^{Ok,people, let's forget about this Valentine Madness for once. . . .it's same thing every year. . everyday should be a valentine between you and your spouse. . .lol}

ok, anyways, in some relationships, some spouse may prefer their partner to be stubborn (to be opinionated and be able to state what's on His/Her mind, to disagree with spouse when He/She thinks He/She is right)
or some spouses prefer their partner to me submissive ( agrees all the time, does not state what's on her mind, let's just say prefers to be "obedient and submits no matter what!!)

so, NLers, which do you prefer in your partner. . .
A) Stubbornness
b) Submissive
c) A little bit of both


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okaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy! oh omo ekiti

i preffer a likkle of both

i cant have a yes-man,neither can i stand an opinionated ,stubborn man

there cant be 2 hard-headed peeps in a relationship " "

a little bit of both.
I'm not comfortable with passive women neither do i have much patience for a bone head.

Option "C" of course!  2 people can/should never be mad at the same time in any marriage or relationship.  If both are--akara don scatter for oil be that!

I choose the option "C". I dey fear person who be gra-gra or submission pupo wahala for me.  

tRoOE:


I will rather go with the hot head because my guy stubbornness turns me on , prefer someone that doesn't let me get my ways all the time.

wait until u are married and see whether the stubborness still turns u on.

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i like a lil bit of both. . .and NLers, dnt tell anyone this, but stubbornness does turn me on too. . .sure, i'll like him to be submissive, but i dnt like a guy that always let me do as i please, so annoying!!
be a man, and show you can handle me in a relationship. . .too much submission is b-o-r-i-n-g!!!

A little bit of both for me. I can be way too stubborn (except where my mom's concerned) but am stopping it 'poco a poco' .

yeah he's got to be stubborn. i cant stand submissive men (euuuuggggggghhhhhhh!!!!!!). but he's got to know where to draw the line. it won't work all the time, and he's got to be malleable to my wishes sometimes . i wouldn't necessarily call it submissiveness. i'd say he should know when to compromise on his stance.

a little bit a both.

actually i like more stubborness than anything _{maybe cos am really stubborn} I like the challenge. Its invigorating. I like a good fight.

how do you say. . .she stoops to conquer . . .i think it goes

Who wants a "yes ma" guy? And who wants a dogmatic brute? C all the way!!!!!!!!!!!
But by comparing the two I really can't stand the submissive guy.

stillwater:

Who wants a "yes ma" guy? And who wants a dogmatic brute? C all the way!!!!!!!!!!!
But by comparing the two I really can't stand the submissive guy.

feel ya,babe.

hot heads turn me on, i love challenges