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Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by adabeke12(f): 12:04am On Sep 25, 2012 |
tpacalipse: I think you should marry her. The Nigerian ladies you are even talking about; you will be sorry if you married any one of them. The good ones do not exist any more and if they do, they are too few. They are greedy as hell. Do you think any Naija lady can help you like that Africa-American angel? Hell no. About divorce, Naija should have the highest rate in the world if we had a proper documentation. The only difference is that in Naija, you ain't paying no shiiit to any woman if she decides to leave you. I will stick to a woman who helped me even if I am not shure of tomorrow. A world is enough for the wise. Naija babe is no go area. Be wise or you will be sorry. um sir, u can make a statement without having to insult Nigerian women. Have u met them all? plz stop generalizing. the same can be said for Nigerian men |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by tellwsdom: 12:15am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: Shattap, urs is a crap. if only ur married ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by MrsChima(f): 1:15am On Sep 25, 2012 |
tellwsdom: And you are not really a male...tranny. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Genius100: 1:41am On Sep 25, 2012 |
BobDon: Hello Nairalanders, Dude, listen, a good woman is VERY HARD to find. You must not be talking to your Nigerian friends as to what they are going through with their Nigerian spouses. Yes, the divorce rate in the USA is 50% and it is less in Nigeria, but it is only less because it is less acceptable in the Nigerian society. Married people in Nigeria are probably not any happier than their American counterparts. Ol boy, if you end up with the wrong woman, you will fast become a proponent of divorce. Talking about Nigeria, what makes you think a Nigerian woman living in the USA will just agree to relocate to Nigeria like that? You better talk to your Nigerian friends... They are very many Nigerian women that will not relocate back to Nigeria under any circumstance. What you need to do is ensure that your woman is reasonable and listens to you.. Then you won't have a problem convincing her of any meritable idea. If your current girlfriend makes you profoundly unhappy, then break up with her; but if you just want to break up with her simply because you want a Nigerian woman, you will probably regret it in the long run.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Metalgoong(m): 1:53am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Genius100: You are even generous with the above bolded statement. 99.9% of Nigerian girls in America are not planning to return back to Nigeria with any man. Even the ones living in Nigeria are looking for ways to run out of Nigeria . .lol. @OP You will make a terrible mistake by dumping the black American girl for a Nigerian girl. ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by coolzeal(m): 4:01am On Sep 25, 2012 |
What more can i say. If a woman can stand, support and stay with me through my hardship then what am i looking for in a woman. You know how rare and difficult it is to find a diamond, you have one and you want to throw it away. Think twice man.. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by dayokanu(m): 4:20am On Sep 25, 2012 |
I wonder where people get this romantic ideas that Nigerian girls are better than other Nationalities. OP enter Lagos and see wetin small girls dey do for town Thegirl you have right now even if she is Purple American or Mongolian-American, You better stick to her |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by StellaBella(f): 4:25am On Sep 25, 2012 |
You have found a good woman marry her. I know of a relative who made the mistake of leaving his American for a Nigerian His life is a living hell Jail today, police tommorrow, fighting Please my dear marry her. She will learn your culture trust me. Cheers. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Idowuogbo(f): 4:47am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Hmmmm.... Dis guy wan carry High blood pressure o! Dude,u can't have it all. Tell me wot good will come to a fellow dat left a lady dat gave all to make him comfortable? U pay good wiv good not evil. Trust me! If u Liv dat lady for d so called ngbatic u aiming for, u'll hug a moving train if dat lady dumps ya azz. Don't b greedy! D devil u no is better dan d.... Fill in d gaps! Goodluck! |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by adabeke12(f): 6:07am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Metalgoong: the comment u made is very sad. Nigerian men r more than ready to insult,deny and disown their women. Ur generalization makes u sound Unintelligent. Mschewww |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Metalgoong(m): 6:51am On Sep 25, 2012 |
adabeke12: You are not only unintelligent, but also a dolt. . . I guess you were expecting me to start heaping undeserved praises on Nigeria girls . . I gave a brother an honest advice, and also a personal opinion of mine. If that didn't suit you, you should have ignored my post like others before you. As I said earlier, there is no difference between you Nigeria girls and black American girls. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by tellwsdom: 7:03am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: Mshew chima, i wld be in L.A soon, come and see me, so that we can ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by SAFO(m): 7:19am On Sep 25, 2012 |
No, don't marry her. Go and marry the woman your mother has handpicked for you. Maybe she can even pick out your underwears and clothes for the wedding. Or here's one, maybe you can ....... Ummm be a man and make your own decisions? |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by DExplorer1: 7:32am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Hmmmm.... Dis guy wan carry High blood pressure o! Dude,u can't have it all. Tell me wot good will come to a fellow dat left a lady dat gave all to make him comfortable? U pay good wiv good not evil. Trust me! If u Liv dat lady for d so called ngbatic u aiming for, u'll hug a moving train if dat lady dumps ya azz. Don't b greedy! D devil u no is better dan d.... Fill in d gaps! Goodluck! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:34am On Sep 25, 2012 |
D-Explorer:Wetin? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by pedestal82(m): 7:48am On Sep 25, 2012 |
@OP, u want to dump her, after all she has done for u ?, And also, after fact that deep down u knw she is Good person ? Mark my words 2day, if u go ahead and dump that lady, the facts As stated above, will bring Karma to ur door step, which means U will end up with VERY WRONG, woman. The Nigerian ladys over there From what I gather are not any better, karma will make sure u Don't find the good one among them. And back home, we are finding It difficult to Differentiate the good ones from, the Runs babes, Not to talk of u that will get one either by recomendation, or Meeting her for just few weeks. And I trust Karma to push u to The wrongest one. And btw, Marraige is a risk that we must all take So pls, decide based on the fact, u get on this thread. And if na Fear of child support/ Alimony they catch u, u already said u will Love to return home one day, so if it happens (God forbid). Just Pack ur kaya, come back Naija, make I see how them go take dey come Collect am. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by sassyangel1(f): 7:49am On Sep 25, 2012 |
seriously,some dudes dont knw d treasure dey gat till dey loose it....u berra marry d woman cos she's a treasure.what makes u feel or think naija ladies r better than AA ladies? (Hisses......) dis is 1 of d reasons i advise ladies nt 2 sacrifice much 4 boyfriends cos who knows dey'll jst vamoose wen d journey gets sweet....keep d sacrifice 4 husbands. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by DExplorer1: 8:46am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:You gave advise like say you be better person ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:38am On Sep 25, 2012 |
Mister, you've a treasure and you wanna throw it away because of statistics and experiences of family relations? Life is a risk; no one knows tomorrow. We are only trying to make the best use of what we have. This babe STOOD by you when you had nothing; when you were at your lowest points; when you once lived in a roach infested room. She didn't care if you had money or not; she was just happy being by your side. What more can a woman do that she hasn't done for you? You said she is a good woman, what else again? Can I ask you something? When you both had issue/disagreement, how did she react? If her expression and action is okay with you, come on what else again? As per your family talking about your relationship, didn't they know that it was this babe helped you with your papers? I discussed your case with my mom and she said the lady is your helper. That you shouldn't leave her and if you do after all she has helped you with, karma will visit you in your own coin. She said you should change your mindset and tell yourself that this marriage must and will work. It didn't work for other doesn't mean same will happen to you. It's all in the mind; if you strongly decides that this relationship must work, then it must work. Let to profess positive things to your life; do away with the negativity around you regarding union between NGA and AA. Browse and get stories of those in your position whose marriage is still standing and going strong. Since she is willing to leave her family, friend, country and everything and follow you to Nigeria, what more do you want? Remove divorce from your mind; I think you need to do mind exercise to instill positivity into it. She doesn't believe in divorce, so you're both game. Also, hasn't it ever occurred to you that her family and friends also discouraged her from being in a relationship with you because of immigration papers? Didn't you think that for a second? I want to assume she was warned but she didn't listen because she saw you as being different. If you end your relationship with her, you will make her folks have more mouth to say: didn't we tell you? You will also be adding to the statistics of the Nigerian men who are known to befriend AA ladies for papers only. Lastly, seek the face of God. Let him direct your path into marital institution. Be positive; as our faces are different, so are our lives and life path. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:40am On Sep 25, 2012 |
It was all for the green card. . . Imagine, he married her secretly. |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by DExplorer1: 11:43am On Sep 25, 2012 |
ferhyntorlah: Mister, you've a treasure and you wanna throw it away because of statistics and experiences of family relations?Do you by chance know a dude called Dailynews? |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:56am On Sep 25, 2012 |
D-Explorer: Only on Nairaland. Why if I may ask? |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Idowuogbo(f): 12:07pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
D-Explorer:D unpredictable badosky bebe! ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by DExplorer1: 12:14pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
ferhyntorlah:You both would make a good couple. Pardon me if you're married ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by DExplorer1: 12:15pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Baby, we get talk o! ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Idowuogbo(f): 12:41pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
D-Explorer:Fire me mail na! |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by ferhyntorlah(f): 1:33pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
D-Explorer: Why did you say that? Any similarity? |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
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Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by DExplorer1: 1:46pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
ferhyntorlah:Oh yeah!! Infact similarities because you both think alike, type alike, post alike etc. ![]() |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by DExplorer1: 1:47pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Sending... |
Re: Should I Marry My African American Girlfriend? by MrsChima(f): 2:34pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
SAFO: No, don't marry her. Go and marry the woman your mother has handpicked for you. Maybe she can even pick out your underwears and clothes for the wedding. [size=22pt]SAFO!! [/size] ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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