ogugua88: Funnily enough, there are similarities between Kim Kardashian and Mitt Romney. It's not how rich you are; it's how you got rich. That's the American way. If you earned it in a fair manner, then no one would sense would be against you. Kim Kardashian's video literally opened doors for her. Mitt Romney is despised because he made millions by outsourcing jobs to China, aka, on the backs of Americans. Trust me, if Kim Kardashian was a talented actress or singer, no one would care. She would only have that group of people who can't stand her for their own personal reasons. Compare Kim Kardashian's life prior to the tape, to what it is now. Without that tape, you would still be irrelevant like the rest of those wannabes who try to make it by being a celebrity's personal assistant. Anyone can make a tape. Not everyone can make a tape and then go on to become a multimillionaire BRAND.

vivian chinaza: @Ogugua; oh God! You don't just get it do you! All woman are like that! Sex means something to us! Now when a woman is emotional unstable she tends to think so! A woman cannot keep having casual sex with a man and control her emotions but a man can!

A man can dislike you but still sleep with you all the time, a woman on the other hand cannot (even if you pay her)!

Mynd_44:
Yeah right. I can't stand cheats. The idea is just aaarrrrgghhh.
This ain't about the debate oo.

vivian chinaza:

Baby girl, all women are like that! Unless she is emotionally unstable! Maybe she is mad at the moment. S3x means something to women!

I don't really follow sex and the city but I follow desperate wives............Gabrila cheated on her husband and developed feelings for the guy. Tom Scavo cheated, had a daughter, no feelings........Bree cheated with the intention of not falling for karl and ended up felling for him.

In one tree hill, Broke Davies slept around, but she called herself a mess.

My dear, sex will always mean something to a woman, we tell ourselves that to console ourselves.

Shollypopz:
Oh!! You obviously think we are still talking about what the op siad. We don leave that one tey, tey.

The issue on ground is the same standard should be demanded from both male and female "cheaters". And no one gender should be giving an escape route or an excuse for cheating. That is, a man "cheater" is no way better than a female cheater and vice-versa.

Slave mentality refers to institutionalized or systemic feelings of inferiority within some societies or peoples who have been subjected to any form of oppression, discrimination relative to the values of the oppressor who has subjected them to oppression. Basically saying accepting the culture or doctrines of the oppressor as intrinsically more superior.

In my own words, it's an emotional mind-set of some people embedded generation after generation to see themselves an inferior. The oppressors in this sense, would be bigots, cultures and societies that upholds gender inequality.

vivian chinaza: Ogugua; What I want to tell you is this, no woman will constantly sleep with a man and not get anything attached! We just tell ourselves that to make us feel better which is a huge lie! Both white and Black, Red and Yellow!

Babe, my phone battery is down. Will get back to you later.

ogugua88: ^^ Again, life is what you make of it. If you wish to impregnate a woman and leave her with the responsibility, you will deal with the consequences if/when the time comes. Hope say you get odeshi.

Shollypopz: Ogugua do u watch love and hip-hop?? This girl just reminds me Jacqueline K and Mimi's mentality. The relationship they both have with Stevie J and how he treats them because "men are men" .

I dey laugh my a*ss out!!

Goldieluks:



Na me una dey discuss about abi, Mynd no let me throw you stone oh.


Ok back to the topic at hand.
Sholly one thing you have ruled out totally is the fact that, most women in Nigeria,
if not all of them are caught up in this 'slave mentality' although how harsh that might sound,i think
it has always been the norms and values of our dearest country Nigeria.
A cheating man is accepted, but a cheating woman is highly rejected and frowned upon.
Men are polygamous in nature, yes, but that is not a criteria to cheating/serial cheating. However,
it is left for the woman in question, to either bear with his cheating ways or call it a quit. Its as
simple as that.

ogugua88:

Nne, it's no different than those siddown dey look people who have accepted poor living standards because "This is Naija". If you tolerate nonsense, then nonsense go dey flow like oil.

190-the-clown:
Yawns and strolls in

Sees shollypopz

Wait - is it me or did sholly just go about running her mouth on dis thread


Shollypopz - woman go to-the-kitchen immediately

Shollypopz:

lol 190, are u done vacuuming?? When u're done, go to the kitchen and make me some Nigerian food

Konnektions146: ^^^
lol

Shollypopz: Majority of my posts were hidden, all thanks to mod killz

Let me tell u about the slave-like mentality I'm telling vivian she has: This is not d first time she has inferred women as inferior to men. She did that on one other thread and I saw Rockstation trying to educate her, but she remains adamant. Now, I fully understand that it's hard to break free from a slave mentality. Why?? because if u've always seen urself as a slave, it then defines who u are as a woman. She knows no other truth than the one the men domineering environment she grew up in has taught her.

For example look @ d African Americans in the US, they were free from slavery, lets say 1862(because some ppl argue this date). When Abraham Lincoln first abolished slavery after the civil war, there were many blacks that refused to stop working for their masters. My ppl they chose to remain slaves!! U know why?? They prolly thought to themselves, if I'm not a slave, then who am I??

This girl's mentality is a result of d sick society or environment she grew up in. She does not know that she deserves better. Vivian let me tell you in case no one has ever told u this- U can rub shoulders with men, u have the right to demand faithfulness from your partner, u are not intellectually different from any man, humility does not require you to act like slave to anybody!

ogugua88:

Not all women are like this. Because women are known as the emotional species doesn't mean that all of them cling to everything and everyone. By the way, not all men are like that either. Just as people think all women care, some don't. Just as people think all men don't care, some do.

You don't sound like someone who knows how 70% of abroad works o. Have you not seen or heard of "Sex & the City"? "Desperate Housewives"? "The Bachelorette"? Why were these shows/movies so popular? They spoke to women. Those who wanted to experience that life, and those who saw their lives being portrayed on screens. You would be surprised at how some women go through men like Kleenex.

omosexy1:

You are unbelievably. You have a right to demand faithfulness from your partner . You must be typing from mars. How old are you?

shymexx: So, this topic is still alive?

Ogugua88, I'm coming for your neck when I get home...


Shymexx = feminist killer!!

Mynd_44:
This ain't about feminism, its about some silly mentality and some crazy statistics "70% abroad"

Shollypopz: Ode ni Shymmex, ko ni opolo ra-ra

Shollypopz: Ode ni Shymmex, ko ni opolo ra-ra

Mynd_44:
https://www.nairaland.com/1079161/way-forward-me-marriage-lies#1079161.26
Thank me later sholly

shymexx:

I know the first part means fool, can someone translate the second part for me?

você é um idiota. i vai bater o seu rosto e seu absurdo feminista off africa

shymexx:

An isolated case.

Are you gay?

omosexy1: Stop quoting soap operas produced and sponsored by men to change the innate psyche of women and stick to reality.