To most girls, being a woman/lady hasn't been a rosy experience at all. especially when it comes to the issue of dia regular monthly period, which many girls see as a nightmare. and not to talk about the issue of child birth, boyfriend wahala, sexual harrassment, competing unfavourably with men for this and that, and living in an unsecured environment. girls, pls tell me, how does it feel to be a woman/lady... e no easy, shebi?

What does it feel like 2be a man

Someone please answer me

OP, why don't you ask your gf?

marvelck: To most girls, being a woman/lady hasn't been a rosy experience at all. especially when it comes to the issue of dia regular monthly period, which many girls see as a nightmare. and not to talk about the issue of child birth, boyfriend wahala, sexual harrassment, competing unfavourably with men for this and that, and living in an unsecured environment. girls, pls tell me, how does it feel to be a woman/lady... e no easy, shebi?

You get used to those things. If after 20+ years of existence, some women haven't accepted and embraced themselves as women, then na wa for them. To me, none of it is a big deal or a "nightmare". I'm a chicken when it comes to pain, but I look forward to having children. Nothing comes easy in life. Go through the difficult and painful to reap your benefits later.

No, it isn't easy, but I don't expect being a man to be any easier or harder. Both genders have their obstacles culturally, socially, economically, etc. Facts of life.

I love being a woman. I can't imagine being a guy lol. Life wouldn't be as fun.

All I know is, I hope I have only male children.

Women are so much trouble even for the guys around them...imagine how stressful it would be to actually be one.

You never jam.

Kini big deal, menh!

ekt_bear: All I know is, I hope I have only male children.

Women are so much trouble even for the guys around them...imagine how stressful it would be to actually be one.

Warning!!! We never get what we hope for.
Unhope that hope today!!

1ndidi2:


Warning!!! We never get what we hope for.
Unhope that hope today!!

Why? I like my life being relatively stress free. If you have only male children, no need to ever worry about somebody getting pregnant, etc, etc..

Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against women. I respect them because they have a more difficult life than men. But I want to minimize the amount of said difficulty that enters my own life

ekt_bear: Why? I like my life being relatively stress free. If you have only male children, no need to ever worry about somebody getting pregnant, etc, etc..

Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against women. I respect them because they have a more difficult life than men. But I want to minimize the amount of said difficulty that enters my own life

So your boys will be sterile?

ekt_bear:

Why? I like my life being relatively stress free. If you have only male children, no need to ever worry about somebody getting pregnant, etc, etc..

Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against women. I respect them because they have a more difficult life than men. But I want to minimize the amount of said difficulty that enters my own life

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I hear ya!
So how else do women have a more difficult life apart from ur earlier example?

Sterile ke

no, but if they knock someone up, it isn't them worrying about abortion, being a baby mamma, etc.

Society penalizes women more heavily for things like that than guys.

1ndidi2: .

I hear ya!
So how else do women have a more difficult life apart from ur earlier example?

1. As a career woman, you are also expected to do the lion's share of the child raising too.
2. If you are a woman and into math and science, you'll find that these fields are dominated by men.
3. Not being able to go out at night.
4. Not being able to date a lot w/o looking like a ho.
5. Periods.
6. Pregnancy.
7. PMS.
8. Your eggs are good up only to a certain point and basically degrade past 40, so you can't dilly-dally regarding marriage.
9. A successful man in his 40s can get a gorgeous 20-something GF. Very hard for his female counterpart to find an attractive mate.

And probably more things I could list..

ekt_bear: Sterile ke

no, but if they knock someone up, it isn't them worrying about abortion, being a baby mamma, etc.

Society penalizes women more heavily for things like that than guys.

One, he has to worry as he was equally involved. Two, about society? No way, especially if you're a black man in the US. Shine ya eye.

ekt_bear: All I know is, I hope I have only male children.

Women are so much trouble even for the guys around them...imagine how stressful it would be to actually be one.

men are usually close to their female kids.

u shld kno dt men also come with their baggage too like selling things in d house, entering all kinds of trouble, impregnating girls,joining fraternities and d likes.

male or female, it comes wit some work

This question is just dumb

Lol...smh
feels great, anytime, anyday, anyseason.

2. If you are a woman and into math and science, you'll find that these fields are dominated by men.

I don't understand this point! Like how does it concern d issue?


Anyway I think u should also wish 4 daughters,am an only girl and my father saw/brought me up like one of d boys! He trained me in a way that I never put him or my family in any trouble! I feel that even though we all eventually do what we want,but there are some times where ur home training affects ur decisions. My dad made me know I could achieve even more than my brothers,I should never depend on anyone 4 my upkeep and all that,he NEVER looked down on me. This is one thing that most of our fathers do-they do not regard women as anything@all,some in a subliminal way start pimping their girls off so they are maltreated. Now this girl grows up with that mind setting in life so it seems they are troublesome or a menace to society.

Seriously-hope for daughters and bring them up d WAY she won't b a menace and u will see a change @least.
If u can do that and another guy does and another-there will b a change.

@ekt_bear 2. If you are a woman and into math and science, you'll find that these fields are dominated by men.

I don't understand this point! Like how does it concern d issue?


Anyway I think u should also wish 4 daughters,am an only girl and my father saw/brought me up like one of d boys! He trained me in a way that I never put him or my family in any trouble! I feel that even though we all eventually do what we want,but there are some times where ur home training affects ur decisions. My dad made me know I could achieve even more than my brothers,I should never depend on anyone 4 my upkeep and all that,he NEVER looked down on me. This is one thing that most of our fathers do-they do not regard women as anything@all,some in a subliminal way start pimping their girls off so they are maltreated. Now this girl grows up with that mind setting in life so it seems they are troublesome or a menace to society.

Seriously-hope for daughters and bring them up d WAY she won't b a menace and u will see a change @least.
If u can do that and another guy does and another-there will b a change.

@ekt_bear 2. If you are a woman and into math and science, you'll find that these fields are dominated by men.

I don't understand this point! Like how does it concern d issue?


Anyway I think u should also wish 4 daughters,am an only girl and my father saw/brought me up like one of d boys! He trained me in a way that I never put him or my family in any trouble! I feel that even though we all eventually do what we want,but there are some times where ur home training affects ur decisions. My dad made me know I could achieve even more than my brothers,I should never depend on anyone 4 my upkeep and all that,he NEVER looked down on me. This is one thing that most of our fathers do-they do not regard women as anything@all,some in a subliminal way start pimping their girls off so they are maltreated. Now this girl grows up with that mind setting in life so it seems they are troublesome or a menace to society.

Seriously-hope for daughters and bring them up d WAY she won't b a menace and u will see a change @least.
If u can do that and another guy does and another-there will b a change.

interesting topic..

swtdarling: interesting topic..

How interesting?

Waitin 4 someone else to open a thread askin us wat it feel lyk to be a man

tobechi20: Waitin 4 someone else to open a thread askin us wat it feel lyk to be a man

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