A car travelling on "Third Mainland" Bridge in Lagos is fully supported by the integrity of the bridge. It doesn't matter what the driver may be feeling, or thinking about, or discussing with someone in the passenger seat. What gets the car safely to the other side is the integrity of the bridge, which the driver was willing to trust.

In the same way, God asks us to trust his integrity, his character...his compassion, love, wisdom, righteousness on our behalf. He says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love, therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you." "Trust in him at all times, O people. Pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us."

In marriage sometimes its hard to maintain a strong prayer life with your spouse. When hubby annoys you or you have upset each other, its hard to open up in prayer fully. Prayer, like I've mentioned before is very intimate.

I come from the proverbial broken home. It did something to me, it made me feel like marriage wasn't meant to be for life. Before I ever got married, I always had a voice in my head telling me my marriage would just be a time bomb and wouldn't last. I don't know if anyone out there can relate with that but what it does is that when things aren't going right in the marriage you feel the exit is right there, 24 hours a day 7 days a week. A very bad formula for tolerance and patience, love, long-suffering, dedication and endurance. http:///UaAdkh