think 9 months is still early, watch ur back

Nna, are u okay? U sound as if u are demented.Many pple are looking for a relationship like that and you are wishing to have a cat and dog relatnship. Ok, very soon, u will be suprise wat u will see.Your girlfrnd is not a fool u know.She is only trying to do her best,but if u succed in pushing her hard against the wall,u will be suprised the way it will turn out and then "had i known" will become ur national anthem.Be careful and desist from wat u want to do now b4 it is too late.

your girlfriend is the stereotypical "submissive" perfect girl. If you are the typical naija man, u shld be happy. or am I guessing wrong?

oyinda.:

your girlfriend is the stereotypical "submissive" perfect girl. If you are the typical naija man, u shld be happy. or am I guessing wrong?

you are also stereotypical. not all naija men are like that. anupam

I am definitely not stereotypical
anupam. is that not an indian name?

lol .

oyinda.:

your girlfriend is the stereotypical "submissive" perfect girl. If you are the typical naija man, u shld be happy. or am I guessing wrong?

u hv spoken ryt my love, the poster don craze

@Poster, I understand where you are coming from. If a relationship is too perfect,it would seem too good to be true and not real. Imagine me being wrong and my man would tell me I'm right, c'mon. Another thing, I even tell my brother is to be very careful, some women especially just to get hooked appear too good to be true, always at your beck and call but once hooked, it's possible to see a monster and could give you hell.

Nevertheless, it might be her true character who doesn't want someone with a good character and those qualities even if they appear too good to be true.

honest answer is to break up if you cant sort it out.waaaaaaaaaaat!!!. Aint possible 4 u not to disagree over something.
hey bro,she sees you as an idol,seems she is scared of loosing you so she has to dance to your tune all the tym.

Can you pls discribe the lady in question for us to advice you very well? You know atimes if you are finer than your woman she tries all she can to see that you dont quarrel, her fears would be you might leave her.

I don’t believe a relationship will go that far and there wouldn’t be any quarrel, is too good to be true, boy, you need to watch your back, I think she is pretending and such girl cant correct you even when you are going astray. I can’t advice my brother to go for such girl
She is only trying to get you hooked, probably after marriage you go hear wehhhn.

popegirl:

I don’t believe a relationship will go that far and there wouldn’t be any quarrel, is too good to be true, boy, you need to watch your back, I think she is pretending and such girl cant correct you even when you are going astray. I can’t advice my brother to go for such girl
She is only trying to get you hooked, probably after marriage you go hear wehhhn.

you may be sincerely wrong. some people dont do drama and fight over irrelevant things.

i know it is hard to accept people like that but i find they are life's greatest people. we have stayed too much with argumentative people we are almost beginning to believe quiet people are threasherous people.
may God help us

ummmmm

interesting relationship,

she might just b scared of losing u, talk to her, let her know u love her and want her to b free wit u,
i think 9 months is enuf for a babe to see somthing to disagree abt, or at least something to b vocal abt,

while i dont enjoy argumentative rlnships but i'm sure i wont enjoy such as d one u r in now, we gotta talk,

as for me, wen i used to date, my principle was to find out wat a guy,no matter how quiet he seems, wld do in his worst mood, wen provoked, i carefully push and push and push till he explodes and i just atsnd aside and raise my brows

she may be an actress.

i think so too

guy can u hear ur self? do u know what u sound like? u sound like a beze!!!!
u have a girl who respects u, who is summisive 2 u, instead of being proud & gr8ful 2 God 4 givin her 2 u, u open ur mouth wide open & say rubish,
just pray 2 God that u don't loose her, then u will know her worth,

u MUST be insane! i hav no doubt in my mind. do u know

how it feels like when u and u'r girlfriend r always

fighting and arguing? break up with her and date a

quarrellsome b***ch then u will value what u hav now

but it will be too late for ur sorry stupid ass!

9months is too long not to have quarelled, dis is it, u must do d anger thing urself, get her really angry, get cruel, shout at her, treat her like shit, just do different things that would make angry, forget things u promise her, promise her to take her somewhere , let her get ready and never show up, i bet all this options u help u see her and if she still very calm pls run for your life, she,s deadly.

Sometimes I think i have to pinch myself to wake up. When did people start complaining about a "good" relationship? A saying goes " show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are". That's why there are friends and family. If you've been in a serious relationship for 9 months, then I would expect that you know her friends and family. Her friends might cover for her, but you can learn a lot about an individual by their relationships with their families

It's entirely possible that she might be an explosion ready to go off, but it's also entirely possible that she might just be the real deal. The problem is that you are the only one who can be sure of that because you are definitely a lot closer to her than any of us "advisors". Do yourself a favor, go to God in prayer and try to enjoy your relationship. I can't believe you're picking fights with her. What if you're wrong? Most people would give an arm and a leg to have what you have. Hope you make the right decision.

Give her little more time, something must be hidden because nothing can be perfect when it comes to relationship but if you think everything can be perfect but you will have to realise later after she has baby for you. she will still show her true color, take time to study her

and secondly, she must maybe afraid of lossing you but when she has you finally to herself, then the perfectly will gone out of the relationship, she can still 90 % of what she was up to before but not 100% of the same character like the first time.Abi I dey right?

Nigga, u need to be put in a straigtjacket! Dont worry, when ur married, u willl beg to have this kind of woman!

luv is not perfect i will advice u to be paitttttttttt and tre to fult her






Mistakes women make in bed #1
You stay quiet
If he goes down on you and hits the perfect spot, the spot that makes you feel like a rush of liquid is going to flow from your body, and then, suddenly, he changes his route, it may be your fault.

If you don’t make a sound when you’re having sex, you’re not letting him know when he’s satisfying you, and you’re not helping his ego.

The next time he hits “that” spot, make sure to let out a great big “yes” and moan with delight. It will help you open up (in more ways than one) and it will give him the signal to continue on when he gets it right.


Mistakes women make in bed #2
You ignore his testicles
It’s funny that everywhere you look, men are being given advice about how women need to be aroused via pre-intimacy before they can go for the main event, but women are never told the same thing.

Well, it’s true; men want to be aroused as well. Don’t get me wrong; there are appropriate times when you can go straight for the kill, so to speak, but more often than not, a man wants you to titillate him via massages, body kisses and MouthAction.

And when you go down on him, don’t be afraid to massage his testicles with your hand and rub his anus with your finger. Explore his body and you’ll discover that there’s more to him than just a rod.


Mistakes women make in bed #3
You don’t initiate
In life, it’s accepted that men do the chasing and women do the rejecting, but once you’re actually in a sexual relationship, all of that should end. It’s a terrible blow to a man when he always has to make the move and, worse, risk your saying “no” some of the time.

To ensure that he feels desired, you need to come on to him, seduce him and even tease him. If you make him feel like a king in bed, he will make you feel like a queen all the time.


Mistakes women make in bed #4
You’re too insecure
You want the lights off, you have to be under the covers and you never want to take off your shirt. Yeah, that sounds like some really exciting sex.

If he’s with you, it’s because he likes you, so it’s time you got over your insecurities and gave in to your flaws. You can do so with baby steps by lighting candles (they provide incredible lighting). Then, when you’re comfortable with that, try doing it without the covers. And finally, get your hot ass on top of him and give him the ride of his life.


Mistakes women make in bed #5
You don’t clean beforehand
Even if you took a shower this morning, by evening time you’re not as fresh. Allowing him to go down on you at such a time is bad sexual etiquette.

Any time a man is about to go down on you, your vulva should be freshly cleansed so that all he smells are your natural aromas and all he tastes is peaches. If he has a bad experience going down there, it may spell the end of fantastic cunnilingus.

If you really want to make her angry. set her up. You can tell one of her friend or your female friend to send you a love text which you'll delibrate let her see it and see how she'll react,

Like you said, YOU ARE STUPID to even think about stopping the relationship.
Eni lori koni fila (person wey get head , no get cap. get cap, no get head) thats your problem.

nairobijoe:

Eni lori koni fila (person wey get , no get cap)

person wey get head,nor get cap

Just give her abig slap on her face and see the way she react on it EWU GOD BUTTER YOUR BREAD YOU WON TURN YOUR BACK AND LOOK FOR ALICE MY QUEEN

Pls find out 4rm her relative if dat is hw she behave naturally and better stil arrange a lady and plan as if u are dating her just to see her reaction.i pry u dnt end up marrying a snake.(AMEN)

chei, there is nothing one can do to please guys. my 2 kobo is be careful what you wish for, cos you might just get it. i wish you the best and apply wisdom so as not to regret your decisions.

This is just like the relationship i am currently in. my boyfriend and i have spent 10 months together, but i feel like the relationship is too perfect. we only 'play fight' about simple things nd have not had a real argument, my friends tell me a fight is bound to break out sooner or later, and im getting worried, any advice? I think if you dont even fight about simple things nd its totally robotic relationship, somethings up idk