ogugua88:

Smh. Tell them nne. We're all human. What separates humans from animals is self-control. The villagers here are stating that men have no control but they want to be called humans. You can't have your cake and eat it too o lmao.

Hell some dogs have self control.

shymexx:

I don't know Asians born in Asia, but I know Asians born in the UK and they don't really beat their kids the same way African parents beat the shyte out of us... Even Jamaicans are not left out of the equation...

My pops used to beat me so bad that I fvcked out of the house before I turned 17 - that was how bad it was...

If u were my son, I would hv beaten the hell outta u too. Especially with the silly, sick mentality u hv been displaying on this thread

Mynd_44:
Hell some dogs have self control.

LMAO!!

omosexy1: @abiF Im getting tired replying this thread. I don't justify cheating, it is emotionally painful. I will suggest you hang out more with male folks (single and married). This will assist you to understand why men cheat. Some don't like it, they regret almost immediately, reasons might be peer pressure, ego, domestic frustration e.t.c It is better you know so that you can control. I don't think you giving terms to your man will solve any issue. Its the same thing as telling your dog that - you see that bone next door, if you go and eat it, no more bone for you.

I have done my research on why men cheat, and the majority of them said they cheat because they had an Opportunity to. Some said they were unhappy in their present relationship but didn't want to upset their partner by breaking up with her, so they felt cheating was the right thing to do (the could have their cake and eat it too).

&& before you start saying my research only applies to white people, it was conducted on male populations from Africa, Caribbean, Asia and Europe. Sample size was N=340...

... Oh and most of them did not regret it even though they reported that they lied to their girlfriends and wives that they felt regretted cheating on them. And yeah most participants did say if they had an opportunity to cheat again, that they will.

This ain't one of Shymexx' made up stats, the research was conducted when I was in my 2nd year of university. Studied psychology. Still practice psychology.

If you want the report, I'll email it to you when I get home so you can have a read yourself.


So the bulls[i]t you said about "some don't like it" is bulls[h]it! Because no one had a gun to their head and forced them to cheat. If you don't like it, resist from doing it.

ogugua88:
Culture is what makes a group of people who and/or what they are. Food, music, religion, past-times, arts, etc. Values = principles, character. Religion is a part of Nigerian culture. Our own is considered super religion now. I don't partake in it because I disagree with deception and robbing the poor and desperate.

That's an opinion. I don't let culture shape me. I take what I can from it. Because culture is present doesn't mean it's right, and it certainly doesn't mean I should partake in it. Drinking is part of the American culture, especially with young adults. I don't drink. I don't see the need to get drunk every weekend. The bottom line is that people have a choice. Don't blame culture. Don't blame genes. Don't blame weakness. Everyone has a choice. Whether one makes a choice or decides not to is up to them.

Culture determines values - how you talk to your elders, mentality, what's acceptable in the society etc.. it governs you subconsciously... That's why you know certain things are African, or foreign to the culture...

However, when you make a choice, you have to do it in the context of the society you're from - so as not to alienate yourself from everyone...

ogugua88:

Smh. Tell them nne. We're all human. What separates humans from animals is self-control and rational decision making. The villagers here are stating that men have no control but they want to be called humans. You can't have your cake and eat it too o lmao.

Help me tell them oooo. Ogugua d society has taught them that though. The females are brought up to see cheating as a serious NO-NO but excuses hv always been made for the guys. The mentality is passed on to their offsprings and d discriminating vicious cycle goes on and on.

Shollypopz:

If u were my son, I would hv beaten the hell outta u too. Especially with the silly, sick mentality u hv been displaying on this thread

I've got a liberal and universal mentality, however, I just think my strong black queen are losing it... We can't lose you lot to the so-called "modern" ideology that has failed in the societies where they originated from...

We as Africans are confused enough, we don't need more confusing... Heck, that's more reason why we need to go back to our roots - and let our culture guide us, with a little bit transformation to suit the temperament of the modern world...

I was lost and confused before, however, I had to find myself by going back to my roots and embracing the great parts of my African-ness...

Mynd_44:
You have been reading to much political history and less geography. How do you define continents? By the people who live there or by the continental plates the entire continent is on?
Stop acting like this, its embarrassing

What do you know about geography??

Middle-East has always been part of Africa, go check the old maps... The British created the so-called modern day "Middle-East" in the 19th century...

If we were to go by your assertion, then Iran should be in Europe(because it's surrounded by European countries) - and Russia should be in Asia, no??

By why do women cheat when you have got dil.do of different sizes?

Heck, you can buy a dil.do 12inches long if they like it big and thick...

I don't even know where this convo is leading to anymore lol.

But yeah Shymexx stop trying to justify men cheating. Women can also cheat, but most of us don't see the need to.

With all your male anatomy talk, your male anatomy will be useless if there was no "hole" to insert it into.

abiL: I don't even know where this convo is leading to anymore lol.

But yeah Shymexx stop trying to justify men cheating. Women can also cheat, but most of us don't see the need to.

With all your male anatomy talk, your male anatomy will be useless if there was no "hole" to insert it into.

From a male point-of-view, it's more than the hole, it's more about the whole package... The front, back, and every other thing to hold on to..

Women need to start thinking about pride... pride..... pride

shymexx:

What do you know about geography??

Middle-East has always been part of Africa, go check the old maps... The British created the so-called modern day "Middle-East" in the 19th century...

If we were to go by your assertion, then Iran should be in Europe(because it's surrounded by European countries) - and Russia should be in Asia, no??

Did you just type that poo? Go study the continental plates of Africa and Asia and then come back to tell me the middle east is/was a part Africa at one time. Have you noticed how south America fits perfectly into Africa? Its called continental shit caused cos all the plates move and those of Africa and south America has been drifting apart. Go look at the maps of the Sinai peninsula and come back.
Why do you think Everest is the highest tip? That's just cos India keeps pushing against larger Asia and that causes the whole place to shift upwards which gives birth to the himalayas.
If you don't know this, just Say so and stop talking crap. Middle east is part of Asia my back side
very soon he will say Hawaii has the same continental plates as America cos they are close to each other

shymexx: By why do women cheat when you have got Love Machine of different sizes?

Heck, you can buy a Love Machine 12inches long if they like it big and thick...

Why do men cheat when they have two fully functioning hands?

Heck don't they sell blow up dolls?

Mynd_44:
Did you just type that poor? Go study the continental plates of Africa and Asia and then come back to tell me the middle east is/was a part Africa at one time. Have you noticed how south America fits perfectly into Africa? Its called continental shit caused cos all the plates move and those of Africa and south America has been drifting apart. Go look at the maps of the Sinai peninsula and come back.
Why do you think Everest is the highest tip? That's just cos India keeps pushing against larger Asia and that causes the whole place to shift upwards which gives birth to the himalayas.
If you don't know this, just Saul so and stop talking crap. Middle east is part of Asia my back side
very soon he will say Hawaii has the same continental plates as America cos they are close to each other

Utter tosh - go take a nap!!

Don't derail the thread...

abiL:


Why do men cheat when they have two fully functioning hands?

Heck don't they sell blow up dolls?

That's just nasty.

shymexx:

I've got a liberal and universal mentality, however, I just think my strong black queen are losing it... We can't lose you lot to the so-called "modern" ideology that has failed in the societies where they originated from...

We as Africans are confused enough, we don't need more confusing... Heck, that's more reason why we need to go back to our roots - and let our culture guide us, with a little bit transformation to suit the temperament of the modern world...

I was lost and confused before, however, I had to find myself by going back to my roots and embracing the great parts of my African-ness...

May female circumcision, killing of twins, lynching, ironing of breasts, marrying off little kids to old men, subjecting a widow

to suffering and torturing to prove she mourns the death of her husband and wasn't the cause of his death, sexism and lynching guide us!!

abiL:
Why do men cheat when they have two fully functioning hands?

Heck don't they sell blow up dolls?

Hand?? That's gay!

There's nothing better than watching round and firm ti.ts in your face - and a massive batty bouncing like it has got hydraulics on it...

shymexx:

Utter tosh - go take a nap!!

Don't derail the thread...

abi you go back to school and stop limiting yourself to wikipedia.
You started this poo about middle east being in Africa nah I was just helping you backside out so you don't embarrass yourself outside

Minus their hands abil, they have Fleshlights. Just as the advert said; "It's like the real thing!"

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My brothershymmm yell them oooo they r blind..women and men aint equal..we r different what goes for u doesntnecessay go for us.thanks

Shollypopz:
May female circumcision, killing of twins, lynching, ironing of breasts, marrying off little kids to old men, subjecting a widow

to suffering and torturing to prove she mourns the death of her husband and wasn't the cause of his death, sexism and lynching guide us!!

Stop citing stone age practices to buttress your point... The people who preach "liberalism/westernism" today also engaged in barbaric acts back then...

Let me cite some examples:
- They never used to shower.
- Women were regarded as sex slaves.
- Crusaders killed millions of unbelievers.
- Dehumanisation of people through slavery.
- Alpha males used to have se.x with young boys as a source of strength(ask Alexander the Great and all the Greek and Roman philosophers).
- They don't even circumcise their men till this day..

I could go on and on... However, didn't they evolve

shymexx:

From a male point-of-view, it's more than the hole, it's more about the whole package... The front, back, and every other thing to hold on to..

Women need to start thinking about pride... pride..... pride

We do think about our pride that's why less women engage in cheating.

You men should start thinking before you engage in f[o]olish behaviours. Then maybe, just maybe we won't have to educate men on how wrong cheating is.

CAMEROONPRIDE: My brothershymmm yell them oooo they r blind..women and men aint equal..we r different what goes for u doesntnecessay go for us.thanks

Cheating men and men who condone it should have their own classification then. You cheat on a woman, you blame it on culture or genetics, and you still want to be considered a rational human being? It doesn't work that way.

The only people that make excuses for the errors are failures. Open up to your mistakes and don't repeat it. Want to blame genetics and predisposition? Be my guest. Just don't cry foul when I see you as less than a man.

Shollypopz:

May female circumcision, killing of twins, lynching, ironing of breasts, marrying off little kids to old men, subjecting a widow

to suffering and torturing to prove she mourns the death of her husband and wasn't the cause of his death, sexism and lynching guide us!!

g the funny thing is most of what u listed are done my women themselves
...

CAMEROONPRIDE: My brothershymmm yell them oooo they r blind..women and men aint equal..we r different what goes for u doesntnecessay go for us.thanks

Slap yourself. Hard!!!!!

Mynd_44:
abi you go back to school and stop limiting yourself to wikipedia.
You started this poo about middle east being in Africa nah I was just helping you backside out so you don't embarrass yourself outside

Wikipedia? Bwahahahaha

Fam, you're going against someone beyond your wavelength...

Create a topic in the culture section and I'll show you the old map...

Middle-East used to be part of Africa... And Arabs aren't Asians, they're mixed race!!

CAMEROONPRIDE: My brothershymmm yell them oooo they r blind..women and men aint equal..we r different what goes for u doesntnecessay go for us.thanks

I'm not arguing that men and women are equal. Both are different, hence the differences in our biological construct.

However, just because both genders are different, don't mean males should be applauded for cheating whilst women gets condemned.

What is wrong is wrong. Cheating is wrong. End of.

abiL:
We do think about our pride that's why less women engage in cheating.

You men should start thinking before you engage in f[o]olish behaviours. Then maybe, just maybe we won't have to educate men on how wrong cheating is.

To be honest, most men don't cheat, only guys who have women flocking after them because of material things...

Maybe, women should start using their brain cells when seeking partners, and not things they would benefit from their partners...

You can't eat your cake and have it...

Shollypopz: Help me tell them oooo. Ogugua d society has taught them that though. The females are brought up to see cheating as a serious NO-NO but excuses hv always been made for the guys. The mentality is passed on to their offsprings and d discriminating vicious cycle goes on and on.

What's mind-boggling and the worst is that both men and women know it's wrong but they choose to accept it. Society doesn't change by itself. If we want it to be different, then we have to change our mind sets and behaviors.

shymexx:

Stop citing stone age practices to buttress your point... The people who preach "liberalism/westernism" today also engaged in barbaric acts back then...

Let me cite some examples:
- They never used to shower.
- Women were regarded as sex slaves.
- Crusaders killed millions of unbelievers.
- Dehumanisation of people through slavery.
- Alpha males used to have se.x with young boys as a source of strength(ask Alexander the Great and all the Greek and Roman philosophers).
- They don't even circumcise their men till this day..

I could go on and on... However, didn't they evolve

What is stone age to you dummy. Are u choosing to be ignorant or just ignorant??

Even if u don't watch Nigerian news, don't u see lil of these things on NL??

All I'm saying is the African culture should evolve to include gender equality!! (socially, economically and politically)

Naija till I die!

shymexx:

To be honest, most men don't cheat, only guys who have women flocking after them because of material things...

Maybe, women should start using their brain cells when seeking partners, and not things they would benefit from their partners...

You can't eat your cake and have it...

Nope! Cheating is just not exclusive for people who have women flocking after them. Even the broke-a.s.s-ugly-niggas still actively look for girls to cheat with.

Just go out clubbing in London, you'll see men in relationships denying their partners just to get a sh[a]g.