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Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by cap28: 2:47pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: keep quiet you daft id.iot - you do not think logically. what has being the lone male among a sea of beautiful, strong and ambitious women got to do with sex.ual abuse? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: False. @cap28, don't mind sagamite, the guy has a lot of delusions running around in his head. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 2:49pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
cap28: If they were beautiful, they will not need to sexually molest you. fellis: Would you date him? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: lol I don't know him outside Nairaland so I can't answer your question. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by cap28: 2:54pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: more importantly the question should be: Is Sagamite dating material or just another broken down bitter man whose self esteem has been battered beyond recognition? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 2:57pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
fellis: So the answer is basically "No" despite all the values he espoused? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() cap28: Mugu, you see when I said you do not know women? person, if we just use only NL, I can extrapolate that in life for every woman that you find that would date you, I will (conservatively) find a minimum of 4 that will date me. ![]() ![]() ![]() And the quality would also be higher. You will get mondi_cheeks. ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by josite: 2:59pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
really it bothers me that the old great art of chasing is becoming extinct and the women are to be blamed.90 percent of the prettiest black wowen today are available for immediate sex if you have good money to give out.so why bother with poems when all the babe wants is cash.and when i hav the cash why waste my time. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: Please feel free to twist my reply to give whatever interpretation you are happy with; I won't stop you. People need self delusion sometimes to retain their sanity. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
josite: really it bothers me that the old great art of chasing is becoming extinct and the women are to be blamed. 90 percent of the prettiest black wowen today are available for immediate sex if you have good money to give out. Wow. That is some kick äss statistical findings right there so why bother with poems when all the babe wants is cash.and when i hav the cash why waste my time. So what you are saying is that you have no shame and sleep with whores? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by cap28: 3:04pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: so why are you STILL struggling to get a date? if women were running you down - i can assure you, you wouldnt be on NL 24/7 - lets compare posting history - why is it that a busy playboy like you spends most of his waking hours on NL when he should be out banging all his groupies? any answers? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
cap28: I am also curious about this. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:07pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
fellis: You couldn't even pity him and help him save a little face with "maybe", not even to talk of "I would based on what he says on NL but I would need to know him more in real life". Stop deluding yourself. You would not touch the mentally-deranged reetard with a barge-pool. cap28: person, are you espousing your moronic education's "facts" again? Why do you think I am struglling to get a date? ![]() ![]() ![]() I get a lot of dates but they just want to fck me and go. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I never get to be friends like you. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by kalufelix(m): 3:08pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
ChopUrMoni:u claim u dont knw the meanin of the ID yet u rephrased to smth dat is more suitable 4 yhu because p-square actually sang 'chop ma moni' nat 'chop ur moni' by the way who spelt it 4 u without tellin u the meanin or did psquare sing the song with subtitle mayb nat spelt correctly but dat statement contains 2 english words or is it the corrupt english(chop) dat u dont undastand LIAR!! |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:10pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
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Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:10pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
fellis: What makes you think I am not at my babymamas' residences when I post? You think technological access are only in one location in the 21st century, Mrs cap28? ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: I gave a realistic answer; reading a person's posts on Nairaland is not enough to know whether or not you would be able to date them in real life. How do you not know this? ![]() If I had given the'pity' answer you speak of, you would probably have said I am lying and I cannot decide that I can date him simply because I read his posts. ![]()
Why does this not surprise me? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: You might as well be alone in your house if you can be in your baby mama's house and still be able to devote so much of your time to Nairaland and not to your |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:14pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
fellis: Stop deluding yourself. You would not touch him with a barge-pole. You know he is not mentally balanced! Cut the crap! fellis: Abi o!!! Women are so selfish and heartless when they want to use a good boy. ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:16pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
fellis: I can multitask ..................................sexually. It is avant-garde lovemaking I am developing with women. Expert here! ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by zynzyn(m): 3:16pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
fellis: ypzilanti: @ypzilanti THANK GOD FOR YOU! I WAS ABOUT TO BE EATEN RAW! In case @fellis does not remember the topic, she should check it out. Why don't men chase women like before. Men chased women before because they were more sure of their virginity, submission and character, so the wait was worth it. I have noticed women don't like the blunt truth. So saaaad! You want a man to love you on your own terms. Hardly happens, unless you want a smooth heartbreaker (eventually!!) Subconsciously, the man sees control as a guarantee of the woman's fidelity! An honest Nigerian man typically would not allow his wife bear the name Omosexy for instance (invitation to other guys). All due respect to Omotola. Relationships are about choice. If you choose to marry a sincere man, expect some dominance traits because for instance, you bear his name!! Anyone reading this, please confirm or destroy me if i lie! |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by cap28: 3:16pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: fine, unlike you im not so delusional that i hinge my self worth on what people say about people they have never met in real life . the fact of the matter is people can say anything online - this is virtual reality but i know reality is something you are unfamiliar with. person, are you espousing your moronic education "facts" again? i dont think you're struggling - I KNOW YOU ARE STRUGGLING BRO!! lets face it , if women were queuing around the block for you you wouldnt be on an online forum ranting bitterly about women, guys who have women running them down are way too busy for that - trust me bro - i know ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Everyone is entitled to his/ her opinion. Am female, and I don't like being chased! You should be able to tell if you like a guy or not the first time you meet. Straight to the point. I remember a past experience whereby this guy kept on chasing me, after refusing him and giving my reasons, he never gave up. Sending crazy text messages, calling even at odd times. I blocked his number, he use another one. He mentioned that, he realized when ladies says no, they actually don't mean it but waiting for the guy to chase them more. That day was the last day I declared him a lunatic,. WTF ![]() Ladies, forget this chase or being chased,if you like something, go for it...if you keep pretending, one day you will regret what you have missed in this life. Let your yes be yes, and no be no. Forget about let me think about it,(after3months, u still dey think). Abeg, life is too short ! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:19pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
cap28: No, you are a person with a personality that can not attract desirous comments from women. cap28: So how did 113 girls break my heart? ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite:| | V fellis: Please feel free to twist my reply to give whatever interpretation you are happy with; I won't stop you. People need self delusion sometimes to retain their sanity. Abi o!!! No one wants to be with you. The girls are not to be blamed for your aloneness ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:21pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Vikin: Everyone is entitled to his/ her opinion. Well said! Empathy for the psycho that was harassing you. fellis: Oh, God, I am so lonely! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: lol Having sėx while typing on Nairaland. That is a first. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: Improve your personality, maybe girls will want to be with you then. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:27pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
fellis: Okay tell me what else I could have done to not let all those 113 girls break my heart. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How can I be friends with them like cap28 is your friend? ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by cap28: 3:28pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: let me guess - because you are delusional and suffering from the personality disorder known as narcisstic personality disorder? According to Wikepedia: Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder[1] in which the individual is described as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity. This condition affects one percent of the population.[2][3] First formulated in 1968, it was historically called megalomania, and it is closely linked to egocentrism. symptoms: Reacting to criticism with anger, shame, or humiliation Taking advantage of others to reach their own goals Exaggerating their own importance, achievements, and talents Imagining unrealistic fantasies of success, beauty, power, intelligence, or romance Requiring constant attention and positive reinforcement from others Becoming jealous easily Lacking empathy and disregarding the feelings of others Being obsessed with oneself Pursuing mainly selfish goals Trouble keeping healthy relationships Becoming easily hurt and rejected Setting goals that are unrealistic Wanting "the best" of everything Appearing unemotional http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder#Symptoms A SNAPSHOT OF THE TURMOIL RAGING INSIDE SAGAMITE'S MIND IN A FEW BULLET POINTS- ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 3:30pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
cap28: Have you checked wiki for what your mental problems are? ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
zynzyn: Are the men themselves virgins? What I don't understand is why men that are not virgins insist that women should be virgins before they will be able to marry them. The hypocrisy of some men is legendary. I have noticed women don't like the blunt truth. So saaaad!Your idea of 'blunt truth' is whatever opinion you are happy with ![]() ![]() You want a man to love you on your own terms. Hardly happens, unless you want a smooth heartbreaker (eventually!!)Love shouldn't be on the terms of a single person, it should be on the terms of both the man and the woman. Cooperation is the keyword here. Subconsciously, the man sees control as a guarantee of the woman's fidelity! All this your misguided beliefs about how men are supposed to control women stem from your religious indoctrinations. Put religion aside and you would have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to support your opinion that men should always control women. Lastly, women bearing the name of their husbands is not in the Bible or the Qur'an so I wonder why people still uphold this crap tradition. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by cap28: 3:34pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
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