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Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by freecocoa(f): 11:44pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times. A few months is ok in my opinion. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Can ladies give me one reason why I need to "pursue" them If fugly ar.se Flavor Flav could get ladies running after him because of success, why would I want to "pursue" women, when I can "pursue" success and get multitudes of women "pursuing" me? Really and truly, most guys are wiser now and they know how the game is.... Don't blame guys for a change in mentality, blame the "modern woman" for being a cheap commodity... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 11:46pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
teeowl: She knows that too and that's more reason why guys like that don't eventually get them because the girl sense he is suffering from a low self esteem. And for those who get them they lose them easily later because they realised what they waited and chased for so long was overated. A guy with a good self esteem understand know girl is worth overating, what simply makes a lady a lady is the hole in between her legs. You here the 'real men'(mumus) say things like she is the nicest(if she was, she wouldnt stree him that much), she is intelligent(as if she is the only intelligent female in the world), she is the most beautiful, I can go on and on, but in reality the statement just reflects plain and simple stupidity. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times. Did you just say a few months That's too long!! |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
shymexx: Can ladies give me one reason why I need to "pursue" them Same here o, Money changes everything Career too important . |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:49pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times. Now u coming closer to reality... however Valuable men don't wait for a few months... Asking a guy to wait a few months (assuming that means 3 months) means he has to ask you out 12 times (assuming he has ask u out every friday = 4 x 3)... this is still to much for the Modern Day Valuable Guy!!! Ugly, broke, low self esteemed, awkward guys can wait that long and ask a girl out 12 times... BUT NOT the guys that have gotten their act together! |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 11:49pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
shymexx: That's the real issue. Become succesful, have money, a good career etc and the girls will chase you, in fact you have a wide variety to choose from. A reasonable person will rather focus on achieving success in life than chase a girl. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Afam4eva(m): 11:51pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
It's just that majority of guys don't pursue ladies because what they really want from these ladies are plenty in the market so they won't waste their time and resources going to sokoto when what they're looking for is in their sokoto. A few guys still pursue ladies though. It's most;y those that are looking for wives and not girlfriends aka fvckmates. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by A40(m): 11:52pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times.Why would I ask a girl out 4 times? Does she owe me money? I be Quasimodo? Hahaha for wetin!! The older us men get the more the pendulum swings in our favor anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by kalufelix(m): 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
ekiyor3: just passing ohcome bak here and comment!! *grabs his ear nd pulls him bak* 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by vislabraye(m): 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
These days, men are better economics. We have our scale of preference. @poster. Why would you want a man to pursue you in the first place? Because you have a big ego. The truth is that you want someone to massage your ego. There are more willing girls and probably more virtuous ones. From experience and observation, women prefer to chase men than for men to chase them. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by freecocoa(f): 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
shymexx:I said I don't want to argue but I can't ignore this so... Do you expect her to just say yes immediately? I don't and won't say yes just like that, just how do you expect me to find out the basic things I need to know before agreeing to date a guy if I say yes just when he first asked? P.S, Flavor is one hell of a fine and sexy guy, stop hating and hit the gym to get abs like his . 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
pc guru: Bro., that's how the game goes - you have to be a step ahead of them... And when you 'arrive', let them do the chasing, not the other way around... |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by sportfeva(m): 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
@op:you thought right and that depict true love. Women should not fall easily but a way of testing the passion and maturity of the guy. I remember during my teenage days in FGC. Their was this girl i seems to love through studying her. When i finally approach her ƒor a date, she said she is into a serious relationship and i broke down easily. I told a close friend of mine then and he said that a fat lie. We argued but we reach a conclusion okay you go give a try. He did and they were dating. I was shocked and a shame. Mind you she told my friend the same as well but he was committed but at the end he was a player. Not the serious type like me considering the genesis which i state. It really change my mindset that even up to an engaged lady, i will still go ƒor if the love is there. So i reason with you. Nice article. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by HarvardGrad: 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
omo_to_dun: @ Ladies lol at the bolded |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
k2039: GBAMEST... And the more successful you become, the better the quality of chics you'll attract... |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by freecocoa(f): 11:56pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
teeowl:Okay then, how short a time do you think asking and accepting should take? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:56pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
shymexx:chasing babes is not my thing because i have too much debtors to chase instead |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by zoomzu(f): 11:59pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Pursue women ke, when I have a clean car, I use iphone and BB Bold 5, they are the one to pursue me after the first free ride. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 12:00am On Dec 22, 2012 |
A-40: Well said! |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:01am On Dec 22, 2012 |
freecocoa: Okay then, how short a time do you think asking and accepting should take?My offer is valid for a week. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 12:02am On Dec 22, 2012 |
freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times. I have nothing better to do with my life? What is she doing that I need to ask her more than even 2 times? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 22, 2012 |
freecocoa: I said I don't want to argue but I can't ignore this so... The bone of contention is; what difference does it make Finding out the basic things is just a fallacy, there are too many fakers out there, trust me... |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:02am On Dec 22, 2012 |
pc guru: |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by freecocoa(f): 12:03am On Dec 22, 2012 |
k2039: My offer is valid for a week.I'm supposed to know all I think I should about you in a week abi? You best move along cos you don't want me. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 12:03am On Dec 22, 2012 |
pc guru: Lmaoooo... Same here - I'm on the paper chase... |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by freecocoa(f): 12:04am On Dec 22, 2012 |
shymexx:Yeah well, I'd rather try and fail than not try at all. And that's how cocoa see it. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 12:04am On Dec 22, 2012 |
freecocoa: I said I don't want to argue but I can't ignore this so... You are going to the Extreme end of the scenario! You are not getting it... The point here is this -> If a guy asks a girl out she should say yes after the 2nd, 3rd or 4th attempt. When she is on a date with him, she should ask mini-questions to access the kind of guy she is dealing with. Girls need to increase their level of intelligence in being able to discern the kind of guy that he is! This strategy is a lot better than expecting him to chase for months. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by toshmann(m): 12:05am On Dec 22, 2012 |
freecocoa: Btw I'm not in support of chasing a lady for years o cos I don't think any girl that really wants you would make you wait that long, where I don't agree with you guys is that you only have to ask a girl about 4 times.A little secret for you girls. Any guy who understands the game of hard to get is a PLAYER and while he's waiting patiently for you to fall, there another girl somewhere keeping his "ekwenche" functional. The good guys don't know this hard to get thing, don't have time, and are easily intimidated by the first NO. So be careful what you want. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by freecocoa(f): 12:08am On Dec 22, 2012 |
teeowl:And I'll say it again, I need to know somethings about that dude before going on a date with him, I'd rather know first then in the middle of it. If he can't wait a few months then to abyss with him, it would only mean one thing to me which is that, it was never meant to be cos if it was, he'd be willing to wait, simple. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 12:08am On Dec 22, 2012 |
Who likes sports on the thread?? You lot need to peep how J. R. Smith denied K. Michelle on twitter - classic shiit.. Ol'girl thought she won the jackpot by clinging to "success" - however, my man denied her straight up... That's what comes with success, you let them do the chasing and pick them.... |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Sagamite(m): 12:08am On Dec 22, 2012 |
k2039: You should jump through all the hurdles to find what? Some even jump through all the hurdles to land in ho-land. |
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