well, in any case, it's soon going to be very hard to even meet anyone who isnt from a broken home, when dating, so whoever is hyperventilating over products of broken marriages, had better find some way of identifying those who meet their criteria.

percentage of broken homes among nigerians is rising.

tpia1: well, in any case, it's soon going to be very hard to even meet anyone who isnt from a broken home, when dating, so whoever is hyperventilating over products of broken marriages, had better find some way of identifying those who meet their criteria.

percentage of broken homes among nigerians is rising.

tpia, are you from a broken home or why are you passionate about this topic like it's a government contract?

this topic again!!!!!!!!!

imagine if Michelle Obama had this mentality when her husband asked for her hand in marriage.

@ coogar

wait for answers to your questions on the interview thread.

in the meantime, ask your cronies to stop spamming the forum with this same topic.

na so una jobless reach?

stpat1:

I wonder why its so hard for you understand this simple logic. I lived in a neighbourhood with kids and friends from both situation. I have friend that were being taken care of by single parents. When were always free to go and do what they liked right from when school closes till when their mum or Dad closes and comes home in the night. All the parents needed to do was ensure there was food in the fridge for them when they get back from school or the others family gives money for lunch. I know how the females ones amongst them also fared. They were more exposed to different stuffs to early as expected when growing up is such situation where there is little or no supervision.

Even the ones whose parents remarried didn't fare too differently because I notice their step mum was always very careful not to make them feel unloved and by this always let them have their way. Unlike other kids with both parents. Others have to live with their grand parents cos they were not comfortable with their step parents and you know grand parents are not usually wary or strong enough to instill the needed discipline and lessons of life to these kids.

I hope with this I've not confused you the more.

hmm, interesting but not accurate.

immorality isnt always a function of broken homes.

true, products of such homes might be a target for loose and immoral people, but that doesnt mean products of two parent homes cant also be immoral.

it depends on what values you were raised with, and what you admire in your parents or background, which you consider normal [even if its not].

i think a couple of posters have explained this in detail.

k2039: Op when did the marital status of one's parent became a requirement for getting married.

For Christ sake,my parent's are seperated,does it mean I wont be a good husband or Father.


For the records,I know I will make a better husband and father because of what I went through,I know the effect a seperated home has on a child,I'm a victim.The last thing I want is my children going through thesame thing I went through.

So,Op it has nothing to do with parents marital status,it has everything to do with the individual,you must have been friends with her enough to know her for who she is,if you are satisfied with her character,then I see no reason why you shouldnt proceed to marriage.

well said...u deserve a peck on ur forehead for this.

ideee03: well said...u deserve a peck on ur forehead for this.

Thanks.

tpia1: @ coogar
wait for answers to your questions on the interview thread.

in the meantime, ask your cronies to stop spamming the forum with this same topic.
na so una jobless reach?

who are the cronies?
what is wrong with anyone asking questions on a forum? isn't that the purpose of a forum in the first place? where people can ask questions, seek answers and share ideas?

Marrying from a broken home is 70/30% because the scripture says you should train a child the way he/she will grow so when they grow old, they will not depart from it and this is applicable to this because a child that grew up in a family that mother and father fights daily will grow up to see it as a normal way of life REMEMBER the impact of our environment to our lifestyle or future. Please if you are a parent, please behave well before your children.

Everything is wrong with it . Don't fall for it.

A serious issue