edunmain: Who can adopt me pls?

edunmain: Thanks folks. Your advice are encouraging. it is my present predicaments that make me feel I need a family to hookup with.

Currently I am in my Second stage of the ICAN ATSWA ie ATSII and planning to write the march diet next year. I am also computer literate. It has been easy trying to get yourself education. Currently I have no job and for sometimes now I have been looking for part time jobs that will give me time to read and attends Tutorials for my studies. If I could get a part time job that could put food on my table and assist with my studies I will be so grateful but right now I am helpless.

edunmain: Thanks folks. Your advice are encouraging. it is my present predicaments that make me feel I need a family to hookup with.

Currently I am in my Second stage of the ICAN ATSWA ie ATSII and planning to write the march diet next year. I am also computer literate. It has been easy trying to get yourself education. Currently I have no job and for sometimes now I have been looking for part time jobs that will give me time to read and attends Tutorials for my studies. If I could get a part time job that could put food on my table and assist with my studies I will be so grateful but right now I am helpless.

RudySmith:

Is it really the care of a family that u r looking for or the *help* of a family?

inwangobio:
My brother you dont have any problem, you are in lagos where you have alot of things going on, you dont need a very high paying part time job, you just need something to keep you going till you finish your professional stuff. Just try something and trust God to pick you up, people like you are the ones that normally tell stories of great turn around in their lives. Be focused and believe that God is taking you somewhere. One day you will also be an encouragement to some other person, so keep your hope alive.

baby_123: OP, I get you. You know what you need? A mentor. You are looking for a family because you have never experienced the love of one. Most people don't. You seem like a very smart guy who is going to be very successful. For you to have achieved all this despite your challenges in life is very admirable. Most people will just sit down and cry 'why me'. You will get a job, have you tried applying? Try to make up a cv and pass it around at a company you see yourself in. When you start work look for a mentor. A male with strong values, that you know loves his family and doesn't engage in vices like excessive smoking, drinking and womanizing. That mentor will take you under his wing and may even make you a part of his family. Work hard and work on bringing all your siblings together. You will never starve with an ICAN. I even think you need to be protected sef from the sharks when you make it. Some one looking for love and acceptance is easy easy prey. Forget a family, most are very unhappy, with a lot of drama you don't even need right now. Cling unto the memories of your parents and pull your siblings back together under one roof. Goodluck.

edunmain:

Thank you baby_123 and God Bless You.
Yes I have a CV and I have been submitting some. I just pray that the job that will accommodate my lectures and tutorials. It would have been easy if I am not doing the ATS programme, and all the same I don't want to give up on my education.

Thanks once again.

edunmain: I'm a male in my early 20s. I lost my mum and dad when I was very young and since then have been living with one family member or the other. I have other siblings too 2boys and a girl. I just need a family that will show me love that I have missed in live. I'm a native of Abeokuta in Ogun State though I grew up here in Lagos. My email is edunmain@yahoo.com

Efemena_xy:

So say for example, you meet someone / a couple who've expressed mild interest - how do you go about convincing them to take you on?

Apart from giving them sob stories, that is...

Efemena_xy: ^^ You haven't answered the question.

How do you go about convincing a couple to take you - and adult male, on? Or better still, how do you sell yourself to them?

Assuming they're still undecided and could go either way - for or against? And most importantly, what do they stand to gain from such an association?

These are very simple questions I've asked you. If you can't provide direct answers, it only goes to show that your intentions aren't honourable!

Efemena_xy: ^^ You haven't answered the question.

How do you go about convincing a couple to take you - and adult male, on? Or better still, how do you sell yourself to them?

Assuming they're still undecided and could go either way - for or against? And most importantly, what do they stand to gain from such an association?

These are very simple questions I've asked you. If you can't provide direct answers, it only goes to show that your intentions aren't honourable!

ifyalways: What you need is a job, pure and simple. The "emotional story" aint really important. You've pulled through to this point so what gives? No real employer would want to employ a "cry baby" so put yourself together. You're wayyy better off than some people with both parents and grands alive.

Go to the job section and keep trying.
PS:anyone above 6years is only eligible for "fostering" and not adoption.