I am in gruesome pain,dejected and almost out of the world my girlfriend that i love with all my heart has sharttered my heart to pieces, i caught her in rumble with another man in my own bed,i still love her what do i do.

There are a lot of questions to ask yourself and her.

Ask yourself;
1. can i look beyond what she did
2. can i see myself with her forever
3. is she worth the work and pain

Ask her;
1. do you want to be with me
2. what made you go to someone else
3. do you love me

After going through these questions and getting answers then pray and ask God for guidance, i have been through the same thing and i know its hard. people go outside for different reasons, im pretty sure you will be surprised the response you will get from her as to why she did. Just be honest with yourself in whatever you do. Also its one thing to make a mistake its another to keep making the same mistake. If she keeps making the same mistake at some point you will have to let her go. Also if you just let it pass without making much of it she will feel like she can do it again and you will forgive her again so make sure that you let her know how you feel.

At the end of the day just be true to yourself if you can stay with her or not.

Thank you so much i don land for your candid advice,i will surely apply your method God bless you,you are a true nairalander.

Thank you so much i don land i will surely apply your method thanks for the candid advice and God bless you,you are a true nairalander.

maybe he was in a similar situation

@i-don -land. Wetin you mean by that.
mo gbe.

ogunsteedo:

Thank you so much i don land for your candid advice,i will surely apply your method God bless you,you are a true nairalander.

what i meant is that maybe he isin a similar situation as you are.

@i don land
which situation are you talking about
abi you wan add salt upon injury
simplifying your statement

Forget the girl, If she can cheat on you she will always do it again
Move on and find someone better