved her. If you don't love me don't say you do just to get what you want, or to stop me from disturbing you. if you do that the breakup will be bad and i will rather stay far away from you to save myself of pains cos if i tell you i love you am not joking. if you were just having s*x then you can breakup and be fine to stay as friends (how many divorcee stay as friends without......) lets face realiity
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by cuteprinz(m): 2:58pm On Sep 17, 2012
costaside: I am currently in this situation and it is really affecting my love for my present girlfriend. My Ex and I now create tangable time daily to speak on phone. We talk almost everyday for at least 1 hour. We see at least once everyweek and we watch each others back. We talk about our present relationships to each other and sometimes we advice each other on how to treat our partners. But the truth of the matter is, we prefer staying together than being with our partners.. I don't even understand anymore if this is friendship or love again. Please everyone advise.
Thanks
Soon una go nack again, na dia you go understand
Re: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by JoanJohnson(f): 3:19pm On Sep 17, 2012
It all depends on hw we broke up, am still frds with an Ex and its so nice, he's married nw and we later found out why we cldn't stay together, but am so matured to ignore them, the way we relate puts dem @ d edge.

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