Every girl wants to be
addressed as a lady. The
truth is this: not every grown up girl is a lady. We have only a few ladies.
A lady does not flash a man
for him to call back.
A lady does not completely
depend on a man for
survival; she does it herself
most times. A lady does not
act or pretend because she
must be accepted by a guy
A lady says whatever is in her mind at all times; she
means what she says and
says what she means.
A lady dresses to bring out
her feminine side by
wearing the right thing for
her body type while being
careful not to expose what
should be properly covered
because she knows it's more appreciated when
hidden. A lady bares it all for her man inside, but hides it from every other man outside.
A lady understands and
values time with her Maker
and God; she knows she is
nothing without Him
A lady does not consume
bottles of beer; she knows
it's 'unladylike'
A lady does not smoke; it's
for riffraffs
A lady understands signs of
the times.
A lady understands government and politics; not just fashion and beauty
A lady does not keep
boyfriends; she nurtures a
relationship.
A lady understands that one
of the ways to a man's
heart is his belly and she
feeds him with the right
things.
A lady understands that her
very long nails is an
evidence that there are things she cannot do in and
for the home.
A lady knows what to eat and what not to eat; she
knows what moisturizer to
use on her body because she values her skin.
A lady cherishes her body
and so she does not give it
to every Tom, Dick, and
Harry.
A lady, not a girl is a friend to her man.
Are you a lady?

Hhmnn
You are trying to make a lady perfect. Oyinbo culture has eaten deep into the norms of womanhood

Nice write up. If only some "ladies" can know how "girly" they really are

*singing,.......If you call am woman, Africa woman nor go greee, she go sayeeeee, she go say 'I b ladi o'*

lol at tom,joystick and harry.