Hey guys,thanks so much with ur responses/advices/yabbings on my previous post, i tell y'all, am blessed i registered here! Now, d current problem is, i cant seem to let go of my control issues with my wife, am afraid people will get to her and manipulate her just as they did to all my other exes b4 i met my wife! My so called "protection" to her is actually controlling her,i really want to let her be n just trust her but i can't seem to! Pls what do i do? I love my wife dearly,but i dont want her falling into my mum's manipulative trap,n at d same time,i dont want her at arm's length with my mom!

Am terribly confused!

Keep her away from your mother. You can't have one without the other. Better a home at peace than a home in disarray. Don't confuse your affection for your mother with maintaining the stability of your marriage.

Let you mum be your mum and your wife, your wife. Their functions are different.