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| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 16, 2012 |
tchidi: University Years they would be adults. I think i am confused about your post. not sure  It would still seem like Women are more Expensive to take care of Especially Black Women. lol Beauty Salon cost allot more than a 14$ trip to the Barber Shop. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 9:29am On Oct 16, 2012 |
Girls are difficult to raise......They are so gullible that they'll pack their luggage and travel miles to |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 9:35am On Oct 16, 2012 |
~Royal~: Quit being confused jare! And trust me, there are some really simple ladies out there who don't ask for much! Just as we have guys who r very extravagant! I've seen dem plenty! |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 9:38am On Oct 16, 2012 |
ekt_bear: It would not really bother me to be honest Lets be honest most male fathers have a problem with their daughters sleeping around with guys is because it's an Ego Thing They themselves want to be the Number 1 guy in their life...and always want that title of being the "only man" in her life Personally my daughter should be allowed to sleep with who she wants once she reaches the age of 14-15.... I would just teach her how to make good decisions, and tell her where her life could turn wrong and it could become bad As far as "owning" my own daughters Vajina...nah i don't believe in that She can sleep with who she pleases Her reputation is something i will teach her she should be concerned with. At the same time personal enjoyment, quality living and a happy Positive Life is more Important than immature social taboos such as reputation. Her sitting in the house lonely, aging, growing old and bitter and having health problems from "Lack of Living" is not a Positive Either.... It all Depends on the Father's Ego. What is most important though is "her" Life. Just because i give her the "freedom" does not automatically mean she will be a H03 The most restricted religious sheltered children, are usually the ones who rebel the loudest. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 16, 2012 |
*Kails*: In other words you are just scared of Raising a Girl that might end up like you oh ok i Understand lol |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Damon03(m): 9:50am On Oct 16, 2012 |
~Royal~:Tell me this is a joke, ego tin?? The only man in her life?? So ur mind will be at rest knowing that ur little teenage girl is being taken advantage of and she's sheepishly enjoying it?? Too bad |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by ChiSun27(m): 10:50am On Oct 16, 2012 |
quote author=ednut1]male all d way, wetin i wan use gal do, wastin my money on dem skul fees, beauty, and oda tins , and dem one otondo boy go come carry am away lmao[/quote] u no de kari oda ppl own? My frnd jst shut up...cus wat goz arnd...komz arnd. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 10:53am On Oct 16, 2012 |
...at the beginning, between the age ranges of 5 to 12, boys are more difficult, but as age runs to 15, 16, 20s, girls become so delicate to raise, and sometimes dangerous with today immoralities rampaging the society  |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 16, 2012 |
^^^ Who is still 'raising' a woman of 20  |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by sulex947(m): 11:19am On Oct 16, 2012 |
chucky234: I don't know why people complains and referred to a God's given gift as being difficult,both sexes are easy to raise once you understands the child.tanks bro u said it all, their character depends on our hands and also the kind of relatioship dat exist between d parents. If d husband nd wife display d love nd respect they have 4 one another, d children will grow up as an obedient nd caring children. 1 Like |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 11:26am On Oct 16, 2012 |
Ujujoan: ^^^ Who is still 'raising' a woman of 20 u keep raising a child even till marriage, ask...  |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by debrightchiadi: 11:35am On Oct 16, 2012 |
to me d male child is more diffcult while d female is more expensive |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by safarigirl(f): 11:40am On Oct 16, 2012 |
Disadvantages of Male Children 1. They can be stubborn @. Usually short-tempered 3. Raging hormones, they could knock up your neighbour's daughter, pastor's daughter... 4. Thirst for danger: They tend to drink and drive recklessly, you fear for their lives between the ages of 15-25, this is about the time they act carelessly. 5. They WILL challenge their fathers at some point in life, any guy that does not do this, could turn out to be g.ay. You can't have more than one Testosterone staying under the same roof in peace. Advantages 1. You get rid of them faster than the girls 2. They're usuallly in charge of their finances before girls 3. They're the ones that will take care of you in your old age 4. They will keep your lineage going 5. They help in heavy duty household chores. Female children. Disadvantages 1. Between the ages of 14-24, their needs double, you buy sanitary pad, make up, clothes, gadgets, pay for every hairstyle... 2. Failure to perform the functions above, and they WILL get it from other sources, trust me, girls will ALWAYS have an alternative, may not be necessarily right. 3. They bring in the surprises, i.e, daddy I'm preggy", "Daddy, I love the Gardener, and I want to marry him, else I'll kill myself" 4. As stated above, their hormones drive them into doing silly things for guys, sometimes as extreme as suicide. 5. They tend to explore their sexy sides when they're a bit too young, bringing in the wrong attention that could cause you heart attack. Advantages 1. They're generally better with their grades. 2. Depending on where you're from, bride price could make up for your heart ache 3. If you want to see grand kids before you die, they're the go-to, cos guys would rather marry late. 4. Fairer sex, means they are more caring. 5. Housework, cooking etc, is their fort |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by lorddannie: 11:47am On Oct 16, 2012 |
acidosis™:thou shall not kill. Hahahaha |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by rait56: 11:48am On Oct 16, 2012 |
male or female doesn't fact,because themes rinsing up dependent on of there's parents.environment,so its not fact who is male,who is female?... |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 11:54am On Oct 16, 2012 |
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| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by deesnipes(f): 12:09pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
It takes the grace of God to raise any child be it male or female. I have a very beautiful one year old baby girl and just this last sunday in church 2 boys under age 3 came to her and wanted to peck her and here she was laughing. Immediately my prayer point for her changed to "God please help me to raise this girl in a way that her beauty will not get to her head and that she wiLl be able to take care of herself when neither myself nor her dad or even zubby(her dog) is there".in as much as we teach them right from wrong we should also start praying concerning their future no matter how young they are. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
safarigirl: Disadvantages of Male Children Sounds like you have Ph.D in this. Very well stated and I couldn't agree more with you. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by dasparrow: 12:55pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
@Post Males are more difficult to raise. The bad ones engage in drugs, smoking, cultism, gangs, armed robbery, kidnapping, drug trafficking and heavy alcohol consumption. Add to that the fact that the average black male does not live long. They are more likely to get shot and killed by cops or gang members here in America. White societies are generally weary/suspicious/feel threatened by black males. In Nigeria, males are more likely to get killed by cultists in school or through jungle justice like we saw in the ALUU case. Nowadays, females seem to be doing better career wise and financially wise in comparison to black males. When males get married, their wives become their priority. So, I think I prefer daughters after all, the most powerful black man at the moment (Barack Obama) has 2 daughters. 1 Like |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by swtcharissa(f): 1:03pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
The gal child is more challenging to raise,both of dem r difficult but the gal child is most challenging,financially she has more needs to meet,(creams,accesories,monthly demands,etc)morally too,if a gal child misses her pathway in life,even when she repents,it will continue to be accounted for her,but for a male child,d bad name ends d day he changes,spiritually d gal child has to be well grounded cos she will have to take up intersession for her family tomorrow,n so many oda tins,am tired of typing |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by PedroJP(m): 1:24pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
chucky234: Hmmm my younger sister's daughter consumes food like an adult ooooLwkm |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by PedroJP(m): 1:39pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
meggieblac: I take it most of the posters here have not really seen a bad son. From my personal experiences, i'll rather have a troublesome daughter than a son. Talk about drugs(especially all dis 'igbo' and oda concoctions)which is becoming d fad among young boys. Bad company dat lead dem 2 perform such atrocities you'll b shocked if you knew because d fact is dat guys get mind more than gals. And i'm talking about children whose parents did d best 2 raise dem up well.come to Absu and see women smoking their God damn head out |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by obasijoy(f): 2:16pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
i have a son now and i pray that God should give me another boy. two boys are great for me by God's special grace. i don't think i wanna have stress raising a female child in this generation. but if God gives me one, i will love it but female wahala too much more especially this generation don't know what will happen in the next 20 years, before then 7 ladies to one man as the bible said. if you don't have money to kit them, they must love to go out to look nice, but boys, whether they rub cream, make their hair or put on new cloths, they will still look good and babes must rush them as per as they are handsome and clever. guys are less expensive to maintain. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by igbo2011(m): 2:39pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
ekt_bear: Nah man go on youtube and search for dr warren farrell he will tell you the truth about what's really happening. Also youtube search "why men earn more" it isn't really about sexism its more because men work for longer and are better negotiators for salaries. Also even if men make more money at the end oof the day women spend most of it. That's why most malls are centered around women |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
I don't ve a daughter yet but if my daughter turns out to be like me,she won't need much raising.Even as a teenager,I have always been my own hero.I have sons for now and I don't think I ll encounter much problem with em cos I embrace em wit prayers while doing my job as a mum.Naturally mothers worry more about girls for a woman's life is not easy.I believe both can be a worrisome nightmare if not properly raised and backed up with prayers. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Roland17(m): 3:34pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
Both are very challenging, but try raising a Male child without a father..My God!!!, i don't envy women who go through that, i can only thank God for my wonderful and irreplaceable parents. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by blaise26abj(m): 5:15pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
If my papa wey born 4 boys could say dat he is happy he raised boys instead of girls despite the serious wahala we gave him growing up, then he has some damn good reason to have said that. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by uarikibe: 6:53pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
oh my good sister and only daughter letter fall my hands,including my parents hands,then me a bad boy and rejected son later become the most desired because i latter changed and started taking responsibilities.i always weep when i remeber the mess she involved herself,.when u advice her she tells you she is a graduate nobody can talk to her,she is old to take decisions .this her altitude made me say i dont want to have a girl child,but God knows the best |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
ekt_bear: You lie. Why would u say women earn less than men. Go and observe, think and come back |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by mylifeisagift(m): 8:07pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
ekt_bear:Who said Please speak fact and statistics and not some unruly perception ♍Ɣ good friend.. |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by EfemenaXY: 10:03pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
Neither. Whether male or female, they both need to be brought up properly by parents who love. A newborn child is like a blank slate. Children are what we make them. No child is born "difficult". |
| Re: Male Child Versus Female Child,which Is Difficult To Raise? by irebombo: 12:05am On Oct 17, 2012 |
i love boys alot more than girls for instance whn boys go out and dont cm bk till 11 you are nt soo worry but if its girl you will almost have hbp cause of fear of somebody raping or something boys will always be boys but girls cld get carried away by some stupid guy all in the name of boyfriend. |
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