greatgod2012:

No,one thing i discover about him is dt my kneeling down to beg him after a disagreement melts his heart, and since i have discovered that, i have been using it accordingly. Once he says, honey, i dont like d way u .....blahblar......, i quickly go on my knees and start begging, he rarely allow my knee to touch d floor b4 carrying me up, d next thing is, its over, just dont do that again, and yes, its indeed over as he said it.

Make dis daughter of Jezbel come back from church,weda she like it or not she must read dis comment byforce

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Cuddlemii:

Babes, where have you been? You got me worried!
Just a reminder that your debate is today at 6pm(Nigerian Time)
Make sure you do us proud!

I am around Will be sure to check in, trust me.

JallowBah:

I am around Will be sure to check in, trust me.

Ok, I trust you

@op, sorry for derailing, I had to track this babe down!

(1)yes
(2)He should do it with love

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Of course he's the head of the home. I'l like him to correct me with love like in a sweet way,not trying to be bossy,nd not always trying to remind me that he's the head......

I go wrong,he tells m n I go on my kneels n apology. To crown it all go to the bedroom n have SEX with him.

maclatunji:

Women like you are really handfuls, the only thing there is that your man knows you've got his back and that's really cool.

What would i wanna be interested in anyone's back nitori Olorun, when the front is where all the action is at

Ak47yang: I bet ur still single or mayb ur husband is vry uncaring

I don't subscribe to long thing

I drive a hard bargain, that's all

Busy_body:


What would i wanna be interested in anyone's back nitori Olorun, when the front is where all the action is at





I don't subscribe to long thing

I drive a hard bargain, that's all

Ok- whatever makes you happy.

greatgod2012:

No,one thing i discover about him is dt my kneeling down to beg him after a disagreement melts his heart, and since i have discovered that, i have been using it accordingly. Once he says, honey, i dont like d way u .....blahblar......, i quickly go on my knees and start begging, he rarely allow my knee to touch d floor b4 carrying me up, d next thing is, its over, just dont do that again, and yes, its indeed over as he said it.

I have said it before: WE DONT NEED LL THIS COMPETITION IN THE FAMILY a.k.a "Woman's Right"!

What we need is " A Wife" who knows the "weakness" of her hubby and uses it to full advantage, to keep the home and family HAPPY!

If a man is "egoistic", a woman should be "subtle" enough to know how to massage that ego and get things working!

A SMART WOMAN like you have discovered this principle (compared to all those "gra-gra women"! ), and l bet that you will use that man till all his teeth fall out!

Kudos to women like you!

Let all the "l am too enlightened, l am equal, l am too educated, l am too civilized, l no go gree lai-lai, it is fire-for-fire women, e.t.c", .........continue to "fight a war of gender" in their marriage" while their "smart mates" are enjoying the bliss of being married, as it should be!

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@OP: I dont ever question the headship of "my boy"!

If l offend him or do something out of turn, he will simply demand an explanation (he assumes l will not offend him on purpose!) and l will first apologize and that melts him down!
He knows l dont keep grudges and l always mean my "apology" from the heart.

What follows depends on where we are at that moment.
...if its outside the house, l will touch his nose to mine.
If it is inside the house, somebody go shout o!

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mallorca:
Make dis daughter of Jezbel come back from church,weda she like it or not she must read dis comment by force.

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This person waan make me crase with laughter!

Maybe you go do "wife swap"?

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chaircover: Hello Mrs Lastpage

This time I know who is posting

Damn, how did you know that?
We try to keep it 'gender neutral'!

You sharp sahh, wetin!
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Hello Maam, How are you doing today?
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Cheers.

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^^^^^^^^
No worries, next time l will take 'note'!

Cheers.

Lastpage.

(He laughs after reading my post and promises not to "fall that easily" next time!)

And he just fell again...right now, this cold night!

Can anyone PLEASE explain what it means to accept the man as Head of the Family? Just to make sure, we're talking about the same thing here.

carefreewannabe: Can anyone PLEASE explain what it means to accept the man as Head of the Family? Just to make sure, we're talking about the same thing here.

Kinda like the boss

jidegirl12:

Kinda like the boss

A very direct response. Yup! The oga of the household, just like the President is the leader of Nigeria.

Nice topic maclatunji, from the responses it is clear what answer 2 is from answer 1. It is also clear from answer 2 that answer 1 shows clearly how that family is run. Very funny but these 2 question (call them trick questions) clearly show how happy these women are in their families. I think we all have a lot to learn here. Would like to see how the men would respond if this was their question.
1. Does your wife agree you are the head of the home.
2. How do you correct your wife, when she has pissed the hell out of you. NB: not the normal pissing offf oh. The serious pissed the hell out of you. Lolz. Good morning house.

Afamdman: Nice topic maclatunji, from the responses it is clear what answer 2 is from answer 1. It is also clear from answer 2 that answer 1 shows clearly how that family is run. Very funny but these 2 question (call them trick questions) clearly show how happy these women are in their families. I think we all have a lot to learn here. Would like to see how the men would respond if this was their question.
1. Does your wife agree you are the head of the home.
2. How do you correct your wife, when she has pissed the hell out of you. NB: not the normal pissing offf oh. The serious pissed the hell out of you. Lolz. Good morning house.

Thank you for the compliments. Question 1 that you propose for men would recieve subjective responses that might not reflect reality.

For question 2, you might get responses that are not ideal for a happy marriage. My question 2 focused on how women want their husbands to apply their authority in a situation that can easily create serious conflict in the marriage if not properly handled.

Don't worry, I have questions for men too and they will really get us thinking.

Afamdman: Nice topic maclatunji, from the responses it is clear what answer 2 is from answer 1. It is also clear from answer 2 that answer 1 shows clearly how that family is run. Very funny but these 2 question (call them trick questions) clearly show how happy these women are in their families. I think we all have a lot to learn here. Would like to see how the men would respond if this was their question.
1. Does your wife agree you are the head of the home.
2. How do you correct your wife, when she has pissed the hell out of you. NB: not the normal pissing offf oh. The serious pissed the hell out of you. Lolz. Good morning house.

I have got questions for men here:

Questions For Married Men
https://www.nairaland.com/1114131/questions-married-men

jidegirl12:

Kinda like the boss

Smart girl.

Busy_body:
1) Of course he is the Head, he wears the "trouser" in the relationship, I just tell him which "ones" to wear all the time

2) He married Mrs Right - I am always "right" so there is no room to entertain "wrong" in my dictionary

U couldn't have said it better.

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This person waan make me crase with laughter!

Maybe you go do "wife swap"?

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Madam, abeg tell oga to reply my mail.

And please tell him his attention is needed here:

https://www.nairaland.com/1110924/introducing-family-section-reality-show

Best regards,

Tgirl.

greatgod2012:

No,one thing i discover about him is dt my kneeling down to beg him after a disagreement melts his heart, and since i have discovered that, i have been using it accordingly. Once he says, honey, i dont like d way u .....blahblar......, i quickly go on my knees and start begging, he rarely allow my knee to touch d floor b4 carrying me up, d next thing is, its over, just dont do that again, and yes, its indeed over as he said it.

I should definetely try this. ..but not the kneeling part though lol

jidegirl12:

Kinda like the boss

Does it mean he has got the final say in everything and always?
Does it also mean that he has got more responsibilities? If yes, what kind of responsibilities?

carefreewannabe:

Does it mean he has got the final say in everything and always?
Does it also mean that he has got more responsibilities? If yes, what kind of responsibilities?

Well ... if its not gonna hurt your feelings ...Yeah he has the final say more ! Now don't get me wrong ... not petty final says like money and makeup.

Of course you both have to sit down and talk about it before a decision is made but for someone like me that is very busy and don't like dragging things I'd say yeah .

I think being the Head has to do with respect

And for Responsibilities ... Not necessarily ... he might and the wife can pitch in too to help .... it all depends on the family you know.... Whatever works for you.

I also think its a cultural thing; he's your husband and you have to respect him.

I hope that helps a little...

baby_123:

Baby ... Why now

jidegirl12:


Well ... if its not gonna hurt your feelings ...Yeah he has the final say more ! Now don't get me wrong ... not petty final says like money and makeup.

Of course you both have to sit down and talk about it before a decision is made but for someone like me that is very busy and don't like dragging things I'd say yeah .

I think being the Head has to do with respect

And for Responsibilities ... Not necessarily ... he might and the wife can pitch in too to help .... it all depends on the family you know.... Whatever works for you.

I also think its a cultural thing; he's your husband and you have to respect him.

I hope that helps a little...

Ok, does respectig someone mean that you have to do what the person says? And doesn't he have to respect you too?

So if your husband decides to take in a second wife, it's his final say that counts, right?

Am just asking ...

carefreewannabe:

Ok, does respectig someone mean that you have to do what the person says? And doesn't he have to respect you too?

So if your husband decides to take in a second wife, it's his final say that counts, right?

Am just asking ...

Well well ..... Well partially like I already said , some women don't accept that and things still runs out smoothly in their homes....and culturally yes .

Of course we all have our choices too.... He's not gonna boss you around if you married a good guy.... respect is reciprocal... even at work it as to be mutual or it'll be a hell hole.

Taking in a second wife? That one na serious matter o! First of...I didn't marry a Moslem ... so I don't expect that shocker ever!


If you marry a Moslem ... then I guess you've got no say on that o...WORD!

Is everything alright carefree? You dey scare me o!

noble_gas1:

Are you married or single?

Doesn't have any bearing on my perspective either way.